2. To change your destiny, you must first change your heart. The heart is the beacon of navigation, guiding you to the direction. The greatest tragedy in life is inner confusion. Once you decide the direction you want, hard work is no longer a problem for you. Remember, it's better to be smart than to play dumb. It is better to work hard than to seek happiness. It is better to pretend to be poor than to show off your wealth.
3. Life is simple, as long as you are happy. However, we complicate happiness. I always think that the more I have, the happier I will be. Who knows, if you get it, you will definitely lose it. How can you have your cake and eat it? In fact, true happiness is to strive for what you like, cherish what you get and let go of what you lose. The simpler the heart, the less requirements, and the happier life will be. Your happiness depends on yourself.
Sometimes let bygones be bygones. Only in this way can there be room for new things to enter our lives. Being alone and being lonely are two different things. A person can't be lonely, if you enjoy it, enjoy peace and loneliness. Two people can also be lonely. When you can't communicate, appreciate the value of each other's existence and share love and care.
Everything has ups and downs, where it comes from and where it goes, naturally there are doomed results. What matters is not the result, but the appreciation of the way. If you can stay, you will be happy to accept it. If you can't stay, take care of it. Life really can't bear too many joys and sorrows, just take it lightly.
6. The biggest problem when people are alive is to care too much about what others think of them. But does anyone really care about you? There are only three kinds of people in this world, those who love you, those who hate you and those who don't care about you. It is impossible for everyone to be nice to you, but as long as one person is willing to be nice to you, you have to be responsible for the other party. This is the meaning of our life. In order to love the person you love, you must love back, which is a kind of responsibility and luck.
7, love is tolerance, love each other everything. Don't trample on your dignity. You can live without him, but you can't live without dignity. Don't make promises easily, and promises you can't make are more hateful than promises you don't make; Don't put too much pressure on each other; Don't think there will be love if you don't understand; When we don't understand, we just like it, but we can't reach love. When each other's shortcomings are exposed, many times love will end.
8. There is no one in the world who will never be vilified or admired forever. People will criticize you if you talk too much. People will criticize you if you speak a little. When you are silent, others will criticize you. In this world, there is no one who is not criticized.
9. The saddest thing in life is not to lose too much yesterday, but to be immersed in yesterday's sadness; The most painful thing for people is not that they can't get the people they love, but that they can't get happiness; The happiest thing in life is not the happiness brought by others, but the happiness you bring to others; The most confusing thing in life is not choosing, but not knowing what you want; The most puzzling thing in life is not that you can't see others clearly, but that you don't know yourself.
10, the soul has a destination and life has a way out. Life is limited, life is short, and flowers bloom only in one season. Whether it is a surprise, a chance encounter, or a legend, there will be no regrets when flowers bloom and fall. Therefore, please cherish it when you meet it, and appreciate it when you think of it. This is a grasp of time, destiny and life.
A famous saying about dealing with people.
1, the first time you dare to laugh at yourself, it shows that you are mature.
2, the ups and downs of life is an invisible meat cleaver, giving everyone a statue.
Don't refuse people casually, and don't promise people casually. Don't make a wish, don't keep people's appetite, and don't try to be brave in meaningless things.
4. Don't force guests to look at your family photo album.
5. Friendship can never be a transaction; On the contrary, it needs the most thorough concept of selflessness.
6. Self-criticism always makes people believe, but self-praise is not.
7. Nothing can improve your bowling performance like a bystander. So, don't be stingy with your cheers.
8. Politeness is the golden key to human coexistence. Friends are the sky, the earth, the indomitable spirit, the wind, the rain and more friends.
9. Big things don't mess up, small things don't leak, take them when you should take them, and put them down when you should put them down. Being a man, knowing how to bear is courage, and letting go is wisdom!
10, I don't need to be the subject.
1 1, do your best for others and finally do your best for yourself.
12, good words can arouse the goodwill of others; Bad words will arouse others' evil thoughts. Say one more good word and add one more kindness. Be kind, speak well, do good deeds and make good friends.
13, for things, not people; Or be ruthless about things and have feelings for people; Or do first and do second.
