The most frequently heard sentence now is: "When you can bring benefits to the other party, the human nature of the other party is good; When you can't, the other person's humanity is selfish; When you influence his interests, his human nature is evil. Family, friendship, love, all of it. The so-called emotional breakdown is actually a lack of interests. "

Whether you can bring benefits to others depends on your value. Life is as poor as a church mouse, and worthless people even dislike their own relatives, and life is miserable.

Further reasoning, why did the sky-high wedding get the big melon that broke up now? In fact, it is not difficult to understand-the value of some people has dropped!

Therefore, many online tutors advise everyone that the most important thing in life is to improve themselves. Only by having enough value can we better adapt to this world ... this is of course a wise saying.

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As we all know, if you are valuable, you can have many things-such as the respect of others, fame and fortune, the right to speak and lead the family, and so on.

People in the upper class are smarter and more transparent-they compete fiercely in the open and in the dark in order to get the opportunity of value promotion, and now even between husband and wife, they have provoked a war of "value game".

For example, the little model on the 18 line a few years ago, everyone only knows that she climbed the "one brother" resource and burst into flames, and then she became more and more popular all the way.

In fact, who in this world can succeed so easily and casually? Even if a twig finds a tree that can shelter it from the wind and rain, it is still far from growing into a towering tree.

Therefore, we don't have to blame one party for being too ambitious, and she doesn't miss the past because of her hard wings-who knows how many powerful parties will be bossed around and misunderstood and criticized by the public in order to get some benefits when they are weak?

Fortunately, smart people are good at emotional management. They will bear the burden of humiliation for a clear goal, and they will also turn all grievances into the driving force for progress. Then they meet and catch up with each other with a smile, and then they will retaliate and fight back after success!

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It's really not easy to talk about the upper class-everyone is a powerful and ruthless master. Of course, husband and wife should compete with each other, or do you want to live a good life without fighting? Then we must always endure the derogatory and crushing brought by "low value".

But when you are forced to catch up and then realize the value cycle through "value game", your family begins to shake again-because you may want to forget the past, or he can't accept the huge gap. ...

Therefore, I think it's gratifying that this beautiful couple broke up peacefully today, and there is no need to save who is right and who is wrong-a housework that even an honest official can't clean up. Is it okay?

Including the shocking "curse wedding"-most of the couples involved are divorced ... most of them are the painful results of the value game, right?

The divorce rate of ordinary people is very high now, but the good thing is that the ability, desire and strength of ordinary people are not so strong, so the scope of "value game" between husband and wife is limited, so the impact on marriage is not too great.

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Nowadays, young people are not enthusiastic about getting married, but the country advocates increasing the fertility rate, so the stars in the entertainment circle should give positive guidance and reduce the divorce rate as much as possible.

Therefore, I analyze a main reason that affects the stability of marriage, and hope that everyone will be alert and live in harmony in the future.