"Yu Ion" records a story about a man who lost his life due to breach of trust.
A businessman in Jiyang was crossing a river when his boat sank. He grabbed a hemp stalk and shouted for help. A fisherman heard the sound and went there. The businessman hurriedly shouted: "I am the biggest rich man in Jiyang. If you can save me, I will give you 100 taels of gold." After being rescued ashore, the businessman turned his back on him. He only gave the fisherman 10 taels of gold. The fisherman blamed him for not keeping his word and going back on his word. The rich man said, "As a fisherman, you have never made much money in your life. Aren't you satisfied with suddenly getting ten taels of gold?" Ganfu had no choice but to leave in dismay. Unexpectedly, the rich man's boat capsized again. Someone wanted to save him, but Ganfu, who had been deceived by him, said: "He is the one who doesn't keep his words!" So the businessman drowned. It was accidental that the businessman capsized and met the same man twice, but the bad news for the businessman was to be expected. Because if a person does not keep his word, he will lose the trust of others. Therefore, once he is in trouble, no one is willing to come to his rescue. Those who break their trust will have no choice but to sit back and wait for death if they are in trouble.
Ji Bu's "a promise of a thousand gold" saved him from disaster
●Life cannot bloom brilliant flowers from lies.
——Heine
●Those who do not believe in their words will not achieve results.
——Mozi
In the late Qin Dynasty, there was a man named Ji Bu who always kept his word and had a very high reputation. Many people had established a strong friendship with him. There was even a proverb circulating at that time: "It is better to get Jibu Yinuo than to get a hundred catties of gold." (This is the origin of the idiom "A promise of a thousand catties") Later, he offended Liu Bang, the emperor of the Han Dynasty, and was offered a reward for his arrest. As a result, his old friend not only was not deceived by the huge sum of money, but also risked the destruction of the nine tribes to protect him and save him from disaster. A person who is honest and trustworthy will naturally get a lot of help and can gain everyone's respect and friendship. On the other hand, if you are greedy for temporary comfort or small gains and break your trust with your friends, you will get "benefits" on the surface. But for this benefit, he ruined his reputation, and reputation is much more important than material things. Therefore, breaking trust with a friend is like losing a watermelon and picking up sesame seeds. The gain outweighs the loss.
Quotes from famous people about integrity
●Life cannot bloom brilliant flowers from lies.
——Heine
●Those who do not believe in their words will not achieve results.
——Mozi
●Honesty is a symbol of strength. It shows a person’s high self-respect and inner sense of security and dignity.
——Irene Kaser
●The people cannot stand without trust.
——Confucius
●The most immoral aspects of human beings are dishonesty and cowardice.
——Gorky
●How can there be dignity without honesty.
——Cicero
●When credit disappears, the body has no life.
——Alexander Dumas
●Half truths are often lies.
——Franklin
●Sincerity is an openness of the heart.
——La Rochefoucauld
●If you want others to be honest, you must first be honest yourself.
——Shakespeare
●Honesty is the lifeblood of life and the foundation of all values.
——Delai
●Being sincere is the way of heaven; being sincere is the way of man.
——Mencius
●You can only deceive others temporarily, but honesty is a long-term strategy.
——John Ray
●Credit is rare and easy to lose. Credit that takes ten years to accumulate is often lost due to temporary words and deeds.
——Daisaku Ikeda
●I would rather get the attacks of a hundred enemies with sincerity than get the praise of ten friends with hypocrisy.
——Petofi
●Honest people always hate hypocritical people, but hypocritical people often appear honest.
——Spinoza
●Without integrity, how can there be dignity?
——Cicero
●Broken promise is failure.
——Zola
Those who do not believe in their words will not achieve results in their actions————Mozi
People cannot stand without faith————Confucius
p>There is no dignity without honesty————Cicero
A half-truth is often a big lie————Franklin
Sincerity is the way of heaven; Those who are sincere are the way of human beings————Mencius
Broken trust is failure————Zola
Sincerity is an openness of the soul————Laroche Fuke
Deceiving others can only be temporary, but integrity is the long-term solution————John Ray
Integrity is a dignified weight, if you put it on, your life will not be long. If it sways again, the balance will immediately tilt steadily to one end.
Integrity is like a shining bright moon. Only by looking into the bright moon from above can the true attitude towards life be precipitated.
Integrity is like running water on the top of a mountain, which can wash away the glitz, restlessness, and falsehood, leaving behind the wonderful truth that enlightens the soul.
When credit disappears, the body has no life——Alexander Dumas
If you want others to be honest, you must first be honest yourself——Shakespeare
The most immoral subscriber in mankind is dishonest and cowardly——Gorky
To conceal the truth is to lie to yourself.
