Parents and children have a continuous blood relationship, and children are the continuation of parents' lives. Everyone has deep feelings for their children, which is human nature and understandable. Luo Yin, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, wrote two poems for his friends: "The national plan has been encouraged, and the family wealth is not for future generations." What he advocates is that you should be bold for the country's big plans, but never seek wealth for future generations. Lin Zexu wrote a couplet: "Children and grandchildren are like me, what should I do with money?" Being virtuous and rich will damage his ambition. My children and grandchildren are not as good as me. What did you leave the money for? Foolish and rich, benefit to increase it. "Meaning, if future generations are as honest as I am, what should I leave him money for? He's already smart. I left him money and property, which actually damaged his will to struggle. My children and grandchildren are not as good as me. Leaving money to him will make him relax, hate work and live in the open space. The more money you save, the more you run amok and make more mistakes. Ancient sages can understand the great righteousness so deeply and treat their children with extraordinary mind. Don't we even understand this? Overindulgence of children is not to love them, but to hurt them. There is a word difference between "love" and "doting". In fact, the difference between the two is that loving in a rational way is true love, and loving with emotional love is doting. Love with reason, then you must know how to realize your love correctly. If you just love with affection, then you can only get lost in doting. A young mother thinks that Americans are really unfriendly. Look at Beijingers in new york. Where did Aunt put Wang Qiming and them? Broken basement! It's dirty and messy there. Where does the man live? And look at aunt's virtue. She threw Wang Qiming and them a few hundred dollars, saying it was borrowed. Then who did it? Others come to the United States all the way, and you have to ask your niece, nephew and son-in-law to find a good restaurant and have a good meal. What a bore! The young mother immediately put her arms around her teenage child and said softly, honey, mom can't do this. How can she treat her children like this? Mom wants you to study hard and be admitted to a famous university in the future, so that your grandma, grandpa, mom and dad will have luster on their faces! Baby, mom won't let you do anything. You just need to read a good book. If you don't have money to spend, just say that your mother will meet your requirements no matter how hard and tired she is, because she loves you ... At the moment, I am paying attention to the picture in front of me: a red boy and a young but elderly mother, who have completed a sacred speech in the history of modern family education in China. I believe this mother represents the existing ideas and behaviors of most parents in China today. At the same time, in that mother's sacred and proud eyes, I saw a deep-rooted educational concept has entered almost every family in China like a plague. Material 2: In real life, many parents care for us in every possible way. This is a deep love, and this sincere love itself is beyond reproach. However, once this kind of love is excessive, it becomes doting. This kind of doting has actually become a gentle trap on the growth path of each of our classmates. Each of us should have a clear understanding. If we fall into this trap, we will be deprived of the opportunity to make mistakes and correct them, and the right to make decisions, choose and act, thus losing the opportunity to grow. Mencius, an ancient man, once said: "If you want to be a great man, you must first suffer from his mind, strain his bones and muscles, starve his body and confuse his actions, so be patient and get what he can't do." The song "True Hero" sings: "How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? No one can succeed casually. " "Adult uncomfortable, actually uncomfortable. "I hope that each of our classmates has a strong body, a sound personality, wings to soar, and a solid foundation.