1. Composition on the topic of forgiveness
Beautiful forgiveness
You crushed the little flower on the roadside with one foot, but it left the fragrance behind That heel, that's forgiveness. "The first time I saw a sentence with such a meaningful and poetic meaning, I was deeply moved. It turns out that the interpretation of forgiveness can be so beautiful and touching.
How extraordinary God’s creation is. While giving life, it also gives a heart of forgiveness and tolerance, just like that little flower who never punishes herself for the shortcomings of others. Life's encounters are never smooth, and there are always various unexpected encounters. , Don’t be decadent when encountering difficulties, and don’t criticize when encountering difficulties. If you always maintain a forgiving and tolerant heart, you can be happy anytime and anywhere.
A famous chef once said: In this world, No matter how hard you try, you can't satisfy everyone's taste. The same goes for cooking, and the same goes for being a human being. From your own standpoint, others may not be to your liking, but from other people's standpoint, how can you be so? Everyone’s appetite? From this point of view, a person should be forgiving and tolerant. It’s no wonder that Confucius said: “Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. "What he is talking about is the way of forgiveness.
The ancients said: If you stand thousands of feet high on a wall, you will be strong if you have no desires. The sea will accept hundreds of rivers, and tolerance will be great. We say that a person who knows the way of forgiveness must have a vast world; A person who knows how to forgive must have a rich spirit; a person who knows how to forgive must have a pure heart; a person who knows how to forgive must have a beautiful soul.
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Forgiveness
When one foot steps on the petals of the violet, it leaves the fragrance on that foot. This is forgiveness. A mental patient breaks into a doctor. At home, he shot and killed his three teenage daughters; but he still cured the mental patient. This is also forgiveness. Forgiving others is not difficult for us, but the key is that the heart is not easy. What kind of choice is it? When a person chooses hatred, he will spend the rest of his life in darkness; but if a person chooses forgiveness, then he can shine the sunshine on the earth. As the old saying goes: "You can correct your mistakes, but you can't do anything good." . "In this case, why can't we forgive someone for the mistakes they made unintentionally? When our hearts choose forgiveness for ourselves, we gain the freedom we deserve. Because we have let go of hatred. Regardless of the burden, we can give you a sweet smile whether you are facing a friend or an enemy. Buddhism often emphasizes fate. Among all living beings, if two people can meet and get to know each other, it is fate. If you meet because of hatred, it is not allowed. What is denied is that you have remembered the other person's name in your hearts. If you are worried and extremely depressed because you are thinking about how to retaliate against the other person all day long, then it is better to let go of your hatred and forgive the other person. Maybe, you can. One more good friend to talk to. Everyone needs a friend. One more forgiveness can give us one more friend. Former US President Lincoln once worked in a grocery store because of a customer's money. The customer took it away, and the customer had a dispute with Lincoln. The owner of the grocery store fired Lincoln. The boss said: "I have to fire you because you make customers dissatisfied with the service in our store. Then we will lose a lot of business. We should." Learn to forgive customers' mistakes, customers are our God. Many years later, Lincoln became president. After becoming president, Lincoln said, "I should thank the grocery store owner. He made me understand how important forgiveness is." "Learning to forgive others is to learn to be kind to yourself. Hatred can only keep our souls living in darkness forever; but forgiveness can make our souls free and liberated. Forgiving others can make life easier and more enjoyable. Forgiveness can make our souls live in darkness forever. Others can make us have more friends. Forgiving others is to liberate ourselves and restore peace of mind. 2. An essay centered on "tolerance"
There is such a fable about tolerance, It is about two horses traveling together, one bit the other on the neck, but the one who was bitten took the initiative to comfort the horse who was ashamed and upset because of the bite.
Although the story is small, it is. But it reveals the touching virtue between heaven and earth, which is tolerance. In the fable, the tolerance of animals is to repay evil with kindness. In Buddhism, Maitreya's tolerance is "the belly can accommodate everything in the world." How do we understand tolerance in our real life? In fact, tolerance is a state.
Tolerance is like water. It means to forgive others' temporary faults, not to be resentful, and to be a generous person in a gentle manner. .