A gentleman’s words are hard to catch.
Candor is the wisest policy.
One word means nothing.
A promise is worth a thousand dollars.
Keep your word.
Golden words.
When a gentleman speaks, his word is final.
I ask others to be honest, and I have to be honest myself.
Two hearts cannot win one person, and one heart cannot win a hundred people. ————"Huainanzi·Miao Chengxun"
Sincerity is the highest virtue in life————Chaucer
The truth may be sad, but it is better than lies—— ——Va Azaev
Among all moral qualities, kindness is what is most needed in the world——Russell
Money is more valuable than a pure When it comes to conscience, what does it matter? ————Hardy
Honestness is the most touching thing——Shakespeare
Sincerity and simplicity are the precious qualities of genius————Stanislavski
Paper cannot contain fire, and mistakes cannot be concealed.
In a people's country, there must be a driving force, and this is virtue. ——Montesquieu
People cannot live like animals, but should pursue knowledge and virtue. ——Dante
Do not do evil because it is small, and do not do good because it is small. Only those who are virtuous and virtuous can obey others. ——Liu Bei
It is not a matter of disrespect for position, but a matter of disrespect for virtue; it is not a matter of shame that one does not have a good partner, but a matter of not being knowledgeable. ——Zhang Heng
The earth can support the city wall, and the accumulation of virtue can make a solid ground. ——Li Bai
If you do a good thing, you will feel at ease; if you do a bad thing, you will feel guilty. —— Shen Hanguang
The most valuable revolutionary quality is to remain unstained in the mud and not corroded by the sugar-coated bullets of the bourgeoisie. ——Zhou Enlai
The saddest thing for a person is the death of conscience. —— Guo Moruo
Shyness is the emotion of fear or fear of humiliation, which can prevent people from committing certain despicable behaviors. —— Spinoza
One should be zealously committed to acting morally rather than talking about morality. —— Democritus
Emotion has great inspiring power, therefore, it is an important prerequisite for all moral behavior. ——Kelov
Without great character, there would be no great people, not even great artists or great actors. ——Romain Rolland
Reason is higher than the heart, and thoughts are more reliable than emotions. —— Gorky
Communism is not only manifested in the fields and sweaty factories, it is also manifested in families, around the dinner table, among relatives, and in mutual relationships. —— Mayakovsky
The reason why virtuous people are virtuous is that they are not tempted enough; this is either because their lives are monotonous and rigid, or because they are single-mindedly pursuing a goal. No time to look around. ——Duncan
Human beings have been given a job, which is spiritual growth. —— Leo Tolstoy
People should be wise in wisdom, morally innocent, and physically clean. —— Chekhov
Conscience is determined by a person’s knowledge and entire lifestyle. ——Marx
A law-abiding and conscientious person will not steal even if there is an urgent need. However, even if you give a million gold dollars to a thief, you cannot expect him to stop stealing again. . —— Krylov
The spiritual moral power exerts its potential and raises its flag, so that our patriotic enthusiasm and sense of justice have to exert their power and role in reality. —— Hegel
Teach your children "virtue": it is virtue, not money, that makes people happy. This is my experience. What supported me in times of trouble was morality, and what kept me from committing suicide was not only art but also morality. ——Beethoven
If morals deteriorate, taste will inevitably deteriorate. —— Diderot
I would like to prove that anyone who behaves kindly and noblely will be able to withstand hardships. ——Beethoven
Ornament is also incompatible with virtue, because virtue is the strength and vitality of the soul. —— Rousseau
I am convinced that only a moral citizen can pay an acceptable salute to his motherland. ——Rousseau
Let us make dishonor the most severe part of the punishment! —— Montesquieu
Sound judgment on factual issues is the true foundation of all virtues. —— Comenius
Virtue is realized by actions, not by words.
