1. When you are a person, you should talk about right and wrong, but don’t care too much about the pros and cons; when you do things, you should talk about the pros and cons, but don’t be too afraid of right and wrong. When it comes to people, you should think good things and look at the advantages; when it comes to things, you should think far away and look at the big picture.

2. Be a good person: First, be strict with yourself and be lenient to others. Second, modesty is the best, give in more and fight less. Third, be kind to others and avoid being arrogant. Fourth, we must use justice to spread wealth and help those in need. Fifth, treat others with integrity and stay away from right and wrong.

3. As a person, you must be consistent both internally and externally, and when you do things, you must be consistent with your knowledge and actions; when you speak, your words and deeds must be consistent, and your behavior must be consistent inside and outside;

4. In competition, there are wins and losses; in status, there are ups and downs; in encounters, there are good and bad; in life, there are gains and losses. You should do your best as a person, and be happy with things as they come!

5. If people are rude, there will be no life, if things are rude, they will not succeed, and if the country is rude, there will be no peace. As a person, you must understand etiquette, know how to respect others, know how to despise others when you are humble, and respect others when you respect others!

6. Sweet words of comfort are warm in the winter, but harsh words are hurtful in the cold of June. Talking too much when you are happy will break your promise, and talking too much when you are angry will be disrespectful. Those who know are not knowledgeable, and those who are knowledgeable do not speak. Wise words and fine words are precious if not many are given!

7. Treat others with affection, treat others with courtesy, establish yourself with virtue, and treat others with justice. Be sincere, be strict with yourself, be persistent in dealing with things, and help others with love. As a human being, you must understand: it is easy for the heart to be subdued by virtue, but it is difficult to be subdued by strength!

8. The waves of the sea are blown by the wind, and the waves of life are blown by people. As a person, you should be proactive, challenge life, perfect your personality, and make your true love eternal!

9. People regard treating oneself as right and wrong, and I regard treating others as right and wrong; others regard benefiting oneself as grudges, and I regard benefiting others as choices; people regard gains and losses as gains and losses, and I regard good and evil as good and evil; People regard the rise and fall of status as closeness and distance, and I regard the true and false feelings as distance.

10. The human heart is unfathomable, but my heart is crystal clear. The human heart is ever-changing, but my heart remains constant. When someone gives me a cross eyebrow, I give him a smiling face; when someone gives me a bad word, I give him a hymn of praise; exchange heart for heart, exchange affection for affection; repay evil with kindness, repay evil with good!

11. Be smart in doing things and kind in life. Being broad-minded and turning grudges and wars into true love is kindness; being kind-hearted and not letting others down is kind; having a good heart and planting fewer thorns and more flowers is kindness!

12. If you lack kindness in life, there will be Hongmen Banquet and there will be unwarranted ones. Lack of kindness in life means lack of trust, lack of harmony, and lack of living in harmony. If the land is not thick, it cannot bear the mountains and rivers; if the people's hearts are not thick, it cannot hold moral friendship.

13. Pay equal attention to knowledge and morality, pay equal attention to theory and practice, pay equal attention to static and dynamic situations, pay equal attention to intelligence and ability, pay equal attention to humanities and science and technology, pay equal attention to love and majesty, and pay equal attention to doing things and being a person!

14. Good words can arouse good intentions in others; bad words can arouse evil thoughts in others. Say one more kind word and be more kind. To be a good person, you should have good intentions, say good words, do good deeds, and make good friends.

15. Being a person and doing things are subjects that require life to study and practice. Only when life ends can research and practice activities end, and we can evaluate a person's research and practice results. In order to avoid detours in research and practice, we should learn from previous research and practice results.