Tolerance and gentleness are often more effective than excessive revenge when encountering conflicts. It is like a cup of clear water, which can wipe away the temporary hostility between each other and make people calm down and see clearly. The original reason of the matter.
At the same time, the bitten horse in the fable rationally chose tolerance, and the two finally reconciled.
Just imagine. , if it fights back tit for tat and fights back in the same way, what else can it bring besides losing both sides and losing blood? Therefore, it can be said that the national horse in the fable is actually very wise. Repay evil with kindness."
Tolerance is like fire.
Because a higher level of tolerance means not only not caring about personal gains and losses, but also being able to warm the hearts of others with your love and sincerity.
Tolerance with a calm mind is already rare; tolerance that provides help in times of need is even more valuable and touching. From the fable, we see that the horse that made the mistake has realized its own absurdity and is ashamed. At this time, the tolerance and comfort shown by the bitten horse are like a flame, bright and warm.
Tolerance not only melts each other's ice, but also radiates the heat of love into each other's hearts. In an era that has been commented by some as "materialistic", where the bottom-up space is shrinking day by day, isn't it the tolerance that happens between two horses that people lack? Choosing tolerance means choosing understanding and tenderness, and at the same time choosing the vastness of life.
Tolerance is poetry. Tolerance is a poem of life.
The highest level of tolerance is not just reflected in the handling of certain events in daily life, but is sublimated into a kind of mind towards the universe and a poetic attitude towards life. The meaning of tolerance is not limited to the understanding and care between people, but the broad-mindedness and fraternity of the heart towards all life in the world.
The horse in the fable cannot reach this state, but this state is so real and profound for humans. For those of you who have a grudge against the dullness and misfortunes of life, please choose to be tolerant.
This does not damage your dignity at all, but helps people to cross mediocrity in the long river of life. Only with a tolerant ideological realm can we understand the true meaning of life. Tolerance is also an art of life.
Of course, tolerance is not inconsistent with "discipline yourself and treat others kindly". Forgiving yourself easily is not tolerance, but cowardice.
"Being kind to others" also requires looking at the target first. Tolerating those who do not value tolerance is to be indulgent; to be tolerant to those who are not worthy of tolerance is to tolerate; to be tolerant to those who are unforgivable and conscientious is to be indulgent.
Therefore, tolerance itself is also a science of life. On the road of our life, what happens is by no means as simple as two horses.
Life is often complicated and often dull. It is precisely because tolerance is like water that the complex becomes pure after being filtered; it is precisely because tolerance is like fire that the ordinary becomes increasingly clear through burning; and because of this poetic tolerance, life is given art and life is eternal.
Tolerance, these are two gilded words in the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, and they are the bright moon in the sky over the world. That grandpa who once stole things changed his ways because of the tolerance of the owner of the vegetable garden, and became a well-known person in the neighborhood. This reminds me of the ancient saying: "How to repay kindness? Repay evil with straightness, and repay kindness with kindness." ”
Give someone a bright moon to light up their bleak life. Those who are bathed in the tolerant and broad river of love will definitely return the bright moon. The bright moon shines high, illuminating the vast sky around the world.
The bright moon shone on whose temple allowed the monk to see the face of the person who came to steal. The man was panicked and ashamed, waiting for scolding and punishment... However, what he waited for was not dark clouds, but a clear bright moon! "It's cold, put it on him!" The monk's mouth showed a tolerant smile. He put a piece of clothing on the thief's shoulders, just like wrapping the warm moonlight on the thief's cold and shivering body.
A bright moon was given to the thief, and the monk was waiting. The next morning, when I opened the door, the clothes were neatly folded and waiting quietly at the door, like a bright moon, a bright moon that had been returned.
Do you smell it? It is the fresh fragrance of tolerance. The bright moon moved across the sky and cast its beautiful shadow on a priest's cabin.
There once walked out a Jean Valjean who was praised by the world. Have you ever remembered that Jean Valjean, a little man living in a miserable world, was imprisoned for stealing bread, and he still refused to repent after his release.
