Indeed, in the long history, our ancestors summed up a lot of experiences and lessons and condensed them into some simple proverbs, which are still instructive even now.

For example, we often say "be lenient with others, be lenient with others", but literally, even when it is reasonable, it cannot be aggressive.

When dealing with things, it is best to put yourself in others' shoes with a tolerant and peaceful attitude, so as to better understand and forgive others, unite more people and form your own help.

Then, if you trace back to the source, you will find that this sentence actually comes from "Tuyu Collection". The original text says: "Bad Ke really has a wonderful way to connect with God, and a game has been going on for several years." Out of the hole, there is no opponent. Forgive others and forgive others.

Behind this seemingly simple proverb, there is actually a very profound philosophy.

You see, even if he is "invincible outside the cave", he should also consider that people have very complicated and close ties, and there may be intersections at any time, so he should try his best to be tolerant and generous at ordinary times. It's good for you to leave a good impression on others.

If a person haggles over every ounce in life and feels justified, he can be aggressive. Over time, his interpersonal circle will become narrower and narrower, and life will be very painful.

Then if we still choose forgiveness and tolerance when others make mistakes, we can not only give others a chance to turn over a new leaf, but also show our broad mind, show our kind side and set up a very good image.

What many people don't know is that there is actually the second half of this sentence, which is the essence of the whole poem. The second half is "Let go when it's time to let go".

In fact, we will always face various choices in life, and sometimes we have to give up one in order to get another. In fact, life is constantly growing in constant choice and loss.

If you only stare at what has been lost and see only the petty profits in front of you, you will obviously lose more and more things.

But choosing to let go now is actually to get more in the future and go further and further.

As we all know, everything needs to pay a price, and if you gain something, you lose something.

Let go when it's time to let go. It is this proverb that contains a very profound warning truth, so it has been widely circulated for thousands of years.

In fact, this sentence has another meaning, that is, don't mind your own business, don't mind your own business, and don't force things that don't belong to you.

In other words, in fact, it is necessary for everyone to understand the truth of "willing". In fact, people's ability and energy are limited all their lives. If you want to catch everything, the good things will go faster and faster like quicksand.

So this sentence also tells us not to be too persistent.

If you persist, you are actually giving yourself unnecessary constraints, limiting your future development, and you may lose more precious things in the future.

So the words of our ancestors are really thoughtful and thought-provoking, which can be used as the wisdom of our modern people.

This sentence is still of great significance, which can give us a sobering feeling.

Of course, it's easier said than done. In fact, many people understand a lot of truth, but they can't live a good life.