31, right and wrong happen every day, and if you don't listen to nature, there will be nothing; There are right and wrong every day, and there are still those who don't listen; Things happen every day. What do you do?
32. Love is not a charity, so you can't just give it away. Feelings have no formula, no principle and no reason to follow. But people are still persistent and pursuing until they die.
33. If a person can't forgive others from the heart, he will never feel at ease.
34. There is only smoothness in this world, not perfection.
35. Forgiving others means leaving room in your heart for maneuver.
36, you don't always feel that you are very frustrated, you should think that he has been very good to me, and this is the practice of kung fu.
37. When you advise others, even the best words are useless if you don't care about others' self-esteem.
38. Emotional attachment is the cause of distress. Only by letting go of emotional attachment can you be at ease.
39. People say that we are not good, so don't be angry or sad; You don't have to be happy to say that we are good. There are good and bad things in this, depending on whether you can use it or not.
4. We do have advantages, but we have to hide some of them. This is called self-restraint.
41. Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself and changing yourself can we change others.
42. When your mistakes are revealed, don't lose your temper. Don't think that being willful or noisy can hide or overcome your shortcomings.
43. Tell more jokes and handle things with a humorous attitude, so life will be easier.
44. It's not so much that others make you suffer, but that you don't have enough self-cultivation.
45. If you can spend the day safely, it will be a blessing. How many people can't see tomorrow's sun today, how many people have become disabled today, how many people have lost their freedom today, and how many people have lost their homes today.
46. If you are going to get married, I will tell you a very important philosophical saying. You must tolerate each other's shortcomings. There is no absolutely happy marriage in the world. Happiness only comes from infinite tolerance and mutual respect.
47. Being alive for one day is a blessing, so you should cherish it. When I cried that I had no shoes to wear, I found that someone had no feet.
48. What kind of patience do ordinary people have when they encounter the other side's great power, wealth and strength, and endure in a helpless situation? The real patience is that even if he bullies you and feels sorry for you, he can't touch you, and you have enough strength to deal with him, but you can tolerate him, thinking that his nature is just like mine, just a moment of confusion or being influenced by bad environment. You don't have to care about him. It is the real patience to tolerate him in such a situation and mood.
49. People who often think that others are paying attention to you or want others to pay attention to you will have a more troublesome life.
5. It is not a blessing for people to be afraid of you. It is not a shame for people to bully you.
51. Thank God for what I have and what I don't have.
52. If you insist on taking simple things seriously, you will be very painful.
53. You should thank the person who told you your shortcomings.
54. People who don't take a bath will not smell fragrant if they wear perfume hard. Fame and honor come from real talent and learning. Virtue is natural and fragrant.
55. Don't always be dissatisfied with others, you should always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, you will suffer yourself.
56. Sometimes we need to ask ourselves calmly, what are we pursuing? What are we living for?
57. You should always thank all beings who have given you adversity.
58. A fool always wants others to know him. A wise man tries to understand himself.
59. To understand a person, you only need to see whether his starting point and destination are the same, so you can know whether he is sincere.
6. Everything you have now will become others with your death, so why not give it to those who really need it now?
61. It is shameful for a person to cover up his shortcomings by hurting others.
62. The world doesn't belong to you originally, so you don't have to abandon it. What you want to abandon is all persistence. Everything is for my use, but not for me.
63. Although we can't change the world around us, we have to change ourselves and face all this with love and wisdom.
64. Don't say that others are pitiful, but we are even more pitiful. What about practicing by ourselves? How much do you know about life?
65. Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.
66. If you really love him, then you must tolerate some of his shortcomings.
67. You just live your own life and don't have to worry about other people's distortion and right and wrong.
68. We will always think that what we can't get is beautiful, because you know too little about him and have no time to get along with him. One day, after you get to know it better, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you think.
69. You should always forgive all beings, no matter how bad they are, even if they hurt you, you must let go before you can get real happiness.
7. A person who often looks at other people's shortcomings is not good enough because he has no time to review himself.
71. I can cook for you, but I can't eat for you. Every man is full when he eats, and every man's life and death are personal.
