1. Among all customers, the person who has the most opinions about you is the one you need to learn from most

——Bill Gates

2 , Listen to the opinions of others, but reserve your own judgment.

——William Shakespeare

3. Never let others drive the car of your life. Sit firmly in the driver’s seat and decide when you want to drive. Stop, reverse, turn, accelerate, brake and more. Although you can refer to other people's opinions, don't follow the crowd.

——Li Kaifu's "Don't Marry Before 30"

4. If there is something, change it, if not, encourage it.

——Notes from Zhu Xi’s "Analects of Confucius and Xueer" by Zhu Xi of the Song Dynasty

Translation: If there are any shortcomings and mistakes pointed out by others, correct them; if not, correct them. Use it to encourage yourself so that you will not make the same mistakes in the future.

5. If you listen both, you will be enlightened; if you believe only, you will be dark.

——Wei Zheng in the Tang Dynasty

Translation: Only by listening to opinions from multiple sides can you distinguish right from wrong; by listening to one side, you cannot distinguish right from wrong.

6. Good medicine is bitter in the mouth and good for the disease, but loyal words are offensive to the ears and contrary to the heart.

——Western Han Dynasty·Sima Qian's "Historical Records·Liuhou Family"

Translation: Most good medicines have a bitter taste, but they are good for curing diseases; and most of them teach people to be kind. It doesn't sound very nice, but it helps people correct their shortcomings.