You don't even know who you are. How can I be myself? When I was young, everyone wanted to be a scientist or something, but when I was young, I mainly wanted to be a teacher. In fact, many times in life, we have to give meaning to what we are doing, because most of the working hours are very long, and you will think it is mechanical labor.
The law has given me the greatest confidence in two aspects:
1 is the yearning for justice, because the law always pursues fairness and justice. We often feel that one thing is unfair, and it must be the opposite. When we hate darkness, there must be a concept of light, and light is the opposite of darkness. So this is a deep training for me by law. I believe that fairness and justice exist, because people are very complicated, with an angel side and a devil side. Why do you say that a gentleman is cautious and independent? In the process of sublimity, people will certainly make others feel a little pretentious, and they will also make themselves feel a little pretentious. We are shallow.
2. It means that when I look at everything in the world, I may have a round heart instead of a centralized hedgehog-like thinking attitude, because law always chooses balance among many beautiful values. The world is often not a confrontation between good and evil, but a confrontation between good and good. The cause of law has taught me that it may be difficult for us to pursue the best choice, and we can only pursue a relatively non-bad choice. So as a person, an upright life may be more important.
Many, many people may fall into the abyss of doubt nihilism. I have experienced it myself, but you will find that there are two kinds of results of doubt: one leads to nothingness and the other to certainty. Logically speaking, doubt can only lead to certainty but not nothingness.
How to resist this uncertain anxiety?
First of all, we have to accept this uncertainty, because the only certainty in life is an uncertain life, and the limitation of human beings is that we can't find a certainty from ourselves. First, read and talk to the great human soul. Because of your confusion, mankind had such confusion more than 2000 years ago, and all the great thinkers of mankind tried to fight this confusion; Second, it is more important to do one thing, starting from the little things around you. Every day is just a gift, yesterday's has become the past, tomorrow's has not yet arrived, and the only thing we can have is today. Today is a gift, so we should do what we should do every day. This life is our sentry. Standing on the sentry.
How to face the separation of social role and social identity?
People's time is limited, and people's energy is limited, so life may have to be subtracted. There are many luxuries that don't belong to you, so you should try to give them up. There are always two sides in a person's heart, a dark side and a bright side. Whose side are you on? Do you want to be the dark side or the bright side? People are not being themselves, but moving towards the good side of human nature, trying to suppress the inner darkness. This is called self.
Accept our limitations and meet the unknown infinity, so that every day, we can hear the eternal echo, so that we can have real hope, live in the present and do things well every day. Today is very difficult, but it is also wonderful.