Showing off wealth and comparing with others is more common among parents. Parents who should be used for home-school communication have become "showing off their wealth", "competing for favor", "praise groups" and "competing for favor". The "parent group" formed by each class in the school has become a small society, so that there is a saying circulating on the Internet: "There is a flattering group called" parent group "and a ostentatious organization called" family committee ".

"To crush adults, only one parent group is needed." "Since joining the WeChat group, every day is a parent meeting." It seems that parents have long complained about the "parent group", and teachers are also full of complaints and suffering. Obviously, Jiangsu parents are by no means the only ones who choose to "quit in anger", and the education problem that has repeatedly attracted public attention is by no means just a "parent group".

Should the "mother group" retreat, can it retreat, dare to retreat? Why does "parent group" become a hot topic in society again and again? How to treat parents' anxiety? Why do "parents" become "pressure groups" that make parents and teachers "stressed"? Where should the boundary be when parents and teachers educate their children together?

In the final analysis, this "parent group" problem still comes from the distorted home-school relationship. Generally speaking, after joining the "parent group", parents dare not offend the teachers inside. As we all know, the style of painting is like this: whatever the teacher says, everyone says "good", "good" and "good" below, and everyone is very obedient. So, why is this happening? Because our children, especially those below junior high school, are at school for nearly ten hours a day, we can't see them under the care of teachers. We also know that in some schools, teachers often violate children-extreme events such as corporal punishment or abuse. Parents are eager to know how our children spend their time at school. It is precisely because parents are unwilling or afraid to offend teachers that such a power relationship exists in the "parent group". This is a very realistic problem, especially in primary schools and junior high schools. It will be better after high school, because our child has grown up and he has the ability to face these independently.

I don't think it's important to quit the "parent group". In fact, as a parent of a junior three child, I have been in the "parent group" all the time, but I can't basically see what this "parent group" is saying because I have blocked it. However, there are some concrete and routine things that I still want to see. For example, what time should I go to school tomorrow morning? What do you need to bring? What time does school finish today? These transactional things will be exchanged among parents, and WeChat group provides us with the convenience of this exchange. What we need to see is that the problem is not the WeChat group itself. There was no WeChat before, and the family and the school were also communicating.