So what makes a brave and selfless Jean Valjean? It’s that pastor, the pastor who takes tolerance as his criterion! In a short night, facing Jean Valjean who almost stole his happy and contented life, the pastor raised a pair of candlesticks: "I will give these to you along with these candlesticks!" Tears welled up from Jean Valjean's eyes. , reflecting the faint light of the pair of candlesticks, washing Jean Valjean's soul. The gentle light like the bright moon on the candlestick carries the pastor's kindness and illuminates Jean Valjean's bright and great future.
Did you see it? It was a tolerant and loving face. The bright moon streaked across the historical stone tablet, reflecting a great name - Taizong of the Tang Dynasty.
In the prosperous age of the Great Hall, under the rule of Zhenguan, Emperor Taizong ruled with an arch, and the world was at peace. "Taking people as examples can help you to understand gains and losses." Emperor Taizong of the Tang Dynasty tolerated a counselor of Li Jiancheng, an enemy who had fought against him, an admonisher who had repeatedly refuted him in court, and Wei Zheng, and sent a bright moon to Wei Zheng. A bright moon was given to the world, so Wei Zheng returned to his heart, and the world returned to his heart. The bright moon shone high in the prosperous age of the Tang Dynasty, and was engraved on the eternal monument and continues to shine to this day.
Did you hear that? It is the gentle wind of tolerance. Tolerance is the bright moon! The fresh and bright moon, the broad and benevolent moon, the gentle and plump moon! Inheriting this traditional virtue of tolerance, let us join hands to hold up a bright moon together, shining high in the sky and illuminating the world.
3. Regarding "forgiveness" and 'Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you'
Confucius said: "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." What a great saying! ! ! ! It means: Never impose on others what you are unwilling to do.
What Confucius emphasized is that people should treat others with forgiveness and should promote the way of "forgiveness". Only in this way can we express benevolence. It comes from "The Analects of Confucius·Wei Linggong". The full sentence is: "Zigong asked: 'Is there anything you can say that can be implemented throughout your life?' Confucius said: 'Forgive me. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." This sentence expresses what Confucius teaches us in When dealing with interpersonal matters, you must have a broad mind. If you are not willing to do something, how can others be willing to do it? Forcibly pushing things that you hate to others will not only destroy the relationship with others, but also make things stalemate and get out of hand.
This principle should indeed be adhered to in interactions between people. This is a reflection of respecting others and treating others equally. In addition to valuing yourself, you must also respect others. To gain respect from others. Everyone is equal. "Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you." This is a great thought of Confucianism and an unbreakable creed of the Chinese nation. But in real life, how many people do this? Most people are self-centered, only caring about their own feelings and ignoring others.
For a proposition, we need to conduct a comprehensive analysis. "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you" does not necessarily imply "do to others what you want to do to others." "Do to others what you want others to do to you" is the negative of the proposition "do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you", and the negative is not necessarily true. You just can't force others to do what you don't want others to do, but if the other person is willing, it does not fall within the scope of "giving". What you want may not be what others want, so you cannot impose it on others.
Generally speaking, no matter whether it is "what you want" or not, you cannot "give", that is, impose it on others. There is only one standard for giving things to others, that is, whether the other person is willing or not, and it cannot be based on our wishes. standards to impose on others. 4.
I was deeply moved after reading the lesson "Liu Gongquan with an upright heart and an upright pen". It made me see the tall image of a great calligrapher of the Tang Dynasty and a honest, loyal and honest official.
The text records two things Liu Gongquan advised the emperor: first, by talking about the secrets of calligraphy, he advised Mu Zong to govern the country with a "righteous heart" and to have a clean government; second, by talking about the emperor's clothes, he advised Wen Zong to use people correctly and reward and punish him. It is clear that myotubes can be worn away by snow. These two things show that Liu Gongquan is indeed a great person and an upright official with an upright heart and pen. Not only can he write good calligraphy with strong muscles and bones, but more importantly, he has good ideological and moral character and can think about people. For the sake of the country, he used his advantage of being close to the emperor to skillfully advise two generations of emperors and speak outspoken words that were beneficial to the country, thus making the country strong and he was reused.
His "willow bones" cultivated with an upright heart will be remembered for generations to come, and his spirit of being upright and speaking out to the emperor is even more precious. Liu Gongquan is not afraid of power, he is strong-willed, and his actions of speaking out are very touching. He is a model for the world to learn from.
