"We won't tell the truth. The most important thing to be a man is to be worthy of your heart! For work, as long as it is legal and does not corrupt the atmosphere, it can be. It's okay for young people to suffer more. Isn't that what we brought up with us all the way? No matter what work you do, there will always be food. Don't complain What I am most afraid of is that people are short-sighted and self-indulgent! " This is what our illiterate parents taught us by example.
"In the age of lack of faith, we must find our own spiritual sustenance. Faith is really important! " Former leader Chen Dong still remembers my inculcation. He chose to find his own mirror platform in the Buddhist world, develop his own career, be kind-hearted and practice secretly.
"Rich material conditions only provide a broader platform for us to pursue a higher level of spiritual enjoyment, that's all." This is Li Jian's view on material enjoyment in an interview. Material enjoyment is ultimately only to improve our personal spiritual realm, not to get lost in material enjoyment.
Let's walk into three short stories and feel the educational achievements under different educational methods.
1. Young mother: Attend the kindergarten graduation ceremony with her children.
The child graduated from kindergarten in a large class and was elected as the host of the graduation party.
In the process of rehearsal, children always forget words nervously and ask their mother, "Why can't I speak so much, but the children next to me can speak so fluently?"
Mother replied like a spring breeze man, "I heard that they got up at six o'clock to recite their lines." If you are proficient in the content, you will be fluent. Brother cen, don't be nervous! Didn't you see my mother participate in the teacher skills competition organized by the company some time ago? After carefully designing the teaching content, how many nights did mom spend mastering the teaching content and designing teaching skills? Do you remember that you said my mother was very serious? "
The child suddenly realized, "Yes, I know. I'm going to bed early tonight and get up at five tomorrow morning to recite my lines. I should be as good as my mother. " "
At the children's graduation party, the young mother and other parents presented a "penis" fitness dance, which ended the graduation with the children!
What a warm mother and son, the mother set an example, shared the truth of "everything comes to him who waits" with her children, and constantly called the children "Little Brother Cen", which not only brought the relationship between mother and son closer, but also cultivated the responsibility and responsibility of a little man from an early age. When she grows up, the child will surely grow into a responsible and caring man!
2. "Dad, you are my Mr. Fujino!"
Although he has left the last company, as an assistant to the chairman, he can also feel Chen Dong's personal charm and accomplishment imperceptibly in his daily contact, and constantly admonish himself to strengthen self-education.
Chen Dong attaches great importance to China's excellent traditional culture, especially the filial piety culture. He believes that family is the most basic organizational life, and only by mutual tolerance and understanding can families be harmonious and happy. Therefore, we should strengthen personal cultivation in daily life, vigorously carry forward the filial piety culture, which is the bond that closely unites families, and then practice personal practice in daily life with the help of the Buddhist principles of "sincere respect and humility" and "six virtues and respect".
Chen Dong is at home, supporting his parents, not only caring about the daily life of the elderly, but also paying special attention to their spiritual pursuit; Educate children, listen to their opinions openly, and then determine the solution through democratic discussion.
While sorting out the information, I saw traces of father-son communication in the computer. I was very moved at that time. This kind of communication is really effective. Letters can be used as the mark of children's ideological change, and also the witness of father and son Hongyan's affection. One of the stories is very touching.
One night, when the father and son went out for dinner, they met a "helper" who asked for help in taking a taxi home. Considering that it was so late and the other party was hungry, his father directly invited him to have dinner with him and gave him a bus fare, but the other party directly declined, and said with a guilty face, I appreciate the kindness of good people, but he is a liar. Please don't trust passers-by so much in the future
After the swindler left, the child asked his father inexplicably, "Why are there so many similar frauds around you, but you don't hesitate to help?"
My father's answer was something like this: "There are indeed many similar fraud cases in the world, but I believe some people really need help. For those fraudsters who got help, it was just a fluke. We lost some money at most, but we defended our kindness. Just like the gentleman just now, the kindness in my heart shocked me, and I felt guilty and finally gave up. I also hope that everyone can take good advice and stop deceiving others' kindness. I also firmly believe that kindness and mutual assistance are indeed one of the sources of strength for people in need to get out of trouble. "
Because of my father's words and deeds, the power of education is also cultivated in a subtle way. Children also regard their father as their own Mr. Fujino. No matter what problems and interesting things you encounter in your life and study, take the initiative to share and communicate with your "Fujino teacher". There is no gap between father and son, and they have always maintained a harmonious friendship.
3. The fish's head began to stink.
Nowadays, the wind of the internet has already awakened the north and south of the motherland. With the internet, it seems that there are vibrant scenes everywhere. All kinds of information have already broken through the limitation of time and space, making people at your fingertips, and the cost of obtaining information is getting lower and lower.
I have seen such news several years ago. It is "happy" for the whole family to get together. The atmosphere is quite quiet. Basically, everyone has a mobile phone, and everyone is busy with their work. Finally, the old man watching TV was secretly sad. It turns out that the farthest distance is not a long trip from home, but a family sitting together, not as close as a mobile phone. I was really shocked when I first saw the news, but it gradually faded.
I heard from my friends that all the children who are still in primary school in my hometown have "configured" their mobile phones, which I can't accept anyway. Isn't the task of children to receive a good education? Why are you kidnapped by mobile phones at such a young age? Mobile phone messages remind you to shake all day long? After the final exam, I am still busy playing mobile games. Who is in charge? After the exam results come out, failing has become a normal state. Just ask yourself, can you accept this result? You can still laugh and have fun all day, but your parents don't care much about it, just holding the mentality that "after finishing junior high school, the task of nine-year compulsory education will be completed, so go out to work early". Can there be any promise as a parent? Your education is behind the times, and your children are innocent, but you still let your children fall with you and follow in your footsteps? Although I lost at the starting line, can I set an inspirational example for my children?
It is also common for parents and children to communicate poorly, often quarrel and abuse each other.
Education is really a long-term project, and every parent needs to lead by example, enlighten their children's minds and let them distinguish between right and wrong!