Family traditions, family mottos, family rules and famous sayings:
1. Be content and happy, and take care of your destiny at home. Promote family traditions, praise ancestors' virtues, and educate children and grandchildren to know how to appreciate, be grateful, and repay kindness.
2. Don’t interfere in your children’s affairs, let your children take charge of the family, and don’t pretend to be senior.
3. Zhijie couples are grateful to each other and never blame others. The couple in the mind realm are happy. The husband leads his wife to enlightenment, and the wife helps her husband to become virtuous. They will never be angry. The heart couple is a ceremonial couple and they will have jurisdiction over each other! A couple in the body realm is a couple who beats and scolds them, causing trouble throughout their lives.
4. A daughter-in-law should respect her parents-in-law as her own parents. The ancients said: Everyone in life has double parents. So both parents should be treated equally.
5. The husband should take care of his father-in-law and his mother-in-law, and the wife should be filial to her father-in-law and mother-in-law. For example, when buying things for the elderly, the son-in-law should give it to his father-in-law and mother-in-law in person, and the daughter-in-law should give it to her father-in-law and mother-in-law in person.
6. If you can’t do it, don’t say it. There is no dignity if your words don’t count.
7. The husband has the courage to take on the responsibilities of the family and persuade others with reason. If the family makes mistakes, he will feel guilty.
8. If your children are disobedient and unfilial, you must first ask yourself whether you are also unfilial to the elderly and whether you have done something wrong. The superiors do not recognize the merits of the parents (the elderly), and the inferiors (the children) do not educate them well.
9. The entire family is built on love. A family cannot be established without love. Love is the first condition for starting a family.
10. To rectify others first, rectify oneself. Parents should first transform their nature into nature and cultivate their nature. Know how to discipline yourself first before you can educate your children. Regardless of whether your children are filial or not, ask yourself whether you are kind or not.