1. Only when you learn to give up can you gain something. Life is indeed very tiring. It depends on how you taste it. Find more joy every day and ignore your worries. It’s only a few decades of cold and summer. Why not face it with ease? Keep in touch with friends. Don’t worry about how expensive the phone bill is. Send a message in your free time to keep you happy and appetizing. .

2. Complaining is a poison. It destroys your will and dampens your enthusiasm. It is better to change your destiny than to complain about your destiny, and it is better to improve your life than to complain about your life. After all, complaining ≠ solving. Look for more methods and less excuses for everything. The strong are not without tears, but running with tears!

3. There are several things that must not be lost in life: the power of self-control, a calm mind, Hope and confidence.

4. Life is a one-way train. There will be many large and small stops along the way, but return tickets are never sold. On this train, some things can be done, some things must be done, some things can be done or not, and some things must not be done.

5. While you are young, go out and see more. Reading thousands of books is not as good as traveling thousands of miles; traveling thousands of miles is not as good as reading countless people.

6. The road I have traveled has been long, and I have met many people. I have inadvertently discovered that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of the heart, and the wisdom and sobriety of the mind. .

7. People have the habit of judging good or bad based on their first impression. When they think a person is good, they will love them; when they think a person is bad, they will completely deny it.

8. It is inevitable to suffer some grievances and injuries in life. It is better to deal with them calmly and calmly than to be brooding and depressed. Only by withstanding the baptism of violent storms can we develop calmness and calmness. No matter how many people you have loved, no matter how painful or happy your love is, in the end, you have not learned how to fall in love, but how to love yourself.

9. How far a person can go depends on who he has with him; how good a person is depends on who he has to guide him; how successful a person is depends on who he has with him.

10. If you get something but feel that it is nothing more than that, then this desire is actually your desire. If you still can’t put it down after getting something, this is what you really want.

11. Only in middle age did I realize: Things in the world are both complex and simple. If you are simple, the world will be simple. To live a free and brilliant life, you have to endure pain. Everything has two sides or many sides. Sometimes it is hard to tell what is right and what is wrong. What you like may be what others hate and despise. The world and nature do not develop or destroy according to your own wishes.

12. When children ask for your attention, always give it to them. Give your children your full attention, don't feel like they're interrupting you, and thank them for reminding you to spend more time with the people you love.

13. Live in the moment. All our worries and plans for the future, as well as memories of the past, only prevent us from appreciating the present. Put that aside and focus on what you are doing right now. In this way, no matter what you do, you will feel calm.

14. If you like something, you must learn to appreciate it, cherish it, and make it more precious. If you like someone, you must make him/her happy and make that feeling more sincere. If you can't do it, then you should let it go! So sometimes, some people, sometimes, have to learn to give up, because giving up is also a kind of beauty!

15. One thing, figured out is Heaven, if you don’t understand, is hell. Since you are alive, you must live well. Sometimes we are too narrow-minded and care too much about the trivial things around us, and we lose more than we gain. Whether some things can cause trouble and annoyance depends entirely on how we act. Treat and deal with it. Don't always take everything seriously, don't get into trouble, don't be too concerned about face, don't be petty. Not caring is a kind of open-mindedness and freedom.

16. Life is not easy. There is no need to crave for the understanding and recognition of others in everything. Live your own life quietly.

17. Life should be relaxed, don’t put too much pressure on yourself, what kind of mentality will give you what kind of life. No matter how much you believe in fate, please don't think of cherishing it until you lose it. Love doesn't wait until you are free before you think of contacting it.

18. People are more likely to get angry with people they are close to than with people they hate. The so-called people close to us are the people they spend most of their time with - this is important because it shows that we often get angry because we expect more from the people we are close to, or in other words, want more from them. thing.

19. Only in middle age did I understand: happiness index depends entirely on mentality. Years of eating and drinking delicacies may not necessarily bring you peace of mind. Between coping and hypocrisy, you may end up with an increasingly empty soul. Complacency and despair are both tragedies of life. They are far inferior to being plain and carefree.