On one occasion, I had a disagreement with the imperial concubine, and the imperial concubine wanted to blame her. I didn't expect the other party to treat her like a royal concubine at all.
Fei Ying is just very quiet. She and the maid stood there, their backs straight, looking at her faintly and saying, "The emperor attaches great importance to Mongolia. How dare you touch me? "
Wan Fei was even more angry when she heard this. She hurriedly asked the servants around her to do it, but all the servants knelt down as promised and advised her to calm down.
Just as the two sides confronted each other, the Queen Mother happened to pass by, and the first thing she did was to blame the imperial concubine.
If it is another woman in the palace, I'm afraid she will be scolded by the imperial concubine Di Wei.
Fei Ying dares to talk back because she is the first princess of Mongolia. She doesn't need to please anyone, and she's not afraid of being bullied by anyone.
If you are wronged in the palace, Mongolia will never let go.
Where is the imperial concubine? She is just a little maid-in-waiting with superior means. She doesn't have Fei Ying's strong backing and confidence.
It's really refreshing to see it, but I also understand a truth: a strong family is the greatest guarantee for a woman's marriage.
It is said that women nowadays should be independent and love themselves, but we ignore the important point: to have a good family.
It's right to rely on yourself, but if you don't have a good family, you will always be alone.
But one day, you are sick, unemployed, abused, or caught up with other emergencies, and then you need the help of your parents.
Whether the bride's family gives it or not depends on this time.
I have a cousin named Wan Wan, and her family is very good. Never talked about a boyfriend in college and got married after graduation.
The two had a good relationship, and Wan Wan got pregnant soon after marriage, but Wan Wan never expected that Wan Wan's husband had an affair in the marriage.
At that time, Wan Wan's belly was already very big, and she would give birth in a month or two.
This child can't be taken away, and her husband has been entangled with women outside, completely ignoring her feelings.
Sister Wan Wan made a decision almost without hesitation: she wanted a divorce and became a single mother.
She told the news to her parents, who immediately agreed to find a lawyer as soon as possible to help her daughter divorce and strive for the best interests.
After the divorce, she lived with her parents. From confinement to child care, her parents are helpful and give Wan Wan more love.
At home, she is still a carefree little princess with a lovely and caring baby.
Outside, she is still an independent professional woman with a low salary, but she is optimistic.
After hearing this sentence, it is just used to describe the graceful maiden's family: "Advance can add icing on the cake, retreat can send charcoal in the snow."
When you get married, we give you our best wishes. When you get divorced, we give you the biggest retreat.
A good bride's family is not necessarily rich and powerful, but reliable at the critical time.
If someone tries to support you, give you the bottom, and give you full love and dependence, you won't choose to swallow it, let alone divorce for your children.
Because you know, whether you have a family or divorce, you will always have a home to go back to.
But there are still many women who can neither get in nor get out.
It's also her husband's infidelity. Not all your family members will support your divorce, but more will persuade you to bear it.
Woman, there is nothing unfair about marrying someone.
What is the psychology of these family members?
They are more afraid of their daughter's troubles after divorce than their daughter's infidelity, abuse and unhappy marriage.
This divorced woman is different. There will always be gossipy neighbors who will ask your daughter why she divorced. Moreover, there is no place for her to live at home for a long time.
The overwhelming gossip not only made them lose face, but also made them feel that their daughter had done something wrong.
For this reason, these parents can only tell their daughters that you didn't do well enough, that you have a bad temper, and that you don't pay attention to that man, so he cheated.
Most importantly, they may also draw a classic saying: "There is no cat that doesn't cheat, but men always make mistakes."
Such a family, even if you are independent and rely on yourself again, I am afraid there will be a moment when you will feel very sad and feel that there is no one behind you.
The attitude of your family will affect your judgment. If you have a good family, you will not tolerate love rat, but if you have a bad family, you may endure it all your life.
Do you think it is important to have a good family? Fortunately for me, I am sure that my family loves me.