In the TV series In the Name of the Family, many people think that Chen Ting, Ling Xiao's mother, is great. Obviously, she left her daughter in the care of her son, locked the door and played mahjong, and his son fed his sister walnuts at home, which caused her throat to suffocate and die. But in the end, she put the blame on her son and husband, and finally she couldn't stand it. She divorced, leaving poor Ling Xiao alone.

Admittedly, Chen Ting was wrong, but it was not Chen Ting's fault that led to the divorce. Ling Xiao's father, Ling Heping, is also responsible. Speaking of it, Chen Ting is also a poor man.

Really, Li Ming understands.

It is so rude to suddenly leave, such an act of abandoning her husband and children, in the eyes of the world, but Li Mingbo, as he told Ling Heping, can't pass. If no one helps her, she can't get through and has to leave. Li hit the nail on the head!

On the one hand, Chen Ting's heart is her dead daughter. In her mind, this hurdle has never been seen. She may realize that it is her fault, so she leads a depressed life. She wants to vent and comfort people. But her husband is busy with work all the year round and can't go home. No one told her the pain in her heart, so she was depressed, she couldn't get out by herself, and no one could help her.

The long-term pain of losing her daughter is enough to cause serious mental illness, but as a husband and father, can Ling Heping escape from her heart and keep talking when quarreling? I thought we agreed not to mention it. ? He ran away as soon as something happened, and even Li Jianjian knew that finding a husband could not be like finding Ling's father.

On the other hand, Chen Ting's pressure comes from the outside world. Neighbors know their family's situation, and they can't stand the pressure of public opinion before moving out, thinking that things will get better after moving out and jumping out of the old environment. However, because of the quarrel after moving, this incident was still heard by neighbors, so she was afraid to go out to communicate, and she was afraid of exposing her dirty clothes and bearing external pressure.

Some people will say that Ling Heping is a policeman and will be very busy. He should have been mentally prepared from the moment he married the police, but the police were really not that busy. He is just a policeman. Sometimes he is on duty for others. Ling Heping's career description in the play is still too one-sided or even thin, so no one can understand his busyness.

But when it comes to returning to marriage, women have no strong psychology. Don't marry a man who is too busy to take care of his family. Ling Heping is a good employee, but not necessarily a good husband and father.

Even in the ten years after the divorce, Li took care of her daily life, and Ling Heping subsidized her family with money. Sometimes even Li will complain: Why did you come back so late? Ling Heping's answer is that there is something in the institute.

10 years later, Chen Ting came back to find Ling Xiao. I couldn't sleep all night, which was also discovered by Li. Ling Heping, as his biological father, didn't notice at all. It can be seen that Chen Ting, as husband and wife, is also responsible for his psychological problems.

To put it bluntly, Ling Xiao's father is neither a good father nor a competent husband. The resentment in Chen Ting's heart can't be let go. As Ling Xiao said, her mother left, not from him, but from the past.

She chose to leave, trying to forget the past, get out of the shadows and start her life again. Even if she is wrong, sometimes there is a reason for her mistakes. Ling Xiao's father, Ling Heping, is also one of the reasons for the mistake. Hateful people also have pity!