It has a great shock and influence in the depths of our young hearts. We are in the period of growing body and knowledge. We must follow his example from an early age and be a person with a righteous heart. Not only must you practice calligraphy well, read good books, do your homework well, write your handwriting fairly, and complete your homework well, but you must also develop good ideological and moral character, be an honest person, tell the truth, do honest things, and follow the right path. Do things that benefit oneself at the expense of others, and do not do things in vulgar taste; establish lofty ideals, insist on honesty and trustworthiness, observe discipline in school, respect teachers, unite classmates, and dare to fight against bad behavior; listen to parents’ education at home, Study hard and make progress every day, be a good student who is civilized and polite, satisfy teachers, reassure parents, and become an upright person. 5. The 800-word argumentative essay is centered on weight-bearing.
What a beautiful, weight-bearing life
The reason why plum blossoms are moving is because they have withstood the baptism of frost and snow; the reason why butterflies are beautiful , because it has experienced the hardships of emerging; the reason why dawn is desirable is because it has endured the long darkness. Our life is beautiful because it moves forward with a heavy burden. Beautiful, burdensome life!
If suffering is a kind of wealth, then Hong Zhanhui is rich. He propped up the crumbling home with the thin shoulders of a child, and raised his little sister who was waiting for food with the boy's clumsy hands. How much suffering he went through, we don’t know. We only know that he is like a snail, carrying his home on his back and moving forward with a load. His life is beautiful because of the load.
If tears are a kind of wealth, then Cong Fei is rich. In the past year, he made us burst into tears. An art worker and a volunteer, with his conscience, took on the responsibility of saving children in mountainous areas that was not originally his. He exchanged his singing for books and built his classroom with love. On his shoulders, he carries the future of 183 children, which is very heavy. But even when he was visited by the god of death, he did not let go of his burden. This burden-bearing life emits beams of human brilliance for us. Beautiful, burdensome life!
If responsibility is a kind of wealth, then Li Chunyan is rich. As the last barefoot doctor, she flew into the Miao countryside like a spring swallow, built a nest and took root. Carrying a medicine box on her back, she practiced medicine in the fields.
This simple woman is responsible for the health of people from all over the country. She has a great responsibility and a heavy burden. The simple medical facilities cannot help her, and the financial difficulty of making ends meet cannot scare her. But when faced with a life that cannot be saved, she sheds holy tears. The award speech that Touched China awarded her included this sentence: "She is not an angel, she is the moon that illuminates the Miao countryside." Yes! This life that bears such a heavy responsibility has a radiance as holy as the moon.
The meaning of life does not lie in the wealth you have or the rights in your hands, but in how many people you are needed. The lives of Hong Zhanhui, Cong Fei and Li Chunyan are beautiful because they carry the hopes, future and health of others on their shoulders. They are moving forward with a heavy load.
We should appropriately bear some weight for our lives and move forward with the weight, then our life will be more resilient. Even if it is not great, it must be closer to greatness; even if it is not eternal, it must belong to eternity. . Let us sing a hymn together: Beautiful, burden-bearing life. 6. Write a 700-word essay on the topic of "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you"
Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you
Lu Xun in "Ah Q" "The True Story" creates an "optimistic" image of Ah Q. His "optimism" is to put his own pain on others and bully the weak and avoid the strong. Isn’t this the case in our real society? What this society needs now is the virtue of "do not do to others what you would have others do not want done to you" rather than the "Ah Q spirit". We must learn to "do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you" in order to make society more harmonious, make people more friendly, and society will progress!
Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you. This is a good medicine to improve your personal spiritual realm. A senior high school student in a key middle school in a province was suspected of having influenza A and should be suspended from classes, but his parents were unwilling to suspend his child because he was also infected by others. What an irresponsible statement. You blame others for your child's illness. In order to keep your child from suspending classes, you have to hurt so many students. Where are the traditional Chinese virtues, Confucian classics, and personal cultivation at this moment? Already? If this child infects more people, will the entire grade have to be suspended? This parent’s behavior also reflects many of our social problems. We only consider personal interests and ignore the overall situation. If everyone knows that you should not do to others what you don’t want others to do to you, will everyone’s spiritual realm be improved as a result? ?
Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you. This is a great way to promote the harmonious development of society. Zheng Minsheng, a native of Nanping, Fujian Province, killed nine primary school students and injured four others in order to vent his dissatisfaction with society. Tracing back to the source, isn't it also because others put resentment on him, and he in turn put it on others? Society needs harmony and tolerance between people. As the saying goes: "The sky is brighter when you take a step back." Society needs harmony to progress, and the country needs social harmony to make steady progress. Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you is the premise and guarantee of these.
Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you is principled tolerance rather than unprincipled tolerance and cowardice.
Some people bully others and fear others. We do not need to be patient and should use kind words to persuade them. We must learn to be principled in our interactions and be tolerant without losing ourselves. Only in this way can people be equal and society can progress in harmony.
Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you. Talking about contemporary times from the Spring and Autumn Period, everyone understands the truth, but few people actually do it. Only if we really do what we don't want others to do to us, and not do to others, can we improve our personal cultivation, improve our spiritual realm, achieve harmonious progress and development of society, and make everyone live happily!
Remember: think twice before acting, and do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you. 7. Write an 850-word essay on the topic of tolerance
Tolerance
Each of us is not isolated, we are all members of society and family, and we are all here. Play different roles in society and family, and deal with different people. However, everyone has different interests, different personalities, different opinions, different habits and habits. After bumping into each other, it may make us uncomfortable, or it may damage or hurt us. How should we deal with these problems?
Maybe you think it should be "tit for tooth", maybe you think it should be "I would rather betray the world than let the world betray me", maybe you think it should be "I will not offend others unless they offend me. If you offend me, I will offend others." Maybe you agree with "People respect me one foot, and I respect others one foot." However, the ancients believed that "tolerance" can better handle such relationships and make people live in harmony.
Tolerance is a kind of wisdom and mind, and tolerance is a kind of demeanor and state. Tolerance means forgiveness, tolerance means understanding. Tolerance is the understanding of "don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you"; tolerance is the mind-set that "no one can make mistakes without being a sage" and "one can correct his mistakes, and there is no great improvement"; tolerance is the idea that "brothers will be there through all the calamities, and they will disappear with a smile when they meet" Gratitude and enmity are deep and profound; tolerance is the perspective thinking of "oneself wants to establish others, oneself wants to reach others".
Tolerance means no narrow-mindedness, tolerance means no jealousy, and tolerance means no hatred.
I remember a story from "Three Feet Alley":
A man who was a high-ranking official in the capital received a letter from his family saying that he had a conflict with his neighbor and had invaded his homestead.
The official who repaired the book replied:
A thousand miles of repairing a book is like building a wall.
What's the point of letting him go three feet away?
The Great Wall is still there today,
Qin Shihuang was nowhere to be seen.
After seeing the letter, the family felt it made sense, so they stepped back three feet. When the neighbor saw it, he felt ashamed and stepped back three feet. Then the contradictions disappeared, roads emerged, and the story of Sanchi Alley spread for hundreds of years. And what is celebrated behind this story is tolerance.
If the family is tolerant, the family will be harmonious and everything will be prosperous; if the society is tolerant, the country will be peaceful and the people are peaceful.
However, tolerance is not an unprincipled concession, tolerance is not a cowardly conciliation, and tolerance is not a genial "peacemaker". Tolerance is a kind of cultivation, and it is also a kind of wisdom. Tolerance is to put the overall situation first, tolerant is to face the future, and tolerant is to tolerate interests.
Tolerance is in the selfless book, tolerance is in the fair and upright history. Tolerance is the helping hand you extend to your competitors. Tolerance is your smile in response to your apology. Tolerance is your response to some unintentional mistakes. You don’t mind hurting, tolerance is your blessing to others’ success.
Only by being tolerant and “forgiving others with the same heart of forgiving yourself” can we have the realm and reality of “harmony is the most precious”.
After tolerance becomes a kind of wisdom, it becomes a virtue to be tolerant and helpful. Tolerance resolves conflicts and brings harmony.
March 24, 2013