Question 2: What should I do if I have a thick skin? You don't call it thick-skinned, just give yourself an explanation. The main reason is that your self-control is too poor, because you are not really aware of your inner problems, so you have no self-control to restrain your behavior. I suggest you experience the pressure of life and think about this problem again.
Question 3: How can I make my face thicker? Bill Gates has such a golden saying: The world won't care about your self-esteem, people will only look at your achievements. Don't overemphasize self-esteem until you achieve something. So, if you haven't succeeded, think about it. Self-esteem is not valued, no matter how thick it is, because it is the foundation of fame and fortune. The thickness of human skin is determined by its growth environment and personality characteristics. I think that among the intellectuals who value fame over profit, there seem to be more people with thin skin, and the more learned and educated they are, the thinner their skin will be-because these people value their own skin too much. China's cultural level is much lower among 100 countries in the world. According to statistics, it is even worse than North Korea and India (North Korea has 332 college students per 10,000 people, China has only 13, and developed Japan has 2,222), so there are more shameless people. If the newspaper publicizes that an individual doctor sometimes treats poor patients for free out of humanity, many people who are hungry and cold will go to see a doctor enthusiastically; If the news of a rich man's kindness to help others spreads and he is told from all directions that he is poor, letters asking for help will continue, and these cheeky people may really benefit from it. Those thin-skinned guys are really unprofitable. Occasionally attend a meeting and eat around the table with others, and the fresh and precious seafood is swept away like a breeze. Because of taking care of the face, chopsticks are stiff and their appetite is wronged. When it comes to getting someone to pay the bill, it's even harder for Nuo Nuo to back down and get good grades. Seeing shameless people walking around, I was surrounded by some unspeakable difficulties, and I was really lost! Intellectuals' thin skin is related to their strong self-esteem. This kind of self-esteem and self-love is indispensable, but it is too strong. In the journey of life, it will be difficult and the benefits will be taken up by others. A person who looks at the ocean and sighs in front of a lot of problems will distract his spirit and affect his career. For example, if you can't pull your face down and fight for improving housing conditions, you will squat in the room where it runs in the wind and rain, and the instruments used for scientific research will become yellow rust, and the old people and children will make noise, and you will. The reality of life has proved that thicker will yield more. If the person who wants to be an official shyly refuses to run, the superior leader will not fully understand you, and you will lose the chance of promotion; If the central people don't urge them to do things repeatedly, they won't know your urgency and have no motivation to do it. Writing here, I think of Mr. Zhu Ziqing's feat of not eating American rice, which is commendable, but hunger hurts me. Without nutrition, my brain will dry up. Mr. Zhu's brain is more precious than gold, which will stifle the beauty of the fetus. What a pity! Cheeks of cheeky people need sandpaper, while faces of educated people as thin as cicadas need several layers of yellow wax. Draw slowly if you can't draw it at once, and of course you can't draw it to the point where the bullet can't get in-that's not cheeky. On the other hand, will you lose your ambition to struggle after getting thicker and thicker? Can a fussy person lose the motivation to write because of exhaustion of qi and blood? Mr. Zhu won't be Mr. Zhu, will he? I really need to think about it.
Question 4: People say I have a thick skin. How can I respond humorously? Just say I have a thick skin and get in your way? Did I eat your rice or drink your water? If you can't do it, don't push me here (if you are a boy, say Lao Zi, if you are a girl, say Lao Zi)!
Question 5: How can I make myself thick-skinned? Shouldn't you say confident ~
Want to be confident? Then after you overcome your inferiority complex, your self-confidence will naturally be reflected in you. Now I'll tell you some ways and means to solve inferiority complex extracted from the Internet. I hope it works for you. When you carefully read the following contents and do them one by one, your life may change! Here is how to overcome inferiority complex, and finally how to exercise self-confidence.
Inferiority is a kind of negative self-evaluation or self-cognition, and inferiority is a negative emotion in which an individual has a low evaluation of his own ability and quality. The generation of inferiority complex is often not a difference in understanding, but a difference in feeling. Its root is that people don't like to measure themselves by realistic standards or scales, but believe or assume that they should reach certain standards or scales. Such as "I should be like this" and "I should be like someone". Most of this pursuit is divorced from reality, which will only breed more troubles and inferiority, and make you more depressed and self-blaming. Inferiority is the enemy of success in life. Since ancient times, many people have been deeply troubled by inferiority complex, and many people have been looking for ways to overcome inferiority complex. The following ways and means are quite operational, helping people get rid of inferiority and move towards self-confidence.
Overcome inferiority complex with psychological compensation.
Psychological compensation is a psychological adaptation mechanism. Individuals will always have some deviations in the process of adapting to society, so as to get compensation. Psychologically speaking, this kind of compensation is actually a kind of "displacement", that is, overcoming one's physical defects or psychological inferiority, developing one's other strengths and advantages, and catching up with or surpassing others' psychological adaptation mechanism. It is precisely because of this psychological mechanism that inferiority has become the driving force for many successful people to succeed and the "turbocharging" for them to surpass themselves. The bigger the "physical defects", the more.
