One day after Battle of Red Cliffs, Sun Quan said to Lv Meng, "Xiao Luzi, although you are proficient in business, don't forget to study." Lv Meng said, "I'm too busy!" Sun Quan said earnestly, "No matter how busy you are, can you be as busy as me?" ? I have time to study every day. Why not? "
Sun Quan's words immediately inspired Lv Meng. Less than two years later, Lu Su met Lu Meng when passing by his residence. Therefore, Monroe analyzed the situation of the Three Kingdoms at that time with profound insights. Lu Su was frightened and called it impossible. Monroe said frankly, "It's even more embarrassing to say goodbye in three days!" Lu Su went to meet Monroe's mother and became good friends with Monroe!
This happened in the Three Kingdoms period, and it is also the origin of the idiom "Say goodbye three days, treat each other with scraping". For a long time, it has been regarded as a model teaching material to persuade students to learn. But the question is, is it really that simple? In fact, this is the most brain-burning idiom in the Three Kingdoms period, which reveals more than just the message of "encouraging learning".
1. From "nothing ventured, nothing gained" to "three days in never say goodbye, just look at each other"
When Lu was about 15 years old, he secretly followed his brother-in-law Deng as a mountain thief. Deng dang found out and told Lu Meng's mother to persuade Lu Meng to stop working so hard. Unexpectedly, after listening to her mother's persuasion, Monroe immediately said, "Poverty is hard to live in, but making mistakes is meritorious, and wealth can make it." If you don't explore the tiger's den, you get the tiger! "
That is, I have had enough of my poor life and low social status. If I want to get rid of this embarrassment, I must take the risk of nothing ventured, nothing gained? Mom, don't talk to me!
This is a source of "nothing ventured, nothing gained", and another source is the biography of Ban Chao! The reason why Monroe, who is 15 years old, said this generous quote first, in order to get rid of embarrassment, is to explain why Monroe suddenly changed from a so-called "scholar without learning" to a "Confucian general" in less than two years. Because this change is amazing.
So, this is the effect of "determination". Monroe made a decision at the age of 15. Therefore, it is really a castle in the air to talk about hard work without determination.
Second, the information that Sun Quan's private conversation brought to Lv Meng.
Lv Meng was discovered by Zhang Zhao, a close official. It is understood that Zhang Zhao advocated surrender before Battle of Red Cliffs. Therefore, when Sun Quan wins Battle of Red Cliffs's victory, he will inevitably suppress Zhang Zhao's orphan status. Therefore, Sun Quan publicly expressed his disappointment with Mr. Zhang at a banquet, and the history books also recorded that "after Battle of Red Cliffs, Mr. Zhang fell out of power".
So when did Sun Quan talk to Lv Meng? Is through Battle of Red Cliffs, obviously at the moment of Lv Meng, belongs to the general zhang zhao's troops. Therefore, Sun Quan personally took the test of Monroe, but at the beginning, he said, "We must strengthen our study."
Lv Meng immediately read the information, but he was very confused and said that "the army is doing a lot of things". The subtext is not that I don't want to learn, but what I learn and what will happen if I learn it? This is actually a question of "attitude". Monroe's confusion is to send a message to Sun Quan: Who shall I go with?
Sun Quan immediately told Lv Meng with his own example-look at me! It should be noted that when the boss takes himself as an example and asks you to make progress, people with a little social experience will understand that this is training you. So, from this Lv Meng this just suddenly speak!
Do you feel abnormal? That's right! Because from Sun Quan's point of view, Lv Meng is the talent he wants to poach from Zhang Zhao. Thus, before Battle of Red Cliffs, Sun Quan was in a very difficult situation. After all, Sun Ce said to Zhang Zhao before he died: "If Zhong refuses to accept it, you can take it yourself!"
From Lv Meng's point of view, this is actually a choice, whether to continue to follow the disgraced Zhang Zhao or immediately invest in Sun Quan's account. That's how you line up now! Lv Meng chose Sun Quan without hesitation. In less than two years, he learned it! Apart from the firm role and the implied encouragement from the boss, did Monroe die?
Lv Meng didn't open it at all! Because who can believe that a 15-year-old man who says "nothing ventured, nothing gained" is an uneducated lout? Lv Meng has been playing dumb-before Battle of Red Cliffs, Mr. Zhang gained power, and he knew that after Battle of Red Cliffs, Mr. Zhang lost power and influence, and he knew it! He only needs one chance!
It should be noted that no matter which group, all kinds of forces are changing all the time. If once there is an irreversible change in power, the boss of the strong side suddenly talks to you, in fact, it means that you should make a statement! At this moment, either one or the other, you can't ride the wall!
Third, Lu Su's confirmation
For Sun Quan, before and after Battle of Red Cliffs, Lu Su was almost the only person who could rely on and trust him. I'm afraid no one can refute this. So when Lu Su suddenly appeared in front of Lv Meng in less than two years, everyone knew what this meant, and this was the final evaluation!
Therefore, Monroe first asked Lu Su: "Now we are too close to Guan Yu, who is the general of Xiong Hu. What should you do? " Are you sick again? Is it unwise for subordinates to suddenly force him to outline the principles of direct leadership?
But as a result, Monroe was frightened after talking with Lu Su, so Lu Su met Monroe's mother and became brothers of the opposite sex. Why did Lu Su go to Monroe? Why did Lv Meng force the superior leaders to be unreasonable? Do you need to explain now? From Sun Quan's persuasion to Lu Su's final confirmation, this is a whole set of pre-appointment operations.
Whether Lv Meng is a lout is not a problem. As mentioned above, at the age of 15, he can say, "Nothing ventured, nothing gained." Do you believe he is a lout who can't read or write?
Therefore, the real purpose of Sun Quan's persuasion of Lv Meng is actually a process of talent activation! This process took thousands of years, so it is the most popular idiom in the Three Kingdoms period to say, "Don't wait three days until the other side catches you". Not only look at the surface, but also read the password behind it. ...