Famous aphorisms series material: Honor and disgrace, gain and loss
If a gentleman does not harm justice by profit, he will live in shame! ——Confucius
Loyalty is the road to honor. ——Zola
Everyone considers it a disgrace to lose one’s appearance, and a gentleman considers it a disgrace to lose one’s righteousness. ——Zizi
To die for the benefit of the people is more important than Mount Tai. ——Mao Zedong
Those who are eager to win will fight, and those who are greedy for courage will be humiliated. ——Lin Bu
Honor is like a firefly. It shines brightly from a distance, but neither heats up nor shines much when seen up close.
——John Webster
It is sad to live on the reputation of others. ——Juvenalis
Immortal reputation exists only in virtue. ——Petrarch
Stick to your doctrine, doctrine is more important than life; you would rather life disappear, as long as your reputation can remain. ——Petofi
A person who gives up his reputation is equivalent to giving up his life. ——Arrettino
Reputation can powerfully inspire desire. ——Graham Green
Social honor comes from material possessions, and sometimes it is more like a springboard to obtain such possessions.
——Frank Parkin
There is no difference between the pursuit of glory and the instinct to preserve life that all living things have. Being able to entrust one's life in the memory of others, life seems to be lengthened; glory is the new life we ??gain, which is precious and valuable, no less than the life given by nature. ——Montesquieu
If you plan to pursue your own happiness, don't try to make a name for yourself. The greatest glory lies not in never falling, but in getting up every time you fall. ——Goldsmith
Reputation sometimes produces some useless things. ——Thomas Fuller
People with strong vanity do not so much do it to stand out, but because they think they are outstanding, so they do not hesitate to use deception and strategies to maximize their vanity. ——Nietzsche
When you succeed in something, don't wait to enjoy the glory. Do the necessary things again.
——Pasteur
The crowns of honor in the world are all woven with thorns. ——Jia Lai
Honor cannot be sought, and any pursuit of honor is in vain. ——Goethe
Honour lies in the working hands. ——Leonardo da Vinci
If fame comes only after death, then I will not be eager to get it. ——Martell
True fame lies beyond vanity. ——Leon
Honor is like a toy, you can only play with it, you must not keep it forever, otherwise nothing will be achieved.
——Marie Curie
You can’t get a laurel without hardship, you can’t get an achievement without suffering, and you can’t get an honor without suffering.
——Anonymous
The problems of vanity, vanity, despicability and narrow-mindedness... are extremely common. People often find that they have these problems, and they often find that others have these problems, so Although people look up to relatively perfect standards, they never criticize these shortcomings. ——Marie Curie
The talents buried at the bottom are truly worthy of respect. He works hard all his life and rushes all his life. He does not seek reputation or glory. He has only one thought to inspire him and works for the public interest. ——Krylov
It is much better to get the honor you deserve but not get it than to get the honor you don’t deserve. ——Mark Twain
Those who hope for good fortune without virtue will make an appointment; those who have no merit and receive fortune will be humiliated. ——Anonymous
A person should not be tempted by fame, money and status... to neglect justice and other virtues.
——Plato
When faith is lost and honor is lost, the person is dead. ——Whittier
Those who pursue praise will not achieve great achievements. ——Plutarch
For a person, what is expected is nothing else, but that he can go all out and devote himself to a good cause. ——Einstein
Honor is like life, once lost, it can never be regained. ——Cyrus
Vanity makes people laugh at others; pride makes people humble, and ambition makes people extremely vicious.
——Mrs. Starr
The so-called reputation refers to everyone’s recognition of my excellence; if I have excellence but others are unwilling to admit it, then even though I have excellence, I will not admit it. The name is not established. ——Feng Youlan
Vanity first takes society as its object, while reputation first takes itself as its object. Contrary to vanity's focus on society, reputation is the understanding of one's own character. ——Miki Kiyoshi
Vanity and curiosity are the two whips of our souls. The latter drives us to put our noses in everything, the former forbids us from being indecisive. ——Montaigne
Vanity is nothing more than the hormone of labor and the ointment of rest; it is tightly attached to the fountain of life.