Lincoln, the American president who liberated slaves, was not only an illegitimate child, but also ugly and lacking in manners. He is very sensitive to these defects. In order to make up for these defects, he tried to draw strength from education and study hard to overcome his early lack of knowledge and ignorance He studies in front of candlelight, light and water. Although his eyes are sinking deeper and deeper, the nutrition of knowledge fully makes up for his own defects. He finally got rid of his inferiority complex and became an outstanding American president. Beethoven was deaf since childhood, but he overcame difficulties to write the beautiful ninth symphony. His famous saying-"Help yourself!" "Become the motto of many people who strive for self-improvement.
Under the effect of psychological compensation, inferiority has the resilience to make people move forward. Because of inferiority, people will clearly and even excessively realize their own shortcomings, and urge themselves to study the strengths of others and make up for their own shortcomings, thus sharpening their own character, and a strong character is the psychological basis for success.
Inferiority can promote people to success. Humanitarian Witt? Boku pointed out that everyone has a spirituality in his heart, and with this spirituality, people can achieve many great things. This spirituality is a power hidden in everyone's heart, that is, the power to maintain individuality and resist foreign aggression. It is the "dignity" and "personality" of people. In order to maintain their dignity and personality, people ask themselves to overcome inferiority and self-defeating. Therefore, embarrassing factors can often become a springboard for developing themselves. A person's true value and morality depend on whether he can transcend the trap he has set, and only we can really save us. The so-called "God helps those who can save themselves".
The strong are not born, and the strong are not without weaknesses. The strong man becomes stronger because he is good at overcoming his weaknesses. When Pele, the first generation soccer king, first arrived at the most famous Santos soccer team in Brazil, he was so nervous that he stayed up all night for fear that the big stars would look down on him. He is a top player on the court, but he has no reason to doubt himself and is afraid of others. Later, he tried to forget himself on the court, concentrate on playing football and keep a calm mind. Since then, he has scored more than 1000 goals with unstoppable momentum. Bailey's process of overcoming inferiority tells us: Don't doubt yourself and belittle yourself, as long as you go forward bravely and put it into action, you will succeed. Over time, it will be freed from tension, fear and inferiority. Therefore, unwilling to feel inferior, trying to be strong and making positive compensation are good medicines for treating inferiority.
Psychological compensation is a mechanism that can make people turn defeat into victory. If used properly, it will contribute to the realm of life ... >>
Question 6: I am too thick-skinned. How can I become thick-skinned I can practice my eloquence with others, or I can go directly to sales. After a long time, you will naturally be thick-skinned.
Question 7: How to learn to thicken? 15 points 1. A successful person should know clearly what he wants, and the rest doesn't care what others think. People always live for themselves. In fact, everyone worships bold people in their hearts, but they just don't admit it.
2. There is another situation: it takes some skills to chase girls with thick skin, because the other party may not be able to stand too bold a way. Just be bold and cautious.
Question 8: How to become thick-skinned? When you say thick-skinned, you mean strong inside
A man with a strong heart doesn't mean that he doesn't care about other people's eyes at all, but that he knows that he is doing the right thing. Stick to your own ideas, speak loudly and do boldly, which is what you call "thick-skinned"!
Also, people should have the spirit of entertainment, self-mockery and cynicism. If something happens, don't be ashamed even if you make a fool of yourself. Hehe, smile as a joke, and others won't laugh at you too much.
Talking and communicating with different people, you can also exercise yourself, listen to their stories, understand various lifestyles, broaden your horizons, broaden your knowledge, strengthen your heart and be cheeky.
Thick-skinned, full; Thin skin, can't eat. I hope you succeed!
Question 9: How to treat today's thick-skinned society? Many people get along well, including some thick-skinned people, whose existence makes our society "colorful"; Let our society "be different". In all fairness, thick skin is also an ability that ordinary people really can't do.
Hehe, society is the appearance and performance of people who need to keep pace with the times. Needless to say, the thicker people in society, the more they can eat at work. At first glance, it sounds a little abnormal. Who says not? But this society really needs such talents sometimes. Many things are done because of the cheekiness of A, B, C and D, and they have contributed a lot, but not all of them. But I have to see the importance of thick skin. In contrast, people who love face will suffer a lot. It doesn't really matter. Such is the development of society. Sometimes you can't lose face. Of course, it depends on things. We should stress principles in major events and style in minor ones. But sometimes face can't make a living, and now people are still in the majority. Thick-skinned and saving face are a pair of enemies. In other words, if you love face, you can't be thick-skinned. Thick skin and saving face are two parallel lines that will never intersect. You can only choose one of the two, depending on what you think and choose.
Some people say that thick-skinned people can eat, which cannot be denied. You are thick-skinned, losing only temporary mental and physical embarrassment, but getting quite rich benefits. All fools understand this truth. In most cases, it is true that you are thick-skinned enough to eat.
Question 10: How to make yourself cheeky? It means that you have grown up now. I think you've experienced enough. Naturally, you will gradually become indifferent to other people's opinions. Also, you should be more open, contact with other people or strangers more, and make yourself more knowledgeable. Naturally, people will get to know you and understand you. Don't be afraid of what will happen. . . . . . . . .