Most of the answers are the demonized hutong old lady heard from outsiders. Yes, they are not aunts, but old ladies. This word is derogatory, as a Beijinger after 90. . . I have come into contact with many Beijing aunts in my life and work, but I don't have much contact with Hutong aunts, so I don't comment. I have lived in the staff dormitory since I was a child and settled down in the ordinary campus. The work is mainly clerical. This is, to a great extent, the state of life in contemporary Beijing.
The real Beijing aunt in this era, the main feature is not to embarrass children. Don't embarrass your son-in-law and daughter-in-law, don't cry and shout for a bride price for your house, and you have a small amount of money in your hand. Life is still nourishing for aunt Beijing. No matter how knowledgeable she is, her mouth will hurt, but it won't hurt you. Don't be ready to vent your resistance like a weasel.