Mencius said, "A gentleman is a gentleman. Haven't you learned manners? The husband's crown is also the father's life; When the woman got married, she was sent to the door by her mother, and was warned:' When you go to your daughter's house, you must be respectful and restrained, without violating your master's intention!' He who takes obedience as the right path is also a concubine. Live in a vast place in the world, stand in the right position in the world and be the best self in the world. Success, with the people; Go your own way when you are frustrated. Wealth can't be lewd, poverty can't be moved, and power can't be bent. This is called a gentleman. "

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Mencius said, "Where can this be regarded as an ambitious and accomplished person?" Haven't you learned manners? When a man is crowned, his father gives discipline; When the woman got married, her mother gave her instructions and sent her to the door, warning her:' When you get to your husband's house, you must be respectful and careful, and don't be against your husband!' Surrender is the way of a concubine. Live in the widest house in the world, stand in the most correct position in the world and walk on the widest road. When we can realize our ideals, we will follow this correct path with the people; When you can't realize your ideal, you walk alone on this right path. Wealth cannot confuse his thoughts, poverty cannot shake his integrity, and power cannot bend his will. This is called a gentleman with ambition and achievement. "