——Ruskin
Vanity is a desire to pursue personal glory. It is not based on a person's quality, performance and achievements, but only on the basis of personal existence. A desire for appreciation, respect and admiration from others. So vanity is nothing more than a frivolous beautiful woman. ——Goethe
Vanity is not so much a sign of pride as it is a sign of humility. ——Swift
When a person is vain, it simply means that he takes pleasure in the influence he has on others. But a man who exalts himself is satisfied with the influence he has on himself. ——Beerbohm
A vain reputation leads to real disaster. ——"Emperor Wu"
Reputation is a boring and deceptive thing; the person who gets it may not have any merit, and the person who loses it may not have any fault. ——Shakespeare
Honour has no absolute purpose and cannot exceed the existence and value of life itself. ——Schopenhauer
Taking too much attention to reputation is the most common mistake that ordinary people make. ——Anonymous
Everyone’s vanity is equal to the degree of his stupidity. ——Anonymous
Vanity is very ugly and annoying to everyone, because everyone has it without exception, and two vanities can never like each other. ——Anonymous
Vanity and real sorrow are completely contradictory emotions, but this emotion is so deep-rooted in human nature that even the most painful sorrow can hardly get rid of it. In moments of sorrow, vanity manifests itself in the desire to appear sad, unhappy, or strong; we do not admit this base wish, but it never leaves us; even in the deepest sorrow it is inseparable from us and weakens it. Strength, not virtue and sincerity.
——Leo Tolstoy
The highest form of vanity is the love of fame. ——Santayana
Cherishing clothes should start from the time when they are new, and cherishing reputation should start from childhood. ——Pushkin
Regardless of men or women, reputation is the most important treasure in their souls. ——Shakespeare
My honor is my life, and the two are one. Take away my honor and my life ceases to exist. ——Shakespeare
Having a good reputation is equivalent to having a large fortune. ——Tom Fuller
Famous, you inspire and cultivate pure hearts. You are the last weakness of noble people. You despise joy and make people spend their time in hardship. ——Milton
A wise person can argue with his heart without making too much noise, and exert more effort without losing merit. This will make his reputation known to the world. ——Mo Zhai
It is better to swallow the saliva quietly to avoid licking it back later. ——Lu Xun
Reputation is the second life of life. ——Anonymous
The desire for fame is the instinct of all great minds. ——Burke
I would rather die than ruin my reputation by making a mistake. ——Goretti
Of all the wealth that humans possess, the most valuable, besides a proud demeanor, is a good reputation. ——Mencken
No matter what humiliation we suffer, we almost always have the ability to restore our own reputation.
——La Rochefoucauld
A good name is better than great wealth, and favor is better than gold and silver. ——Anonymous
When grace and wealth desert someone, we will find that there is a hidden stupidity in him, which no one has ever noticed in the past. ——La Bruyère
Except for work that benefits mankind, there is no other cause in the world that can achieve true and permanent fame.
——Cha Sumner
...dedicated his life to two gods, honor and bravery. ——Monson
As long as I can maintain my honor, I will be quite wealthy. ——Platus
Life is what everyone values; but noble people value honor far more than life. ——Shakespeare
Although reputation is not the real principle and standard of virtue, it is the closest to the real principle and standard of virtue. ——John Locke
The reason why honor is great is that it is hard-earned. ——Wordsworth
The flower of success, people are only amazed by her current beauty! However, her bud was soaked in the tears of struggle and sprinkled with the blood of sacrifice. ——Bing Xin
Prominent reputation is like a huge sound. The higher the sound, the farther the sound. ——Napoleon
Glory is the new life we ??gain. It is precious and valuable, no less than the life given by nature. ——Montesquieu
Reputation is more precious than life. ——Molière
Those who sincerely hope for initial and permanent glory will not mind temporary glory. ——Gide
Honor is more precious than life. ——Romain Rolland
I would rather die a thousand times than harm my honor. ——Edison
The acquisition of honor lies in revealing all one's talents, virtues and true values ??without damage or injury. ——Bacon
If you ruin your reputation, you will obviously lose your life. ——Cervantes
It is a shame to yield before authority. ——Anonymous
Those who respect the position but have no virtue will be deposed, and those who are rich in wealth but have no righteousness will be punished. Those who are humble but love virtue are respected, those who are poor but have righteousness are honored.
