The neighbor's son is 34 years old and still single. His parents are anxious like ants on hot bricks, but he always looks calm.
Whenever someone asks him if he has a girlfriend, he always disdains to answer, "I'm a man. What am I afraid of?" The older a person is, the more valuable he is. Unlike a woman, the older he gets, the less valuable he becomes. Uncle is popular now, and the older you get, the more popular you are. "
Different people have different reactions to his remarks. Someone gave him a dirty look directly, some pretended not to hear it, and others laughed without saying a word.
And he has been living in his own world, and I thought I was really the one who became more and more valuable with age.
Where does the rumor that "the older a man is, the more valuable he is" come from?
Many things on the Internet can't be traced back to the source, just like Rhapsody of a Flower in July, and no one remembers how it came into being.
Perhaps it is a funny line in a film and television drama, or it may just be a joke on the Internet, but in any case, it is taken seriously by many men.
There are many things on the Internet. As for the truth and falsehood, it's up to everyone to tell for themselves.
Some words are wise sayings, and everyone will be enlightened after listening to them, while some words are really poisonous chicken soup, and whoever believes them is unlucky.
There is no doubt that the phrase "the older people get, the richer they get" is a poisonous lotus in full bloom in the network.
What kind of man is more valuable as he gets older?
Are there really more and more valuable men in this world? I think the answer is about this. 98% of men will lose their value with age, and only 2% of men will really become more valuable with age.
These 2% men have made a qualitative leap in assets and social status with their age. They are not ordinary people, but successful people who are in high positions and stand at the top of the pyramid.
Such men are indeed more valuable as they get older, because their value has been soaring.
For example, Mo Yan, although he was a writer since childhood, reached the peak of his career in his 70s and won the Nobel Prize in Literature. At this time, he is naturally more valuable than when he was young.
Another example is Liu. Although I started my own business in my early thirties and made small achievements in my career, I am still a little behind my forties.
Many people may say that since I can get more value as I get older, so can I. Although I am now in my thirties, I will definitely have a successful career when I am 40.
It's good to have this idea, but in most cases it's just a fantasy.
Whether a man has ambition or not can already be seen in his early thirties. Men who get more valuable as they get older have already had good careers in their early thirties. If you are just an ordinary person after the age of 30, the chance of turning over in the future is only1110,000, because success requires a gradual process and cannot be achieved overnight.
This is a very realistic thing, and you can see many such cases in your life.
As we all know, "uncle" is not a title, but an adjective.
In recent years, there have been some uncle-Lori love, even brother-sister love. Their feelings span ages, but we can also find similarities. Whether it's an uncle or a sister, the older ones are excellent.
But many men don't seem to understand the truth, they just see the surface phenomenon.
In recent years, everyone has watched some TV dramas about uncles and young girls, so many men think that girls like uncles, which is a big misunderstanding.
Think carefully, what is the uncle who is deeply loved by girls in film and television dramas? Where is their uncle? They are clearly overbearing presidents.
They have assets that 95% men can't match, and their handsomeness is also unmatched by 95% men.
And most importantly, they are so devoted that they have turned their little public deeds into little princesses.
See, this is the difference. The uncle in a man's heart is completely different from the uncle in a woman's heart.
What men do for their uncles: It's ok when they reach a certain age.
Uncle in a woman's heart: rich assets, extraordinary social status and good looks. In other words, Gao Fushuai entered middle age when he was young.
Men and women really think differently. They think they are uncles. In fact, they have never had anything to do with this word.
They think that the uncles that girls like are all elderly men like them. In fact, ordinary elderly men like them can't get into the eyes of young girls at all.
"Uncle" is an adjective to describe a middle-aged man standing at the top of the pyramid. Men worthy of being called uncles account for no more than 5% of the country.
Based on this, everyone should give up fantasy and understand their real position.
What girls like is not uncle, but uncle's unique value.
Since ancient times, Chang 'e has loved teenagers, and women really like young and handsome men, which is also the main reason why contemporary small fresh meat is so popular. Most of the groupies are women, and the top people in the entertainment circle confirm the true aesthetics of women.
But life is realistic. Sometimes, women will lose their own aesthetics and choose real life. Uncle, for example, is the object that many women yearn for.
When two men with the same conditions and age difference of 10 are put together, almost 100% of women will choose the younger one.
But if both of them are 10 years old, but the older one is rich in assets and completely upper class, the result will be completely different.
Women never love older men, which is the main reason why single men and women over 30 take off their orders; But women like "uncle" because "uncle" symbolizes success and superior life.
Based on this, men should have an accurate positioning of themselves. What men are getting more and more valuable and what rhapsody in July is a flower is just a lie.
In the world of ordinary people, youth is the biggest capital, and you will only depreciate rather than appreciate as you get older.
What you really appreciate is always those high-quality men in the real sense!