Author: Jia Ruoshui ordered a book to say, "Too much money makes you weak, so you are afraid of your wife and listen to the domestic language." In fact, this sentence is not very objective and comprehensive. The real fear of the wife's life will only be established if certain conditions are met. From the point of view of modern people, there is no standard statement about the so-called fear of his wife. If a man really cares about his wife, he will respect and cherish his wife from the heart, which is a manifestation of love. Donnie Yen also said a classic famous saying when he was playing Ip Man: "There are no men who are afraid of their wives, only men who respect their wives!" Just like this, fear is not real fear, but respect and cherish, which is also a phenomenon to promote family harmony. However, this phenomenon is often understood by male chauvinists as timidity, which invisibly exaggerates the statement of being afraid of his wife. So for numerology, there are still some ancient feudal ideas that men are superior to women, but from the point of view of modern people, it has gone bad. In fact, there are many men who are "afraid of their wives" in history. Among them, the story of Fang Xuanling, the founding father of the Tang Dynasty, is often told by later generations. Once, Fang Xuanling was seriously ill and felt that he was at the critical moment of his life, so he said to his wife: My illness may not be cured, so I guess I will die soon. You are still young and cannot be widowed. You should be kind to later men. After hearing this, his wife, Lu, said nothing, entered the tent in tears and even gouged out one eye for Fang Xuanling to show her determination not to marry another man. Soon, Fang Xuanling's body recovered, and since then, his attitude towards his wife Lushi has changed a hundred and eighty degrees, which is quite respectful. Later, Li Shimin, Emperor Taizong, gave him several beautiful women because of Fang Xuanling's contribution, while Fang Xuanling refused to accept the thought of his wife Lushi. Li Shimin saw Fang Xuanling's mind and thought that the story must be his wife's reason. So he asked the queen to persuade Lushi that it was the rule of the court to reward beautiful women, but Lushi resolutely disagreed. Li Shimin is also very helpless, so he has to send a message to Lushi, saying that if Lushi really won't let Fang Xuanling take a concubine, then he will only be given a cup of "poisoned wine". Who knows that Mrs. Fang listened to the message, and without any hesitation, she took the "poisoned wine" and gulped it down. As a result, Lu was not poisoned, because what he drank was not "poisoned wine", but vinegar. Since then, the word "jealous" has been popular to this day. Later, when Emperor Taizong heard about this, he sighed: I am afraid of meeting such a woman, let alone Fang Xuanling! "It can be seen that" being afraid of his wife "is not really afraid, but a kind of respect and cherish, and it is a manifestation of caring. Moreover, "being afraid of his wife" can often stimulate a man to strive to start a career in order to achieve higher achievements to prove his ability or improve the imbalance between body, mind and feelings in the family. Qi Jiguang in the Ming Dynasty was such a figure. Although he was "afraid of his wife", his brilliant record was also attributed to his wife. The author knows that only Maxima writes: "Men are weak when they are rich, but their wives are partial to their words", which is the most pertinent. It only talks about partial listening, but does not emphasize fear, because no matter how prosperous the wealth stars are, they are all things that the Japanese Lord can resist, especially the positive wealth stars, and they have a relationship with the Japanese Lord of the opposite sex. How can the Japanese Lord be afraid of it? Therefore, people who are too strong in the number and strength of the eight-character fortune, even if they don't have a positive print and help each other, only show that the Japanese master has limited control over the fortune star, and the scope of its possession is not extensive. Moreover, most of these people are gentle, self-satisfied, and quite cheerful to their wives. Most of them are used to taking care of their housework and economic income, listening to their wives' suggestions and respecting their opinions. This is the embodiment of partial listening. Moreover, he can also allow his wife to engage in more social or business activities, which shows that his wife is also a capable person. Of course, her temperament is generally impatient and strong. Thus, a man who is rich and weak is not necessarily afraid of his wife, but rather respects him.