——Lu Jia
There is no pain greater than not having heard it, and no humiliation greater than shamelessness. ——Wang Tong
If I lose my honor, I lose myself. ——Shakespeare
The sense of honor is a good quality, so only those who are noble, positive or well-educated have it. ——Edison
Honor is not governed by laws. ——Mark Twain
Contempt for reputation leads to contempt for virtue. ——Jonson
I cannot put interests before honor. My honor is more important than interests. ——Shakespeare
If you don’t slander the reputation of the dead, your reputation will last forever. ——Sadie
Only good deeds will bring you reputation. ——Sadie
For noble people, honor is a kind of mellow wine. ——Rodan
It is better to make people have reputation in front of them than to avoid ruin behind them. ——Jin Ying
The darlings of wealth or reputation have fallen before our eyes, but they cannot change our ambitions.
——Wowenag
Honor is just a plaque. ——Shakespeare
Reputation is a bubble in the flow of life. ——Tagore
Honour makes art flourish, and all those who are interested in studying are excited by the sense of honor. ——Cicero
The more difficulties you encounter, the greater your honor will be. ——Cicero
Those who are pure in nature are honored, and those who are turbid in nature are disgraced. ——Zuo Fen
Vanity is the pride of others. ——Anonymous
In life, vanity is an interest that is distinguished by creation. People who compare vanity with artistic interests and think about it may be able to find a practical solution to vanity. ——Miki Kiyo
The responsibility for honor and disgrace depends on oneself and not on others. ——Wei Zheng
Just because I forgot about favor and disgrace, I don’t feel hurt when I come here. ——Hui Yan
Honour is a kind of prejudice, which comes from people not being good at valuing themselves. ——Gorky
A career of honor is a heavy burden. ——Ma Xingjie
Career is the most important thing, reputation is empty words. ——Goethe
Reputation is like a river. What it floats is often frivolous things rather than entities with real weight. ——Bacon
The shortcut to honor is to have nothing.
——Samuel Butler
A person comes into this world naked, and finally leaves this world naked. When I think about it, fame and wealth are all external things, and one can only do one’s best. , making more people in society benefit from his work is the most enjoyable thing in life. ——Zou Taofen
Crown? It is temporary glory and permanent bondage. ——Bing Xin
Fame and wealth are more important than wine, which makes people drunk until they wake up. ——Du Guangting
Honor given and received by others will not last long; worldly honor can only bring trouble to people. ——Thomas
Celebrities have different degrees of attachment to life, so their sensitivity to glory is also inconsistent. ——Montesquieu
Glory often does not come along the shining road. Sometimes it can be obtained through distant secular paths. ——Leonardo Da Vinci
Honor must be earned through our actions. ——Marlowe
Those good achievements that have passed will disappear in people's memory in the blink of an eye. Only by continuing to move forward can the honor be immortalized. ——Shakespeare
Honour is the daughter of time. ——Alan
The reputation of a romantic person will not last long, because the trend will pass. ——Rab Pinyere
Be noble in your sentiments! What becomes our true honor is our own heart, not the opinions of others.
——Schiller
It is better to dress simply and be reputable than to be wealthy and unknown. ——Aesop
The honor of a good man lies deep in people's minds, not on everyone's lips. ——Thomas
Honorary titles will not raise a person’s worth. A person’s honorary titles all depend on himself. ——John Ford
The generation of honor is not limited by external conditions. With good conduct comes honor. ——Bu Bai
Those who first have righteousness and then profit will be honored; those who first have honor and then righteousness will be disgraced. Those who are honored are always prosperous, and those who are humiliated are often poor. ——Xunzi
If we want to calculate rewards, then the greatest reward that can be obtained by noble virtue is glory. ——Cicero
The greatest difficulties are: first, to obtain a reputation, secondly, to maintain it while alive, and thirdly, to maintain it after death.