14, every milestone in life is engraved with two words.
15, no one is rich, but he is too great to need friends.
16, people should respect themselves, and then people should respect themselves.
17, people, like people, should always be upward and down-to-earth.
18. If a person abandons a loyal friend, it is equivalent to abandoning his most precious life.
19, don't open your heart without knowing the details of the other party.
20. To take a good road tomorrow, we must remember the road we took yesterday and think about the road we took today.
2 1, one should strive for perfection in the field of learning; In the industrial and commercial society, we should communicate vertically and horizontally; Talking and laughing in interpersonal space; Peace of mind in loneliness!
22. If your reasons are justified, don't be afraid to refuse others.
23, blindfolded, does not mean that the world is dark; Blindfold others' eyes, does not mean that the light is your own.
24. Be a mirror and always look at yourself; Be a man like a box, you can lift it freely at any time; Be yourself and keep a record of your merits and demerits; Like a candle, always illuminate others; Be a man like a clock and cherish every minute of your life.
25. Although a broken friendship can be restored, it can no longer reach the level of intimacy.
26. There are four kinds of people in the world: scum, manpower, talents and figures. We should despise scum, be unwilling to be outdone, envy talents and strive to be figures!
27, move with emotion, treat it with courtesy, establish it with virtue, and return it to the public. Be honest, be strict with yourself, persevere and help others with love. To be a man, you should know that people's hearts are easy to convince others with virtue, but it is difficult to convince others with strength!
28. Friendship is like a bottle of wine. The longer the storage time, the higher the value. And once unsealed, it will be enough for an alcoholic to drink too much.
29. Friends are wealth and health is capital.
30. Tolerance and helping others are good ways to get along with others; Gratitude is the virtue pursued by personality; Generosity and honesty are the basis of being a man and doing things.
3 1. Self-discipline, affinity for others, tolerance for life, diligence in knowledge, patience with difficulties and motivation for success!
32, pragmatic, this is the principle of employing people; Be reasonable, this is the principle of being a man; Share weal and woe, this is the principle of making friends; Fear of death is the principle of being a man.
33. Things are valuable only if they can be used; People are useful only if they can be used. Do things with all your heart, and be conscientious!
Applause for everyone who sings on the stage.
35. Seeing the pride of others is actually inferiority.
36. Be self-reliant and don't be swayed by other people's words and deeds; One should respect oneself and not be discouraged by difficulties. Be confident in the face of setbacks and be proud in the face of failure!
37. Opening your eyes does not mean facing reality.
38. Do things slowly, don't be too hasty and make mistakes; It's better to be stupid than to be too smart and fail. Doing things can fail, but being a man can't fail; You can fail in the past and not in the future!
39. The natural enemy of interpersonal relationships is speculation, and cracking passwords is sincere!
40, frustrated, don't care; Prosperity and adversity never stop. Be kind to yourself and be very happy; Be kind to others and be extremely happy; Be kind to life and be extremely healthy.
4 1, do things, do good things, do good things, do useful things; Be a good person, be a good person, be a good person, be an excellent person. Do things, strive for diligence in work, and strive for Excellence in results; To be a man, you should have noble beliefs and self-discipline.
Anyone who wants to get help when he is in trouble should be tolerant of others on weekdays.
43. Don't borrow money from your friends. I think many times I lost my good friend because of money.
44. Without mutual harmony, there will be no prosperity of life.
Respect parents, be kind to children, be generous to relatives and friends, and be polite to the public. Treat feelings with understanding; Treat friendship with a persistent heart!
46. If you don't make a name for yourself, sarcasm will disappear; Do more practical things, and honor will come unexpectedly. Be free, independent, self-reliant, not conceited, not conceited, not conceited!
47. Be a man before you do anything. Only when it is in place can we do things successfully.
48. Be sensible, sensible and content. Knowing reason means knowing the truth of being a man and grasping the duty of being a man; Proper limit is to grasp the discretion and be able to relax; Contentment means not being captured by material desires and being content with doing nothing!
