1. If the heart changes with the mood and the world, and is out of tune with life, the heart will never be happy. Don't set your heart higher than the sky. If you aim too high, you will never reach the highest peak. Don't let your heart be deeper than the sea. If the city is too deep, you will never reach a solid bottom. Don't let your heart be more fragrant than flowers. If you think too highly of yourself, you will never be able to smell the elegant fragrance. Don't let your heart be greener than a willow tree. If you are self-centered, you will never be able to wait for the spring of the world.
2. People always feel lonely and try every means to relieve themselves, but in the end they still cannot escape loneliness. Loneliness is a curse imposed by nature on people who live in groups. Loneliness is the only way to face loneliness. ——Marquez "One Hundred Years of Solitude"
3. Life is a practice, and practice is actually about cultivating the mind. If your mind is small, small things will be big; if your mind is big, big things will be small. With a big heart, you can accommodate the affairs of the world; with a humble heart, you can appreciate the beauty of the world; with a deep heart, you can study the principles of the world; with a calm heart, you can respond to changes in the world.
4. Tolerance is a kind of wisdom and virtue, as well as a kind of cultivation, while forgiveness is the liberation of the soul. If you forgive, your resentment, blame, and anger are gone. Forgiveness is the antidote to resentment, blame and anger. Tolerance wins. "Tolerance is great", leaving space in your heart to tolerate others is actually tolerating yourself. People who don't get angry are stupid, and people who don't get angry are smart people.
5. We always like to use a microscope to scan our inner pain and a magnifying glass to see through the happiness of others. As a result, misfortunes are all crowded around us, and comedies are shown elsewhere. In fact, when you feel a shadow in front of you, it means there is sunshine behind you. As long as you are willing to turn around, God will be equally fair to you. When you are in pain and despair, you can admire the moving clouds in the sky and watch the crowds of people passing by. When you think about the short life, you can feel relieved, cherish the present moment, and move forward bravely.
6. Material abundance is wealth, and spiritual tolerance is happiness. Rich people are not necessarily happy, and happy people are not necessarily rich. Sparing no effort to pursue material wealth, fame and dignity, we often miss out on simple happiness. The heart is like a cup of water, and happiness is like the sweet spring in the cup. The more impurities in the cup, the less happiness there is. When the cup is filled with sediment, the spring of happiness has been drained. Only by clearing away the dust of desire and broadening your mind can you feel happiness all the time.
7. Let nature take its course, life becomes beautiful because of letting go. Rivers, mountains and streams flow with the trend, and their twists and turns are their beauty. In life, there are always some people and things. If you don't do it reluctantly and do it forcefully, you will end up hurting both sides. The fate is deep and the fate is shallow, it was already determined by fate. Everything and everyone's past determines the future. Those who can get together will naturally get together sooner or later; those who want to be separated, no one can make do with each other. Like water and fire. Be open-minded and bearish. What comes together naturally is eternity.