——Haydn
Good reputation is the unbridled desire to pursue fame. —— Spinoza
When I estimate all the sorrows in life, I feel that life is not worth cherishing; but reputation is what I want to pass on to my descendants, it is The only thing I care about. ——Shakespeare
Honour will not bring happiness to a person who steals it but does not deserve it. It will only cause constant trembling in the heart of a person who deserves it. . ——Gogol
It is better to live in disgrace than to live in disgrace and to die in glory. ——Wang Pinzhen
Vanity is almost entirely stored in oneself. Therefore, it is best to open a gap to vanity and avoid its arbitrary drive. That is, it is necessary to drain water every day. ——Miki Qing
Whoever will shock the world with his voice will remain silent for a long time; whoever will ignite lightning will drift like a cloud for a long time.
——Nietzsche
Harming the reputation of others does not add any glory to yourself. ——Sadie
A flawless reputation is the purest treasure in the world. Without reputation, human beings are nothing more than gilded dung and dyed mud. ——Shakespeare
If you are a poor person, you should use your ethics to protect your reputation; if you are a rich man, you should use your compassion to protect your reputation. ——Lost Bell
Don’t be happy when you gain, don’t worry when you lose. The resistance is high, the crowd must be cool. ——Anonymous
Small profits are the thief of big profits; small misfortunes are the root of big disasters. If you respect small gains and are greedy for small gains, big gains will surely perish; if you don't neglect small misfortunes, great misfortunes will surely follow. ——Liu Zhou
Gains and losses can last a day, but honors and disgrace will last for thousands of years. ——Anonymous
A wise man will lose something if he worries a lot; a fool will gain something if he knows his worries. ——Sima Qian
A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. ——Anonymous
It is better to do a few things and do well than to do a lot of things and do poorly. ——Socrates
As long as you don’t care about gains and losses, is there anything in life that you can’t find a way to overcome? ——Hemingway
Where there is cleverness, there must also be a failure of wit.
——Liu Xiang
If you don’t see the willow tree in front of your door, your glory will temporarily fade away. ——Helan Jinming
Some people’s vanity is more important than what is necessary to preserve their lives. For such people, how bad the role of vanity is! These people strive to make others unhappy in order to arouse their admiration. They try to get ahead, but end up being worse than others. ——Montesquieu
When you see something desirable, you don’t care about what is hateful. When you see something beneficial, you don’t care about what is harmful. Therefore, if you move, you will be trapped, and if you act, you will be humiliated. This is the danger of partial injury. ——Xunzi
As a villain, if you have not gained something, you will be anxious; if you have gained something, you will panic and lose it. Therefore, there is a lifetime of worries but no day's happiness. ——Xunzi
The person who loves to scold others is often the one who scolds the most; the way of heaven is cyclical, and those who laugh at me today will be laughed at tomorrow. ——Seniga
Many people lose their own things because they are envious of others. ——Aesop
Succeeding in the Great Change, and achieving more than expected, is a joy for those who are ignorant, but only for those who understand deeply. ——Liang Qichao
There is nothing more banal and banal than hoping to get ahead. ——Holmes
The heart is clear about right and wrong, and the traces are about honor and disgrace. ——Xu Qing
When happiness passes, there will be sorrow, but when the time comes, it will still be the end. ——Bai Juyi
Early prosperity also dries up early, easy to gain and easy to lose. ——Zhang Tingyu
Honor should be the result, not the motivation of the behavior. ——Pliny
Avoid shame, but don’t pursue glory. The price of nothing is greater than the price of glory.