49. If you love yourself sincerely, you can love others more sincerely.
50, all good things, start from yourself; All the good things come from my mouth; All good deeds are developed from my heart; All my friends sincerely respect me.
5 1, bones should be strong, qi should be soft, ambition should be big, courage should be small, heart should be empty, words should be true, wisdom should be increased, and blessings should be cherished. A man should communicate with courtesy and righteousness, and discipline himself with shame!
52. Ten taboos for being a man: avoid vanity, laziness, arrogance, rudeness, greed, selfishness, dishonesty, evil persistence, disloyalty and lying.
53. Treat people with peace and principle, treat things clearly and decisively, and treat things with integrity, simplicity and understanding. You are aboveboard without prejudice in your heart, and aboveboard without yourself in your heart.
54. Judging others is actually a lack of self-affirmation.
55. Be expert and broad-minded. You can work part-time, but only full-time. Be an innocent person, do things with your heart, not seeking perfection, but seeking perfection!
56. Respect people who don't like you.
57. Have knowledge, responsibility, wisdom, make friends, study hard, be cautious, live diligently, aim high and be full of enthusiasm!
58. Rude people are not born, rude things are not successful, and rude countries are not at peace. Be polite, respect people, respect people, respect people!
59. A gentleman and a gentleman are friends with the same way; Villains and villains are like-minded friends.
As long as you are willing to praise others, you are the biggest winner.
Famous sayings of dealing with people _ philosophical sayings
1. Appreciate everyone's advantages with a tolerant heart, and you will find that the world is beautiful, the sun is bright, your heart will be bright, and your sky will become blue.
Second, a person's mentality determines the height of his life. What kind of mind a person has directly determines what kind of life he has. The world is as big as the heart. If you can't break the barriers in your heart, even if you give the whole world, you can't find the feeling of freedom. Only by expanding one's mind to the maximum extent can one see more and more wonderful things and get more beautiful things than others.
Third, people who can't brainstorm are unwise, and it is difficult to do whatever they do; A person who is not good at listening to his friends' opinions is a headstrong person who can achieve nothing in the end; If you listen to other people's opinions in everything, then people who have no opinions about themselves can do nothing. Practical experience proves that the conclusion is: listen to the opinions of the majority more, consult with a few less, make your own decisions, and approach the truth from complexity to simplicity.
4. Modesty is to empty yourself, not to be self-righteous, but to be good at listening and accepting other people's opinions; Modesty means lowering yourself, not being arrogant, that is, not taking yourself too seriously; To lower yourself is not to be humble, inferior or inferior to others, but to be graceful, magnanimous and a person's moral character.
5. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you.
Friendship is that two hearts treat each other sincerely, instead of one hitting the other.
I'd rather get a good argument than face the cold silence!
Eight, a fence with three piles, a hero with three gangs.
Nine, the happiness and happiness of life is not in money, not in love, but in truth. Even if what you want is an animal-like happiness, life will never listen to you drinking happily and will always catch you off guard. Chekhov chose his friends carefully.
Ten, a person should not be destroyed by the wealth given to Madame Curie.
1 1. Being penniless and living a white and simple life is exactly where we revolutionaries can overcome many difficulties. Fang Zhimin: Lovely China.
12. Never think that the people you contact are more stupid than you, and they are more likely to be caught.
Thirteen, writing letters by hand is more intimate and gives people a different feeling.
14. Friendship is often formed by the common interests that two people can achieve more easily than one person. Only by satisfying each other can this relationship be pure.
15. Don't expect everyone to like you. It's impossible. Making most people like you is a sign of success.
The terrible thing is not loneliness and loneliness, but that you have to deal with people you don't want to associate with. He huaihong
17. Friendship is often formed by common interests that two people are more aware of than one person. Only by satisfying each other can this relationship be pure.
It is wrong to think that the freedom of artists lies in doing what they want to do. This is the freedom of those who do mischief. Stanislavski: The stage is a place to perform life.
Nineteen, when choosing others, let others choose themselves, when testing others, let others test themselves.
Twenty, you respect me one foot, I respect you one foot.
Twenty-one, don't: being helped by others will soon forget; But someone stepped on it, but I can't forget it!
