Everything is established in advance, and it is abolished without advance;

There is also a saying in "Zhu Zi's Family Management Motto": Take precautions, don't dig wells when you are thirsty. ...

These wise sayings are familiar from childhood, but "knowing" does not mean "doing". In the face of daily life and things, the famous words remain the same, and the behavior remains the same. ...

Share a story, there is a treasure mother friend whose son is in the first grade. Recently, he has been asking me to discuss: "Do you want to report new concept English to his son?" She said that she saw that the students around her son had good English scores and learned new concepts, so she also wanted to report to his son! I said to her, "First, you should know your son's current English learning situation. If we want to strengthen it, then we must make targeted choices. Don't do what others do, because your child can't afford to delay time ... "

Why give this example? Because there are too many things like "thirsty to dig wells" in life.

Parents who have done a little research in advance will know that the first and second volumes of New Concept English cover Grade One and Grade Two. It takes about two years to study these two books. The most suitable time to study is the fourth grade of primary school. When children have a certain English foundation, they will spend two years studying the first and second volumes of New Concept English, which is equivalent to laying a certain foundation for junior high school English learning in advance and is helpful for junior high school English learning in the future.

However, if the child is already in junior high school, it is equivalent to learning similar knowledge points repeatedly for another two years, which is not necessarily cost-effective in terms of time cost.

But this kind of thing is not uncommon. Today, mothers heard that this course is good, so they signed up one for their children. I heard that the course is good tomorrow, and I signed up another one for my child. The key question is, is it suitable? Strategically speaking, is it meaningful to sign up for such a class?

Therefore, especially in children's lower grades, parents' vision and strategic thinking are very important, followed by testing parents' ability to acquire and judge excellent resources, and then making reasonable plans based on parenting goals.

Our family Liu is seven years old this year. She is in the first grade of primary school. Because I have always attached great importance to Chinese, I have been doing prosodic enlightenment and reading classics since I was about 5 years old. At present, from the language sense of Chinese and children's love for ancient Chinese, we can see that the initial enlightenment stage has passed smoothly and now it has entered a stage of rapid accumulation.

After all, people's energy is limited. Compared with those more farsighted parents, Liu's English enlightenment was a little late, but fortunately he was still in the golden second language acquisition period of 12 years old. So this year's strategy is to practice English closed-loop learning step by step on the basis of a solid language.

Maybe when you read this article, you will say, Mom Liu Xiaoxuan, how "chicken blood" do you have? Is the child hard? Haha, if you know our friend Liu, you will know that our family is definitely happy to learn! This is also the core concept of family education that I am concerned about.

I believe that after 300 days, I will write an article: "How does a 7-year-old baby capture an English genius in one year?"

The initial intention of sharing this article today is: what should we parents pay attention to in the process of raising children? What are our parenting goals? How to practice our parenting goals happily? I hope I can throw a brick to attract jade and make you think.

Finally, I ended with a sentence from Zhu Zhijia's motto: It is advisable to take precautions, and don't dig wells when you are thirsty. With parents' foresight and strategic planning, our children will be happier and happier as they learn!