After listening to Fan Deng's The Wisdom of Wolves, my view of wolves was completely subverted! I realized that wolves and we are "close relatives", and wolves have a lot of wisdom for us to learn and absorb!
The wolf is experienced, and the wolves don't dislike him, because he has accumulated rich survival experience such as hunting. Although the body is old, but a lifetime of experience and wisdom can still serve the wolves. This spirit is that "falling red is not a heartless thing, but turning into spring mud protects flowers more." Little Wolf's respect for old Wolf reminds us that human beings should respect old revolutionaries, scientists, doctors, leaders and teachers. The experience of the "old" generation is greater than learning, and it is also the inheritance of human respect for the elderly. Animals still know how to inherit, let alone humans? In particular, wolves will feed back old wolves; For the sake of race, the old wolf will choose to leave the wolves silently and not drag them down; There are also little wolves who will leave the wolves to find their own territory and return to their homeland when they are old, which is consistent with our human thinking and feelings.
Wolves, like wise leaders of mankind, handle all kinds of contradictions between wolves with experience, IQ and EQ. Solve all kinds of complicated problems; Establish prestige with professional ability and become an example; Be brave and tolerant, and listen to your partner's suggestions and decisions.
Wolves are like a team, a big family. They act collectively, perform their duties and communicate accurately and clearly; Have the spirit of self-sacrifice, leadership, care about the growth of the little wolf, and support the old wolf with family interests as the core; Admission of new members; Communication and integration are often promoted through ritual activities. "The collective howl of wolves" is a sense of ritual of the wolf clan, just like a collective entertainment of us human beings.
Educate puppies and don't set limits on their behavior! Husband and wife agreed to educate the little wolf and educate the little wolf to bear the consequences of his actions. This is also an advanced family education concept today!
These excellent qualities and abilities of wolves, such as generosity, leadership, unity and cooperation, traveling around the world, returning home and so on. , are worth our human learning.
We humans really have so much to learn from wolves, and
Courage, wit, courage, cooperation, patience, guardianship, loyalty, tolerance, responsibility. ...
The three pillars of the wolf can be summarized as follows:
First, unity and cooperation with family interests as the core;
Second, sacrificial activities, continuous exchange and integration;
Third, excellent leadership.
There is no quarrel, no escape, no minority obeying the majority, only the absolute authority and unshakable responsibility of the wolf, which is a model of leadership art.
An excellent wolf is an example for his family to learn from. The wolf has two outstanding advantages: first, he is brave, and he has never lost any war; Second, tolerance, which has never killed any competitors. Every time it faces competition, it just declares sovereignty and then forgives the losers generously.
In the human world, most people attach too much importance to status and hope to be valued and recognized by others. This kind of social recognition induces people to achieve their goals by hook or by crook. Compared with wolves, people are more cruel than wolves.
A good book always brings me new knowledge. Thanks to the author and teacher Fan Deng, I have a new understanding of "Wolf". "Courage, wisdom, cooperation, loyalty, responsibility, unity, tolerance and sacrifice", these standards used to evaluate human beings, in fact, have been fully reflected in wolves. The long-term freezing of the wolf's "cunning, cruelty and demon" in our minds tells us that we can't just look at things from the surface, and we can only give our own judgment on people and things after we have a deep understanding, otherwise the wrong judgment will make human beings lose fairness. In the classic Tao Te Ching of Laozi, I always think that Laozi's thoughts such as "inaction", "obeying heaven" and "pleasure" are negative, but after listening to this book today, I found that wolves are the endorsement of Laozi's thoughts in nature, and doing things with the spirit of being born is really positive rather than negative! The grateful wolf brought me spiritual sublimation!
There are quotations, but they are all the voices of the heart. )