——Sidney Smith
It is harder to maintain a reputation than to gain it. ——Schnabel
Contempting the Medal of Honor itself is a one-pole Medal of Honor! ——Monet
The taste of fame is so sweet that we love everything we come into contact with - even death. ——Pascal
A lie can destroy an upright man's entire reputation. ——Gracian
The false name is a lowly slave, speaking flattering lies on every tombstone, but under the silent wasteland, the bones of loyal ministers and righteous men are often buried. ——Shakespeare
What is easy to gain is easy to lose. ——Anonymous
Misfortune and fortune come from the same root, and demons and auspiciousness come from the same realm. Where disaster lies, it turns into blessing; where blessing lies, it turns into disaster. ——Liu Zhou
If you see someone humiliated by a city man, you will forget it as time goes by; if you see someone humiliated by a gentleman, you will never forget it after many lifetimes. ——Qian Qi
A person is valued or despised in the world; it depends on his actions and himself. ——Anonymous
If you are poor, you can only benefit yourself; if you are rich, you can help the world. ——Mencius
Wealth is like sea water: the more you drink, the more thirsty you become. The same is true for fame. ——Schopenhauer
Fame can also be a huge obstacle: if we pursue it, we must devote ourselves to such a path-try to satisfy people's imagination, avoid what they hate, and go where they want. good. —— Spinoza
We cannot tolerate the vanity of others because it hurts our vanity. ——Larochevko
When the moon is bright, we cannot see the light. This is how small glory is overshadowed by greater glory. ——Shakespeare
No matter how the gluttonous time devours everything, we must work hard to gain our reputation while our breath is still alive, so that the sickle of time cannot harm us; our lives can end, and our reputation But it will last forever. ——Shakespeare
Death is terrible. A life of shame is especially annoying. ——Shakespeare
Fame is the sun of the dead. ——Balzac
Great men will die, but death cannot wipe out their names. ——Bohn
All reputations enjoy an unimaginable prestige, regardless of where they come from. ——Balzac
A person's reputation, like his actual property, is all he owns. Reputation is more important than possessions; it is the guardian of peace and integrity; a life raft in the sea of ??distress; a parachute when falling from heaven; a plank on which to survive in quicksand. ——Anonymous
A vain person sometimes criticizes himself and sometimes praises himself in order to profit from it, but a humble person never says a word for himself.
——La Fontaine
Fame is a movable bridge that can make people fly across the abyss. ——Balzac
Having a good reputation is more important than having money. ——Cyrus
A vain person wears a gorgeous coat to cover up an ugly underwear. ——Shakespeare
Take your reputation away from me and my life will be over. ——Shakespeare
Vanity will bloom, but it will not bear fruit. ——Anonymous
There is nothing shameful in admitting poverty. On the contrary, not working to change poverty is truly shameful.
——Thucydides
The road to honor is not paved with flowers. ——Dante
Hoping for unjust gain is the beginning of loss. ——Emerson
If you ask, you will get it; if you give it up, you will lose it. Asking is beneficial to gaining, and asking is mine. There is a way to seek, and there is a destiny to obtain. This is because seeking is not beneficial to obtaining, and it is also seeking something outside. ——Mencius
Excessive reputation is really a heavy burden. ——Forte
Every man's vanity is equal to his stupidity. ——Pop
Reputation is just people's whispers, but it is often the breath of corruption. ——Rousseau
Vanity is like a killer, and one day his tracks will be exposed. ——Hannah Curry
You may rise to great heights based on false fame, but in the end you will inevitably turn into dirt. ——Anonymous
It is better to be hated for what you have done than to be loved for an unrealistic reputation. ——Gide
Learning for fictitious interests is often the loss of happiness. ——Aesop
While hoping for impossible perfection, people will lose the good things they could have obtained.