Twenty-two, gorgeous decoration can show a person's wealth, elegance can show a person's interest; But a person's health and health must be identified by another sign; Only under the rough clothes of a laborer, not under the clothes of a lucky man, can we see a strong body. Rousseau
23. Being a man or for yourself is a sketch of a person's inner world under his own name.
The ups and downs of life are an invisible meat cleaver, giving everyone a statue.
Twenty-five, self-criticism can always make people believe, but self-praise is not.
26. Without mutual harmony, there will be no prosperity of life.
Twenty-seven, choose friends must be careful! Authentic selfishness will put on the mask of friendship, but set a trap to trap you. Krylov's fable
Twenty-eight, when making up friendship, be careful and long; But as long as you draw a main line, the wall of friendship will collapse, which is the trust of the main line!
Twenty-nine, you have self-esteem, you can respect the self-esteem of others.
Thirty, keeping your eyes open does not mean facing reality.
Thirty-one, don't rush to express yourself, and don't rush to correct others. Listen, watch and ponder.
Proverbs about dealing with people
1, not many people know.
You have thousands of clever ideas, and I have certain rules.
3. One person is private, two people are public.
4. Ignore people at home and ignore people when going out.
Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang.
6. Man proposes, God disposes.
7. Start first, then suffer.
8, alcohol and tobacco are not separated, sesame seeds are only divided into five clothes.
9. I dare to be the first person and the last person.
10, too much.
1 1, I am fascinated and understand that the guest listens to the main arrangement.
12, soft language, many friends.
13, you can choose such "half-hearted": confidence, perseverance, determination; Creativity and willingness.
14, public anger is difficult to commit, it is difficult to succeed.
Only interests are permanent.
16, if you don't set limits for yourself, there will be no barriers in life that limit your play.
17, a key opens a lock.
18, I haven't seen it for a day, which is impressive.
19, if you want to be kind in the world, don't charge money for things on credit.
20. Birds of a feather flock together.
2 1, which is a pro-three-phase, is a thermal layer.
22, people are poor and silent, and the level does not flow.
23. It is easy to ask God, but difficult to send him.
24. I'd rather believe it, but I don't.
25, no disease and no death.
On the 26th, he took advantage of the first moon and showed his kindness to Yang as early as spring.
27. The meaning of life lies in giving, not in receiving, nor in struggling.
28. State is more important than mentality.
29. Don't wait for opportunities, but create them.
30. A thousand-year-old king has 80,000 turtles, but a hundred-year-old rabbit doesn't chase them.
3 1. We didn't choose to live in this world, but we have a responsibility to do something about it.
32. Good deeds are hard to do, and good people are hard to do.
33. People don't talk about bones and muscles.
34, a thousand years of grass seeds, ten thousand years of fish seeds.
35. The power of the subconscious mind is infinite, and faith is truth.
36. Take it when it's good, and leave when it's humiliating.
37. Going into the mountains is not afraid of hurting the tiger, but it is a double-edged sword.
38. Love between people is not intimate.
39. Winners wait for losers and thieves.
40. Understand the nature of fish near the water; Birds can be heard near the mountain.
You are what you decide to be.
42. Once bitten, twice shy.
43. Life is a struggle, a struggle.
44, listen to people advised to eat.
45. You go your way and I'll go my single-plank bridge.
46. Review is the mother of success.
47. It's better to say gossip than to say metaphysics.
48. Good words don't do evil, and evil doubts don't have good words.
49. Finish what you can do today, because tomorrow will never come.
50. Some people win the world and care for each other.
5 1, heroes don't make money.
52, sneak peek.
53. Making friends must be better than yourself, as if I were better off with nothing.
54. It's better to eat a fresh peach than a half basket of rotten apricots.
55. If you talk too much, you will eat more sadly.
56. I beat myself far more than others.
57. Don't do well at home and get wet in the wind when you go out.
58. It is unlucky for people to drink water.
59. Reasonable arrangement of time means saving time.
60. Everything is difficult at the beginning.
6 1, soft-hearted and short-faced.
