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Dear friends, when you open this article, I believe you also want to talk to Nannan Mom, let’s discuss “How to teach children to understand others”, right?

Below, I believe most people know this anonymous famous saying: “A person who does not understand tolerance will lose the respect of others, and a person who is blindly tolerant will lose his own dignity. "

Here, Nan Nan's mother would like to add a principle: "Tolerance must have its own bottom line. Tolerance is a kind of weakness." Because if a person doesn't know how to respect others, then. , you also don’t get respect from others, this is mutual. If you are dishonest in your words and deeds and are narrow-minded, think about it, can you still have close friends? If you don’t know how to take the overall situation into consideration, put yourself in someone else’s shoes, think about problems and feelings from someone else’s perspective, do you think there is a real partner who can cooperate with you?

As parents, I believe we all don’t want our children to go down this kind of life path. So, how should we teach our children to stick to their own principles, learn to understand others, and learn to get along happily with others?

Let me tell you a short story first:

We all know that the big rooster likes to sing every day. It lazily holds its head high all day long: "Oh, oh, oh "The ground kept singing and flapped its wings from time to time.

Walking around among the chickens all day long, he looks arrogant, as if he is the "king" of the chickens.

One day, when the big rooster was about to straighten its neck and prepare to show its singing voice again, a little hen came over and said to it coldly: "Big rooster, don't you?" Do you think your cries are unpleasant? It doesn't sound like singing. It's just wailing. It's so unpleasant!"

After hearing this, the big rooster roared: "What! What did you say! What did you say? How dare you humiliate me like this? You don't even look at yourself. You can't even sing, you can only cackle all day long. You bastard, what qualifications do you have to teach me a lesson?"

Finished scolding. Finally, the rooster flapped its wings and shook its neck, and was about to rush over and teach the little hen a lesson.

"Please calm down! Please calm down! Big cock." At this critical moment, an old hen came over and stood up, blocking the way of the rooster.

"Didn't you hear that it was humiliating me just now?" When the big rooster saw the old hen blocking his way, no matter how unhappy he was, he had to fold his wings and question the noisy old hen.

"Big cock, your singing is so beautiful. We are all your loyal listeners. In fact, even the little hen thinks your singing is beautiful. However, last night, its mother was caught by a damn weasel. He left, so he is in a very, very bad mood. He wants to get angry no matter what he sees or encounters. I think you can understand his mood!"

The big rooster thought for a while and said: "Oh, that's it! Why didn't you tell me earlier?" Then he said to the little hen: "I'm so sorry! I shouldn't have done that to you, please forgive me." and bowed deeply to the little hen. .

This short story is over. Can you learn anything from the story?

In fact, everyone will be in a bad mood sometimes. What about children?

Many times, we will be criticized by our bosses, colleagues or friends in various ways. Whenever this happens, we always feel inexplicable, and we always want to question the other person, and even develop a desire for revenge.

In fact, if we think about it carefully, there may be unspeakable difficulties behind the other party's pickiness. Give others understanding and they will be endlessly grateful to you afterwards.

We often overlook some details inadvertently. In fact, if you pay more attention to the details, you can see some subtle things. It’s not that you don’t understand, you just don’t want to point it out.

However, some things are so realistic. Remember, what you need to understand is: "Only when you are stronger and become a better version of yourself, others will respect you more."

Growth motto: If you are more tolerant, there will be less estrangement in your heart; if you are more tolerant, you will be more friendly! A tolerant person can make others happy, and he will be happy too; a mean person will make others suffer, but he will also feel equally uncomfortable.

If you want to be tolerant to others, don't wait for others to beg. Remember this sentence: "Giving" is always more pleasant than "asking"!