——Anonymous
Young girls, especially you, must know that a good reputation is more precious than any modification, and a good reputation is like a spring flower, a gust of wind can destroy it. Ruined. ——Krylov
Reputation is a boring and unreliable random reward; it is often gained without merit, and lost is not caused by oneself. ——Shakespeare
...The most shameful people are those who follow the legacy of their fathers and ancestors, do not know how to tell the prophets, and are blindly arrogant. The best glory should come from our own actions, not relying on our family. ——Shakespeare
Vanity is the product of hypocrisy. ——Carlyle
Vanity is a boring and deceptive thing; those who get it may not have any merit, and those who lose it may not have any fault. ——Shakespeare
Poverty is not a shame, but being ashamed of poverty is a shame. - Thomas Fuller
Vanity is hardly a vice, but all vices revolve around vanity and are nothing more than means to satisfy vanity. ——Bergson
Vanity causes us to pretend to be someone we are not in order to win the approval of others, while hypocrisy encourages us to cover up our sins with the appearance of virtue in an attempt to avoid the blame of others. ——Fielding
A vain person looks at his own name; a glorious person looks at the cause of his motherland! ——Wang Jie
Patriotism
1. Treat your home as your home, your hometown as your hometown, your country as your country, and the world as your world. ——"Guanzi·Herdsmen"
2. Never forgetting the country in the face of adversity is loyalty. ——"Zuo Zhuan·Year of Zhaogong"
3. I take a long breath to cover my tears, lamenting the hardships of people's lives. ——Qu Yuan's "Li Sao"
4. To benefit the country, not to seek wealth and honor. ——"Book of Rites·Confucianism"
5. Sacrificing one's life to go to the country's disaster, seeing death as a sudden return home. ——Cao Zhi's "White Horse"
6. Martyrs are as patriotic as home. ——Ge Hong's "Baopuzi·Waipian·Guangji" Martyr: Ambitious. People who make a difference.
7. Worry when the world is worried first, and rejoice when the world is happy later. ——Fan Zhongyan's "Yueyang Tower"
8. I don't dare to worry about my country despite my humble position. ——Lu You's "Sickness arose from the book"
9. Wang Shibei set the Central Plains Day, and he never forgot to tell Naiwen during family sacrifices. ——Lu You's "Shi'er"
10. Since ancient times, no one has died, leaving a loyal heart to illuminate history. ——Wen Tianxiang "Crossing the Lingding Ocean"
11. Serve the country with loyalty. ——"History of the Song Dynasty·Biography of Yue Fei"
12. Every man is responsible for the rise and fall of the world.
——Mai Menghua "On China's survival is determined today"
Ming Dynasty Chronicles
13. If you hear the Tao in the morning, you will die in the evening. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Liren"
14. It is not enough for a scholar to aspire to the Tao, but to be ashamed of those who wear bad clothes and eat bad food. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Liren"
15. Scholars must be ambitious and have a long way to go. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Qin Bo"
16. Those who are not strong in ambition are not wise enough. ——"Mozi · Self-cultivation"
17. The sparrow knows the ambition of the swan! - "Historical Records: Chen She Family"
18. Aim high. ——Zhuge Liang's "Book of Admonitions to Foreign Students"
19. Without indifference, there is no clear ambition; without tranquility, there is no far-reaching goal. ——Zhuge Liang's "Book of Commandments"
20. Where there's a will, there's a way. ——"Book of the Later Han·Biography of Geng Yan"
21. If the ambition is small, it will be easy to achieve, and if it is insufficient, there will be no way to advance. ——Zhang Zai's "Confucian Classics and Learning: Learning from the Great Plains"
22. Those who accomplished great things in ancient times not only had extraordinary talents, but also had perseverance. ——Su Shi's "Chao Cuo Lun"
23. If you have ambitions, you will not grow taller in years; if you have no ambitions, you will live a hundred years in vain. ——Shi Chengjin's "Heirlooms, Common Proverbs and Herdsmen"
Hold the Festival
24. The three armies can seize the commander, but an ordinary man cannot seize the will. ——"The Analects·Zihan"
25. When the weather is cold, you will know that the pines and cypresses will wither. ——"The Analects·Zihan"
26. A man with lofty ideals and benevolence will not harm his benevolence by seeking life, but will sacrifice his life to achieve benevolence. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Linggong"
27. Don't lower your ambitions, don't humiliate your body. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Miscellaneous"
28. Wealth and honor cannot be lascivious, poverty and lowliness cannot be moved, and power cannot bend. ——"Mencius, Duke Tengwen"
29. If you are poor, you will be good for yourself; if you are rich, you will be good for the world. ——"Mencius: Give your best"
30. Everyone is destined to die, and it may be heavier than Mount Tai or lighter than a feather. ——Sima Qian's "Report to Ren An"
31. Don't betray for the sake of poverty, don't change your mind for the sake of lowliness. ——Huan Kuan's "Salt and Iron Theory: Vast Territory"
32. It would be better for the jade to be broken into pieces than to be completely destroyed. ——"Book of Northern Qi·Biography of Yuan Jing'an"
33. The strong wind knows the strong grass, and the rough waves know the sincere minister. ——Li Shimin's "Giving Xiao Yu"
34. It emerges from the silt without being stained, and washes away the clear ripples without being stained. ——Zhou Dunyi's "On Love of Lotus"
35. When the time comes, we can see each other and draw pictures one by one. ——Wen Tianxiang's "Song of Righteousness"
36. Fame and integrity are as important as Mount Tai, but desire for profit is as light as a feather. ——Yu Qian's "Untitled"
