What people strive for when they reach a certain age are these four abilities

1. The ability to handle things without getting confused and not losing your temper casually. When setbacks come, instead of wasting your emotions, It is better to work hard, integrate pain into the experience of life, and then continue to walk on the path with an open mind.

2. The ability to turn over the past lies in the future, not the past. Regarding the past, no matter regrets or regrets, we should learn to accept it and then look up and move forward.

3. People who are truly capable of calming down are those who can plant chrysanthemums in their hearts after avoiding the hustle and bustle of cars and horses. They are those who can stop complaining and learn to heal themselves when faced with dissatisfaction. Learn to be alone with yourself, and the tranquility of being alone will bring you a steady stream of strength and help you move towards a deeper level of freedom.

4. The ability to look inwardly. To look inwardly, you must recognize your own strength, do your best in everything, and do your best in everything, so that you can move forward steadily. Looking inwardly, you must also recognize your own strengths. Bottom line, do something and don't do something. When looking inward, you must also recognize your own heart and avoid comparison.