In the eyes of the wise, love is a moth, doomed to disappointment, so don't fall in love. All love in the heart of a "wise man" will be disappointed, although love may make people a "fool". But fools are often braver. They face their hearts.
There are only two kinds of feelings: one is misunderstanding of others' beautiful feelings, and the other is sincere love. But there is nothing wrong with either. This is a common occurrence in life.
Fools are trapped by love, but wise men don't fall in love.
In the world of love, there is no rational place. In love, if a man needs a woman's reason, he is absolutely not wrong, just that he doesn't love you very much. Especially women, because women are emotional animals, are most likely to indulge in feelings and lose their rationality and direction.
I've met too many women who were sensible and smart. Once in love, they become indifferent, unable to think, unwilling to work hard, not knowing what they should do, and just go with the flow.