37. Don't be afraid of being shattered into pieces, and remain innocent in the world. ——Yu Qian's "Song of Lime"
38. Don't let go of the green mountains, your roots are still in the broken rocks.
After countless hardships, I am still strong, no matter how strong the wind is from the southeast or northwest. ——Zheng Xie (xiè) "Inscriptions on Bamboo and Stone"
Self-improvement
39. Heaven is in good health, and a gentleman strives to constantly strive for self-improvement. ——"Book of Changes·Qian·Xiang"
40. He who conquers others is powerful, and he who conquers himself is strong. ——"Laozi" Chapter 33
41. Don't blame God, don't blame others. ——"The Analects·Xianwen"
42. When Heaven is about to entrust this person with a great responsibility, he must first strain his mind, strain his muscles and bones, starve his body and skin, deplete his body, and mess up his actions. ——"Mencius·Gao Zixia"
43. Born in sorrow and died in happiness. ——"Mencius·Gao Zixia"
44. The road is long and far away, I will search up and down. ——Qu Yuan's "Li Sao"
45. If you strengthen yourself through self-cultivation, your name will be worthy of Yao and Yu. ——"Xunzi · Self-cultivation"
46. Those who can defeat powerful enemies must first conquer themselves. ——"Shang Jun Shu·Painting Strategy"
47. As an old man, he aspires to a thousand miles; as a martyr, in his old age, his ambition is endless. ——Cao Cao's "The Turtle Lives Longevity"
48. Don't forget to see the mulberry trees in the evening, and the sky will still be full of clouds. ——Liu Yuxi's "Instructions on Rewarding Lotte and Yong Lao"
49. There are many difficulties in front of you. Since ancient times, men should strive for self-improvement. ——Li Xianyong's "Giving People Away"
50. Live as a hero, die as a ghost. ——Li Qingzhao's "Wujiang"
51. The next step is to make further progress. ——Zhu Xi's "Reply to Gong Zhongzhi"
Integrity
52. Rhetoric establishes sincerity. ——"Book of Changes, Qian, Classical Chinese" Speech should be based on integrity.
53． If you are not refined or sincere, you cannot move people.
——"Zhuangzi·Father of Fish"
54. A broken promise cannot be established. ——"Zuo Zhuan·The 22nd Year of Duke Xiang"
55. A light promise will lead to a lack of faith. ——"Laozi" Chapter 63 People who make promises to others easily must rarely be trustworthy.
56. I examine myself three times every day: Am I being unfaithful to others? Make friends but don’t believe it? Are you not used to it? ——"The Analects·Xueer"
57. When making friends, keep your word. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Xueer"
58. People who have no faith do not know what is possible. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Zheng" Ke: You can stand in the world.
59． The people cannot stand without trust. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Yan Yuan"
60. Be true to your word and bear fruit in your deeds. ——"The Analects·Zilu" Fruit: Decisive
61. A promise worth a thousand dollars. ——"Historical Records·Biography of Ji Bu Luan Bu"
Knowing Shame
62. There is a shame in remembering oneself. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Zilu" Use shame to restrain your behavior.
