You are good to me, and I will be good to you;

You treat me like a fool, I treat you like a fool;

In this world, heart-to-heart communication is not easy, and no one is stupid, just don't say it.

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There are always some people who like to treat others as fools, think they are perfect, and play with their own minds and tricks.

These people are like goldfish in a glass jar, seemingly swimming proudly, but in fact they can see everything in front of them.

Warm received a phone call from a colleague a few days ago, asking her to remember to eat her birthday cake the next day.

Colleagues are very enthusiastic and sincerely say, "You must come to the company tomorrow. I brought you a big piece under the cake specially. You can also bring some back for your sister. " Do come. "

Warm and declined, saying that he would not go to work tomorrow. "I appreciate your kindness, really, but I really can't go tomorrow. Happy birthday to you."

Hanging up the phone, Wennuan resents himself. He clearly knows what kind of people his colleagues are, but he still comes clean.

The company's work schedule is all open mail for everyone to see. This colleague obviously sat opposite him, and did not say that he would start a new stove after work.

It is not that I am oversensitive, but that this colleague has always regarded himself as a fool.

I still remember that I had a holiday for two or three days, accompanying this colleague who said that it was not safe for her girl to find a house alone. The result was rejected, and she talked a lot before she could find a house smoothly.

Later, I learned that this girl has always been friends with another person in the company, but she only asks for warm help if she has something to do.

This birthday cake is not for you to share, but for this colleague to show his warm relationship in the company and show it to the leaders.

In fact, no one is stupid. No matter how sincere a person gets up after a loss, he can see a person clearly. I just don't want to tell you anything. We must work together with Qi Xin, which makes it easier to keep the peace on the surface.

So, don't always play tricks on people, no one is stupid; Don't always play tricks on people, everyone will watch.

-02-

There is always a lot of helplessness in the world of adults. Flattery has become an ability, and flattery has become a skill.

You can always meet superior people at work, and superior people are used to seeing the results.

Water worked hard last week to make a data table of group work mistakes, and the result was directly reported by the department assistant as his own score in the weekly report.

Usually, other small things are forgotten. This data sheet really can't stand it. She knows that she can't do anything. After all, it is her immediate boss, but she doesn't want to suffer.

This assistant always seems to have a good relationship with everyone in the department. In fact, no one despises her, because she always takes all the achievements as her own credit and blames all the mistakes on the members' problems. Actually, obviously, she didn't explain it clearly either.

For the first time, Shui really refused to bring breakfast to this assistant. Before that, she even refused by not eating or taking it herself.

Praise yourself in the meeting and show the results when you show them, otherwise you will still be reported by others.

But she never thought of taking credit, taking the achievements of other members of the group as her own, and praising whoever should be praised.

I once told her that she could acquiesce as long as she didn't mention the person who did the work, but she said she didn't want to be an assistant.

If you fight the dragon for too long, you will become a dragon yourself; If you stare at the abyss for too long, the abyss will stare back at you.

Many things are not that I don't want to do, but that I don't want to be what I hate.

You can be hypocritical, but you still have to keep your sincerity; I can be secular, but I still want to keep my innocence.

He who sees through without telling the truth is to save face for the other party. If you get used to it, you won't agree and leave some room for yourself.

You will never learn to be insincere, but you just need to have a clear conscience and live up to your own conscience.

-03-

There is a question on Zhihu: Why is it getting harder and harder for adults to make friends?

There is a great answer: because no one will be wronged at this age, I know at a glance that I can't make deep friends and don't want to easily show my experiences to a new friend.

Feelings are things that you will give up if you can't change your heart. Love and friendship, including family ties, are the same. You are good to me, and I will be good to you. It is foolish to pay unilaterally, but no one wants to be stupid all the time.

Nowadays, many people are colleagues and friends, because once there is a dispute over interests, they can't be sincere, and really not many people are willing to waste their sincerity on strangers.

Adults have a low tolerance. They don't quarrel again and again like children. They just stop when they arrive. As we all know, it is not the test of time at all.

Friends haven't contacted for a long time, or they only contacted when something happened. In fact, they have no feelings by default. Old classmates are old classmates, former colleagues are former colleagues, and roommates who live together are just roommates.

Although I don't talk much, I'm not stupid. We just need to walk a long way together. You didn't pay, and I won't choose to pay.

It's hooliganism not to talk about marriage. Now, men and women can clearly see that no one wants to waste their time. Try what is suitable and reject what is not.

When people are together, they come. If they are not, they will disperse.

No one is stupid, and nothing in return will be done. Feelings can only be established through exchange.

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I am not necessarily smart, but I am not stupid. I can understand many things, but I just don't want to say them.

People who are too smart will be tired, and sometimes they will be happier if they are confused; I don't want my friends to be like me, I just want to be honest with each other.

Being a man is actually very simple. If you are good to me, I will be good to you, and people will change their minds. If you value me, I will sink!

Kindness does not mean stupidity, kindness does not mean stupidity.

To all the kind and heartless people.