If a person wants to succeed in doing things, he must have his own thoughts and opinions. He can't blindly listen to others, nor can he blindly repeat others' achievements and become a copy of another person. He must completely believe in himself in order to achieve his goals and ideals. We must first understand the word self-righteousness. Being opinionated means that a person has ideas about something, has his own opinions and opinions, and will not be shaken and doubted because of other people's opinions and visions, and will always stick to his own opinions.

What kind of person has no opinion? I summed up four points.

1, no matter what decision you make, it is difficult to give your own answer, and you like to find someone to accompany you when you do things.

2. Faced with questions, I like to ask people around me: What do you think should be done?

3. What should I do? It's easy to listen to what others say.

I obviously have the right to choose, but I don't know how to make a decision, so I have to transfer my right to others by asking.

There is a good story: Grandpa and grandson bought a donkey and walked home. Grandpa let his grandson ride on a donkey when he was young. Some people say that this grandson doesn't know filial piety. When the grandson heard this, he let grandpa ride on the donkey. At this time, someone pointed out that grandpa didn't hurt his grandson. What should we do? Grandpa and grandson simply stopped riding and took the donkey away. But some people laugh at them for not riding the donkey well, and they are pure fools; Hearing this, the father and son both got on the donkey, but some people still said that the two men were really cruel and deliberately wanted to kill the donkey; Finally, there was no way out, so the grandfather and grandson tied up the donkey's hooves and carried them away.

Father and son left so many ignorant jokes because they didn't have their own opinions.

How to have your own opinion?

First of all, whatever you do. Everyone should have their own subjective ideas. No matter how far things go, your own subjective thinking should always play a leading role. You can listen, but whether to adopt it or not should be judged from the overall development of the matter, and you can't blindly follow their instructions. You should have your own opinions and know the pros and cons.

Secondly, don't be hasty or blind. We must have a plan, calmly handle all kinds of affairs, and make emergency preparations. We must have a minimum and maximum grasp of any situation under special circumstances, so as not to go out of line and take care of the overall situation.

Again, just don't get emotional.

You should have a clear view of things. To be true to yourself, you don't have to worry about what others think or always want to please others. Do it for yourself, live for your dreams and live for happiness.