Solar energy takes off your coat faster than wind; A kind and friendly way is easier to change others' minds than any violence.

Carnegie

Benevolent people are invincible in the world-(China) Mencius in the Warring States Period

You should help your friends when they are in trouble, and don't gossip after things are hopeless. -(Greece) Aesop

Don't do it with little evil, and don't do it with little good. -(China) Gold

The ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky. -(France) Hugo

Compassion is the highest virtue of all morals. -(British) Bacon

Kindness is not a science, but an act. -Roman? Long-distance radio navigation system

Be a person who gives charcoal in cold weather and comforts in pain.

-(China) Ba Jin

Of all the moral qualities, the kind nature is the most needed in the world.

-(British) Rosso

Sincere concern makes people feel happy, just like a bird in the morning facing the sunrise in spring. -(Soviet Union) Gorky

Love makes the world go round. -(British) Dickens

Everything about a person should be beautiful: face, clothes, soul and thoughts.

-(Russia) Chekhov

For me, the meaning of life lies in putting yourself in others' shoes, worrying about others and enjoying their happiness. -(America) Einstein

As long as you are pure, honest, diligent and considerate of others, your life will be successful. -(America) Mark? between the two

Kindness is the sunshine of the spiritual world. -(France) Hugo

A thousand people shake hands and make my sleeves smell good for three years. -(China) Qing Gong Zizhen

Books need nests, spiders need webs, and people need friendship. -(British) Blake

Anyone who meets a friendly heart in the world, has experienced the state of being kind to each other, and has tasted the happiness between heaven and earth. -(France) Roland? Ancient Roman

Factual argument

The sun and the wind are arguing about who is stronger. The wind said, "I will prove that I am better than you." Do you see that old man in a coat over there? I bet I can get him to take off his coat faster than you. "

So the sun hid behind the clouds, and the wind began to blow, and it became bigger and bigger, becoming a hurricane. But the faster the wind blows, the tighter the old man is wrapped.

Finally, the wind gave up. Then the sun came out from behind the clouds and smiled brightly at the old man. Soon, the old man began to wipe the sweat and then took off his coat. The sun said to the wind, "You see, it is still gentle and friendly, and it is more powerful than anger and violence."

Hoover, a famous American test pilot, flew back to Los Angeles. In the air more than 90 meters above the ground, just two engines failed at the same time. Thanks to his superb skills, the plane landed miraculously. Hoover immediately checked the jet oil. As he expected, the propeller plane he was flying was full of jet oil. When he summoned the mechanic in charge of maintenance, the other person cried with fear. At this time, Hoover did not fly into a rage as everyone expected. Instead, he stretched out his arm and hugged the maintenance man's shoulder. He said confidently, "To prove that you can do a good job, I want you to help me maintain my plane tomorrow." Since then, Hoover's plane has never broken down, and careless maintenance workers have become conscientious and meticulous.

This story is very touching. Although the repairman's fault almost killed him, Hoover, who is kind-hearted, deeply understands the psychology of those who are at fault. When the other party suffers from a serious mistake, be considerate, exercise self-restraint and give unexpected relief to restore their confidence and self-esteem. This is the great power of friendliness. Imagine that if Hoover angrily reprimanded the maintenance worker, or even held him accountable, it would probably completely ruin him. Visible, in the face of the same thing, with two different attitudes to treat, there will be different endings. Friendly, can make big things small, be kind to others and benefit yourself-has Hoover's plane never gone wrong since then? Dealing with anger and even violence often hurts rather than benefits.

Before the movie started, a friend sat in his seat with peace of mind. In the aisle, a girl who was a little late smiled at him. At the beginning of the movie, my friend felt that the girl's eyes were still on him. He got up unnaturally and checked his seat number again through the reflection on the screen, only then did he find himself a "bird in the nest". He stood up and said, "I'm sorry!" ""Never mind, "the girl said with a smile." I was scolded for being late. "