62. Paying debts is like cutting new ones.
63. Protect yourself from falling from the sky.
64. People can do it because they believe it.
65 years old, quick, Zheng Mo.
66. Don't speak out of turn, but don't persuade others.
67. It is frightening to see through the world, and it is cold and bad to understand human feelings.
68. What kind of thoughts are established in your heart, you will become what kind of person.
69, confused temple confused god, confused things confused people.
70. It is better to offend ten gentlemen than one villain.
7 1, the world is not in the hands of mockers, but in the hands of those who can stand ridicule and criticism and keep moving forward.
72. Don't get too close to your relatives.
There are many ways to make money, but if you can't find the seeds to make money, you can't become a career.
74. The ink near Zhu Zhechi is black.
75. A small house sparrow can hardly beat a thief at home.
76. Kill one person, kill one, save one life.
77. There is no food at the tip of a man, and there is no shit at the tip of a dog.
78, can cope with a hunger, it is difficult to supply a hundred full.
79. God helps those who help themselves.
80. I can be ordinary, but I can't grow.
The biggest reason for the failure of 8 1 and 18 is the broken concentration.
82, will say metaphysical words, not gossip.
83. Listen and hold hands.
84. Those who can't help themselves are destined to cross the Buddha.
85. You give me a foot, I give you a foot.
86 years, three years in Hedong, three years in Hexi.
87. Human feelings are like meeting for the first time, and there is no resentment in the end.
88. When the road is in danger, you must avoid it. It's not talents who don't contribute poetry.
89. How dare you not bow your head under the short eaves?
90. At the command of a master, a monk ran out.
9 1, no coincidence.
92. Don't make excuses for failure, just for success.
93. The heart is unyielding.
94. There is no despair in the world, only desperate people.
95. A gentleman is a villain, and there are points in righteousness and benefit.
96. It takes two people to applaud.
97. It's better to grow a beard than swear.
98. Things don't have to change, as long as we change.
If you didn't do anything wrong, you wouldn't be surprised to knock at the door in the middle of the night.
100, money is better than power.
10 1, which has the right to make money; Money can buy power.
102, three feet without wind.
103, relatives are far and near, and friends are thick and thin.
104 Although my body doesn't have bright wings like a phoenix, I can feel the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn.
105, man struggles upwards; Water flows downwards.
106, important things must not be tied by sesame and mung beans.
107, if you don't fight for leisure, there will be peace.
108, you can't write two x words with one pen.
109, the environment can shape a person.
1 10, it's easy to meet each other, but difficult to stay for a long time.
1 1 1, don't wait for opportunities, create opportunities.
1 12. Life is valuable and tasteful.
1 13, it takes gold to make friends in the world, but the gold is neither too much nor too deep.
1 14, there are countless people in the busy world, which man is the husband.
However, I felt the harmonious heartbeat of the sacred unicorn.
1 16, light to light to take down the mountain.
1 17, a good minister chooses his master, and a good bird chooses wood to live in.
1 18, being a man is more important than doing things.
1 19, one stove and one kang, half for the emperor and half for the minister.
120, it's nice to be at home, but it's hard to go out everywhere.
12 1. As long as the road is right, you are not afraid of the long road.
122, a good medicine tastes bitter and helps the disease, but advice at the most unpleasant time helps the action.
123, nontoxic, no husband.
124, will be a good minister with your wishes.
Without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang.
126, relying on the mountain will fall, relying on the water will flow, and you will never fall on your own.
127, seven families don't care about eight families.
128, what kind of person will I become with you.
129, killing people is not too much.
130, a dozen is three points lower.
13 1, although the lamb is beautiful, it is difficult to adjust.
132, can provide a barrel, not a bite.
133, the body is slightly cold, and it is difficult to know the world with short money.
134, people are afraid of three meetings, and trees are afraid of a chalk line.
135. Positive thinking leads to positive life, while negative thinking leads to negative life.
136, convenient for others, convenient for yourself.
137, a person's greatest bankruptcy is despair, and his greatest asset is hope.
138, persistence is victory, and the difficulty is not long.