" The swallows have gone, but they will come again;

The willows have withered, but they will bloom again; the peach blossoms have withered, but they will bloom again. But, you are wise. "Tell me, why are our days gone forever?"

I, who have always been shy, quoted the beginning of Zhu Ziqing's "Hurry" today because I feel that the years are passing by too fast and unknowingly. , another year is about to pass, which makes people sigh!

I recently read a passage, to the effect that when you are ten years old, you will cry when reading fairy tales; when you are twenty years old, you will cry when reading romance stories; when you are thirty years old, you will cry when you see bankbooks and real estate certificates. Our generation has received a different education. When we were young, we despised money worship, so we were twenty years later than today’s young people to wake up to it. If someone asked me what I care about most right now, I would honestly tell them - money. This is also what I have learned the most and gained the most in this year.

Watching TV at noon, there was a report about a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in Changde who had been living harmoniously since 1962, but they were sued in court over the demolition of their house. Ever since the male head of the family died, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have been very close for decades. Now, suddenly they have a large amount of money, but they have to go to court to settle it. It's really chilling. Especially the mother-in-law, who is 103 years old and has relied on her now seventy-seven-year-old daughter-in-law for more than 40 years to take care of her. But now she feels that her son is dead and her daughter-in-law is not eligible to inherit the demolition money.

This true report chills me. I really don’t know what feelings are. I think if the daughter-in-law had been cruel enough to leave her blind mother-in-law and make a living on her own after her husband passed away, she would have been able to support herself now with decades of savings, but now there is no way to do it again.

Nothing is reliable, only money is the most reliable. This is my biggest gain in the past year. Now I understand more deeply that "Although money is not everything, nothing is impossible without money." I will keep this in mind as a wise saying. A very cunning village woman often yelled at her neighbors. When her son came to help, the child's grandmother grabbed her grandson's ears and returned home, beating her head and face until he promised to meet anyone who had a grudge against her mother. People, even those who called me "grandpa" and "aunty" kept calling me, so grandma stopped. When we were building a house in the autumn, the child's father was hit by a stone and injured his foot. The village neighbors came to help. The child's mother looked guilty. Everyone said: "My child is very good at calling people. He doesn't care about the adults, but also cares about the child." My face."

I don’t take the initiative to blame others, I try my best to be friendly to others, and I believe that God will reward "good things". I have no regrets in the past year.

My mother committed suicide and left me when she was in her teens because she could not bear the double torture of politics and economics; I contracted a terminal illness at the age of forty; my husband passed away after getting sick; when my students and friends praised my experience So many setbacks are now so strong and peaceful. I will smile calmly: No matter the physical or psychological pain, it will be healed and healed by time. The meaning of life is to pick flowers along the way under the blue sky of the soul.

Don’t live in blame and complaint, don’t pin your happiness on others, keep the peace of mind, and always make yourself elegant. This year, I have not lived in vain.

The pace of time is in a hurry. "Whatever goes goes, and what comes comes comes." "I came to this world naked, and will I go back naked in a blink of an eye? But it cannot be peaceful," Why do I have to go through this life in vain?” I thought that I would comfort Mr. Zhu’s soul with my actions: I will not go through this life in vain! ! !

This article expresses the emotion of the vicissitudes of life, the short-lived flash in the pan, and the feeling that there is no time left when things are in a hurry.

It is an inspirational article