63. It is not a human being to have no shame or hatred. ——"Mencius·Gongsun Chou"
64. People must insult themselves, and then others will insult them. ——"Mencius Li Loushang" A person must first humiliate himself before others can insult him.
65. People can't be shameless. It's shameless to be shameless. ——"Mencius: Give Your Heart to Your Heart": The kind of shame that is shameless is truly shameless!
66． Knowing shame is close to courage. ——"Book of Rites· Doctrine of the Mean"
67. People must love themselves, and then others will love others; people must respect themselves, and then others will respect others. ——Yang Xiong's "Fayan Gentleman"
68. If people have shame, they can do something. ——Zhu Xi's "Zhu Ziyu Lei" Juan Thirteen
69. Five punishments are worse than one disgrace. ——Lv Kun's "Moaning Language·Government"
70. If all scholars know that there is shame, then the country will never be shameless. ——Gong Zizhen's "Ming Liang Lun II"
Revise
71. If you see good things, move on (learn); if you make mistakes, change them. ——"Book of Changes·Yi·Xiang"
72. Don’t hesitate to change your past. ——"Shang Shu·Zhong Hui (huǐ)'s Edict"
73. If you don't be prepared when dealing with others, if you fail to detect yourself. ——"Shang Shu Yi Xun"
74. Who has no fault? If you can change your past, there is no greater good. ——"Zuo Zhuan, the Second Year of Xuangong"
75. To make mistakes without correcting them is to make mistakes. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Linggong": If you make a mistake and don't correct it, this is really called a mistake.
76. Using copper as a mirror, you can straighten your clothes; using ancient times as a mirror, you can know the ups and downs; using people as a mirror, you can know gains and losses. ——"Old Tang Book Biography of Wei Zheng"
77. Those who speak are not guilty, but those who hear are warned. ——Bai Juyi's "Nine Books of the Yuan Dynasty"
78. It is unwise to make mistakes without knowing them; it is not courageous to know things but not be able to change them. ——Li Gou's "The Ninth Book of Changes"
79. If you hear it, you will be happy. If you know your mistakes, you will not hide them and you will not be afraid to correct them. ——Lu Jiuyuan "With Fu Quanmei"
80. If there are any, then correct them; if not, then encourage them. ——Zhu Xi's "Collected Annotations on Four Books·Analects of Confucius" Volume 1
81. It is not more valuable than having no faults, but it is more valuable than being able to correct them. ——Wang Shouren's "Repair"
82. Qin's evil people heard about its mistakes and died, but Han's good plans were heard and prospered. ——Xue Xuan's "Study Record" Volume 10
83. Correcting one's mistakes and promoting one's good qualities is called "cultivation". ——Yan Yuan's "The Words and Deeds of Mr. Yan Xizhai"
84. Loyal advice is unpleasant to the ear and beneficial to action; good medicine is bitter to the mouth and beneficial to illness. ——"Zengguang Xianwen"
Hourfulness
85. Only the benevolent can do good to others and do evil to others. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Li Ren" Only the benevolent know how to love and hate others.
86. If people are not benevolent, what about etiquette? If people are not benevolent, what joy will there be? ——"The Analects of Confucius·Eight Yi (yì)"
87. The benevolent live longer. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Yong Ye"
88. The benevolent are invincible. ——"Mencius, King Hui of Liang"
89. Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Yan Yuan"
90. Being broad will win many people. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Yang Huo"
91. When I am old, I am in harmony with others; when I am young, I am in harmony with others. ——"Mencius, King Hui of Liang"
92. A gentleman never fails to be kind to others. ——"Mencius Gongsun Chou" The highest virtue of a gentleman is to do good deeds with others.
93． Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others. ——"Mencius·Li Louxia"
94. Good words to others are warmer than cloth; words that hurt others are deeper than spears and halberds. ——"Xunzi·Honor and Disgrace"
95. Don't hide people's goodness, don't talk about people's evil. ——"Warring States Policy Wei Ce"
96. If you love someone without the right way, you will harm them if you love them. ——Volume 96 of "Zizhi Tongjian" If you love him in the wrong way, it will harm him.
97． Love with love for yourself