Introduction: In our daily interpersonal communication, the relationship between neighbors and relatives occupies a very important part in our daily life. The former is the existence of nodding and meeting each other, while the latter has a certain blood relationship to maintain the closeness. However, in dealing with these two relations, we should also know how to treat and deal with them correctly.

Old people often have a saying: "Neighbors are better than three, and relatives are not allowed to leave", which is what we often say in interpersonal communication. Maybe many people don't think so when they see it, but they all know what they have experienced, which is really a wise saying!

"Neighbors are not equal to each other", and the more they compare, the easier it is to have family conflicts.

If you can't have any mentality in life, it must be the mentality of keeping up with the joneses. People will always have a better existence than themselves, and daily comparison can only add trouble. Among the neighborhood relations, it is better to compare these three situations less and be more comfortable.

1. No more than wealth income

Many people often link whether their lives are happy or not with money income. Those with less income think they are poor and unhappy, while those with more income represent freedom and happiness. And comparing wealth with neighbors is undoubtedly adding to the trouble that you are not as good as others. Sometimes when you see other people's homes are good, you will start to blame those around you.

2, no better than educating children

"Look at the family next door, how good your grades are, how obedient you are, and then look at you, which is really worrying!" This is the so-called child next door. Every family's children's education is different, and children also have their own personal development. Parents don't always have to compare their children with others, as long as their children are happy and ordinary.

3. Not worse than the lover

Everyone has their own mode of getting along with each other, but they can't stand the comparison with others the most. A comparison often makes our eyes shift from the lover to others. If others are not as good as their lover, that's fine. If their lover is not as good as others, it may affect their harmonious marriage.

"two relatives don't leave", and frequent leaving is easy to produce hatred.

I have to say that there are hundreds of people raised by rice, even those from the same family have great differences in personal morality and thoughts. Even if they are related by blood, there must be some relatives in everyone's family that you don't want to contact. And if you have two kinds of relatives at home, you'd better walk less.

1. Snobbish relatives don't move around

One of the biggest characteristics of this kind of relatives is: have it both ways, who only depends on money, can't give timely help in the snow, but can definitely make it worse. When you have no power or influence, they can't wait to know you, and all kinds of dislikes ridicule you. Once you have money, their attitude will change 18 degrees, and they will flatter, please and cling to you.

In the eyes of such relatives, it is very important to see whether you are willing to associate with you or not, and whether you have some power or not is the key. This kind of relatives based on the supremacy of interests, let's go less!

2. Mi Chong's relatives don't move around

One of the biggest characteristics of this kind of relatives is that I am weak and reasonable, and love takes advantage of all kinds of petty advantages. You care about him once or twice, but it becomes a matter of course when you are more frequent. They are like a Mi Chong. They will always try their best to take advantage of you. If you refuse, you will become an immoral party.

In the face of such relatives, the best way is to walk less, or even not, because such relatives are kind to them, and they will only regard these as what you deserve and what they deserve. Without gratitude, how can we talk about deep affection?

Important note: In the process of getting along with neighbors, people should make as few comparisons as possible, not to compare the wealth and income gap, not to compare their children's education, and not to compare their lovers. Among the relatives, we should also know how to walk less and not provoke those who are snobbish and like to take advantage of Mi Chong.