72. It's easy to look down on others, but it's difficult to settle yourself.
73. You'd better accept it than reject it.
74. Conscience is everyone's fairest judge. You can fool others, but you can never fool your own conscience.
75. When you let go, there will be no worries.
76. People who are full of their own opinions and ideas will never hear the voices of others.
77. Don't mix arrogance with your wisdom. Don't make your modesty lack wisdom.
78. You are not pitiful when you know confusion, but you are most pitiful when you don't know confusion.
79. It's not someone who bothers me, but I worry myself with someone's words and deeds.
8. If you can find your own shortcomings as accurately as others, then your life will be extraordinary.
81. Most people only do three things in their life. Self-deception, deception, and being deceived.
82. If you don't forgive all beings, you will suffer yourself.
83. The truth of life is just hidden in blandness.
84. You don't have to argue with cause and effect. Cause and effect never mislead people. You don't have to argue with fate, which is the fairest judge.
85. Accompanying fate is not muddling along, but doing one's best to listen to fate.
86. Don't try to guess other people's thoughts. If you don't have the right judgment with wisdom and experience, you will usually make mistakes.
87, don't deliberately misinterpret the goodwill of others, you should think of the good things.
88. Please express your dissatisfaction and grievance with compassion and gentleness, and others will accept it easily.
89. If you want to be a Buddha and a dragon, you should be a horse and a cow.
9. If you want to master eternity, you must control the present.
91. Silence is the best answer to slander.
92. If you tell a lie, you have to make up ten lies to make up for it. Why bother?
93. When you are happy, you should think that this happiness is not eternal. When you are in pain, you should think that this pain is not eternal.
94. Why did you put poison in the same bottle? The same psychology, why are you full of troubles?
95. When many people want to leave this world, they will say the same thing: This world is really helpless and desolate!
96. Adversity is a necessary process for growth. People who are brave enough to accept adversity will grow stronger and stronger.
97. People who think they own wealth are actually owned by wealth.
98. When you start your life tomorrow, if someone has an argument with you, you can let him win. This win or lose is just a literal concept. When you let the other side win, you have nothing to lose. The so-called win, what did he win? Get what? The so-called loss, what did you lose? Lose what?
99. It takes only one word to destroy a person, but a thousand words to cultivate a person. Please be merciful.
1. Arrogant people can be saved, but people with low self-esteem can't be saved.
11. I hate a person, but I can find his advantages and benefits. There are really few people who are cultivated like this.
12. Those who praise us and admire us are not famous teachers. Those who will tell us and instruct us are good teachers, and with them we will make progress.
13, don't bring your own troubles because of the ignorance of all beings; Don't suffer yourself because of the ignorance of all beings.
14. Being respectful to others means honoring yourself.
15. If you don't bother yourself, others will never bother you. Because of your own heart, you can't let go.
16, hatred can never dissolve hatred, only tolerance can dissolve hatred, which is the eternal truth.
17. The world is inherently painful, without exception.
18. As long as you face the reality, you can surpass it.
19. People who don't know how to love themselves are incapable of loving others.
11. People suffer because they pursue the wrong things.
111. People who can think for others are never lonely.
112. Don't waste your life where you will regret it.
113. A person whose heart is full of jealousy, his heart is not frank, and his words are not correct can't be regarded as a person with good facial features.
114. When you face things with troubles, you will feel that everything is karma and the world will become ugly and hateful.
115. It is natural that things in the world are not as good as their own wishes.
116. Right and wrong and gains and losses cannot be evaluated until the final result.
117. Discipline yourself well and don't mind others.
118. Talking but not doing is not true wisdom.
119, don't be too sure of your opinion, so you will have less regrets.
12, don't be aggressive, don't be lethal, don't boast about your abilities, don't promote others' evil, and naturally you can turn your enemy into your friend.
121. You should tolerate those people whose opinions are different from yours, which will make life easier. If you keep trying to change him, it will be very painful for you. You should learn how to tolerate him, and you should learn how to tolerate him.
122. There's no need to look back to see who cursed you. If a mad dog bites you, do you have to get down and bite him back?
123. There is no one in the world who will never be slandered, and there is no one who will always be admired. When you talk a lot, others will criticize you. When you talk a little, others will criticize you. When you are silent, others will criticize you. In this world, there is no one who is not criticized.
124. Hating others is a great loss to yourself.
125. Listen carefully to what others say, and don't express your own opinions in a hurry.