If you think that a change of environment can solve your inner contradictions and struggles. That's impossible.
Because people have different pursuits.
For example, the second uncle in the video, he stayed in bed for a year first because he wanted to give up. Then his purpose is to take care of himself and not be a drag on others. Then make stools for the production team. And feed yourself. This is his purpose.
You can even see from the beginning to the end, and you will find that my uncle's life is a life of struggle. From the beginning of independence to the later efforts day and night. At first, I lived for myself. Later, I took care of my old mother and adopted daughter Ningning, but I always worked as a carpenter. The whip of life never stops, okay? I spent all my savings to buy a house for my daughter, and I want to earn my own pension money without dragging my daughter down. This is the embodiment of ordinary people's struggle for life.
So what he pursues or has been doing is very different from what we do, because we have no end. His life is supported by countless labors. And we, the same city people, may not get as much as him after working hard in downtown for half a lifetime. This is relative. For example, buying a house, building a house at home is enough, and millions in your city are not enough. You look well paid, but you still can't make ends meet.
Even if you want to stop, the whip of life will keep you from stopping.
My second uncle said that she couldn't find a wife and couldn't take care of others, so she never got married.
Don't say that his life is cured. In fact, what really inspires people is the indomitable spirit.
My second uncle is like you, like me, like the embodiment of countless ordinary people who want to take care of themselves. Only in this way can we quickly attract everyone's attention and understanding.
Some people hope to inject healing into the life of the old man, but from the beginning, his life is a hard life and a life of struggle. When I was at school, I was disabled by a quack because I was sick with a fever, and I didn't get a disability certificate later. These are not man-made disasters. What are they?
Therefore, we don't have to praise suffering and cure, but should praise the old people who can bravely face suffering in unfortunate and suffering days.
I saw my uncle's bookkeeping book, and I saw that famous saying in the notebook.
"Make up your mind, not afraid of sacrifice, overcome all difficulties and strive for victory."
The happiest people in the world are those who don't need to be responsible for others, and the second happiest people are those who never look back. Unfortunately, who doesn't?
The most gratifying and touching thing is that although my uncle didn't have much time to accompany her adopted daughter Ningning, Ningning still grew up to be the most filial child. Because my second uncle set the best example for his children with his filial piety to his mother.
Finally, I wish the old man all the best.
Finally, I want to say something that everyone may not agree with. My uncle can't cure anyone's mental internal friction. You and I just spent ten minutes watching a video, and we got to know about a second uncle's life.
You may be moved, shaken and changed at the moment, but what about one day later, ten days later? It and any moving and shocking video you have seen have an instant impact on you.
Your happiness will disappear, your pain will disappear, and only the dull life will continue.
If you are optimistic, it is not my uncle who makes you optimistic, but you are optimistic.
If you are pessimistic, it is not others who make you pessimistic, but yourself.
There is a famous saying in economics that prices fluctuate around value. You can understand the relationship between the three as optimistic, pessimistic and normal.
The usual main colors, optimism and pessimism, happiness and sadness are just around the usual fluctuating prices.
Maybe everyone wants to have an extraordinary life, but the background of life is ordinary. This kind of spiritual internal friction has been tormenting most people.