—— Comenius
The only work and the whole work of education can be summed up in this concept-morality. ——Herbart
Virtue is like a famous incense. It becomes stronger after being burned or pressed. For example, good fortune can best reveal bad virtues, while misfortune can best reveal virtues. —— Bacon
Those who plot against others will be the first to suffer misfortune. ——Aesop
A wise man would rather prevent a disease before it occurs than cure it after it has already occurred; he would rather encourage to overcome pain than seek comfort for the sake of pain. ——Thomas More
Our strong morality is to achieve material success through struggle; this morality applies to nations as well as individuals. ——Russell
Develop in them the physical strength to endure hard work, the pure and noble morals, the broad and free spirit that can accommodate new trends, that is, the power to swim in the new trends of the world without being overwhelmed. ——Lu Xun
Only at the stage of social development where class antagonisms are not only eliminated, but also forgotten in real life, can a truly human being transcend class antagonisms and transcend the memories of such antagonisms. Morality becomes possible. —— Engels
We have proletarian morality, we should develop it, consolidate it, and educate the future generation with this proletarian morality. —— Kalinin
The current task is to excavate ore, refine pig iron, and cast pure steel for the Marxist worldview and the superstructure consistent with this worldview, even under the most difficult conditions. ——Lenin
Self-consciousness is the mother of progress, and self-abasement is the source of degradation. Therefore, self-consciousness is indispensable, and self-abasement is indispensable. ——Zou Taofen
Knowing shame is almost like courage. ——Confucius
There is no greater humiliation than shamelessness. ——Wang Tong
Revolutionary morality does not fall from the sky. It is developed and consolidated from daily unremitting struggle and exercise, just as jade becomes brighter as it is polished, and gold becomes purer as it is refined. —— Ho Chi Minh
Children need to be taught by others, and their problems need to be treated by others, even if they are teachers or doctors. But I'm afraid you have to make your own decisions on how to behave and deal with things. Many good remedies prescribed by others are often nothing more than waste paper. ——Lu Xun
It’s not that you can’t see justice, but that you’re afraid of not being brave enough to see justice. —— Xie Juezai
Be careful not to say bad things or do bad things even when you are alone, but to learn to be more shameful in front of yourself than in front of others. —— Democritus
Quietness cultivates one’s character, frugality cultivates virtue. —— Zhuge Liang
A gentleman worries about the road but not about poverty. ——Confucius
Be poor without flattery, be rich without arrogance. ——Zigong
Strengthen the foundation and use it sparingly, and then the sky will not be poor. ——Xun Kuang
Those who are extravagant and lazy are poor, while those who are powerful and thrifty are rich. —— Han Fei
The journey of a gentleman is to cultivate one’s character through tranquility, and to cultivate one’s virtue through frugality. If it is not indifferent, it will not clear its aspirations, and if it is not peaceful, it will not be far-reaching. —— Zhuge Liang
Those who are extravagant will be in ruins, while those who are frugal will be at peace. ——Bai Juyi
Don’t think about living in peace and be prepared for danger, abstain from extravagance and be frugal; cut down the roots in order to seek luxuriant trees, stop the source in order to have a long flow. ——Wei Zheng
Looking at the virtuous countries and families in the past, their success was due to diligence and frugality, and their success was due to extravagance. ——Li Shangyin
The overlord took Erjiang alone, and many of his descendants surrendered with hundreds of cities. After the success of Luxurious, what about peace and happiness and misfortune? ——Wang Anshi
Luxury leads to more desires. A gentleman who is too lustful will seek wealth and honor, which will lead to disaster in vain. ——Sima Guang
Extravagant means taking extravagantly and humiliating ambitions; once you practice frugality, you have nothing to ask for from others and nothing to be ashamed of yourself, which can nourish your spirit. —— Luo Dajing
Half vermicelli should be cherished even if it is a public property. People don't understand Yu Zhongqu, but they say Yu is a calculating person. ——Xu Teli
A person who allows himself to be completely controlled by wealth can never be fair. ——Democritus
Whoever scrimps on food and clothing on weekdays will easily get through difficulties when he is poor; whoever is luxurious and extravagant when he is rich will die of hunger and cold when he is poor. ——Sadie
Luxury always follows fornication, and fornication always follows luxury. ——Montesquieu
The inevitable consequence of luxury—the disintegration of manners—in turn causes the corruption of taste. —— Rousseau
The purpose and function of etiquette is to make people's original stubbornness become supple, to make people's temperament gentle, to make them respect others and get along with others. —— John Locke
A kind spirit welcomes people, and they are as close as brothers; a bad spirit greets people, and it harms the soldiers. ——Guan Zhong
There are great brave men in the world who are not surprised when something happens suddenly, and are not angry when something happens without reason. ——Su Shi
We should be careful not to hurt other comrades with words, but we should also be able to bear it when others use words to hurt us. ——Liu Shaoqi
Courtesy is the golden key to human perfection. —— Sonsuneji
Speaking aggressively does not necessarily mean that what you say is reasonable. —— Sadie
Whether you are a man or a woman, you must be gentle and tolerant to others to deserve the name of a person.
A person's true bravery and decisiveness are by no means equivalent to using fists to stop others from speaking. —— Sadie
Having a strong temper can easily cause anger and annoyance. It is a bad habit that makes the mind move towards the improper things. It is an impulsive and irrational action.
——Peter Abelard