One: Don’t believe those people who always report that so and so is scolding you

Two: Don’t believe those people who praise and praise you endlessly as soon as they see you

Three : Don’t hate those who have publicly argued with you or criticized you

Four: Never arrange for some people to collect what others say about you behind your back

Five: Never do it in public, Using your own rights to gather some people to talk about what others say about you is tantamount to demolishing yourself

Six: Do not answer any attacks on your life, only discuss meaningful things

< p>Seven: Do not defend yourself (under normal circumstances), but you can clarify some views, some choices, some rights and wrongs

8: It doesn’t matter if you are confused or take the blame for a while, you are still you , he is still him.

A person who cannot bear the blame can only be a weak person

Nine: Don’t reject people casually, don’t agree to people casually, don’t appease people, and don’t show off your strength

Ten : Not eager to express yourself, nor eager to correct others, just watching, listening, and pondering

Eleven: Don’t talk about other people’s merits behind their back

Twelve: Remember , interpersonal relationships are always two-way, how you treat others, how they treat you

Thirteen: Never accept incitement or provocation

Fourteen: When getting along with others, Never consider what you can get out of it

Fifteen: Never think that anyone who comes into contact with you is stupider, smarter than you, or easier to fool than you

Sixteen : When you are surprised by someone or something, first think about the benefits. He may be helping you, at least objectively he will not harm you, and never immediately assume that others are hostile

Seventeen: Always Don't get entangled with anyone, your performance is the best answer and comfort to people

Eighteen: Look for points of union and harmony instead of just focusing on contradictions and differences, and always be safe, calm and calm. , treat differences as normal, regard different opinions as reality, criticize friends instead of acting like needles

Nineteen: Never talk and think about problems from the perspective of personal interests, never "I, me, me" "When arguing with others, rationalize the argument, don't make it personal

Twenty: Treat the handling of interpersonal relationships as a special course, from which we can grasp our national conditions, history, society, structure, philosophy, tradition and fashion Thoughts