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2. Making decisions - Zeng Guofan

3. Don’t trust anyone who everyone else trusts.

4. Justice is not about power or money.

5. Silence is more conducive to social interaction than insincerity.

6. Sincerity, warm color, and gentle words will surely move people.

7. A true man should make friends with heroes from all over the world - Chen Shou

8. Maximum honesty is the best way to do things.

9. Leave leeway in doing things; take responsibility for good deeds and refrain from doing so. - Motto Lian Bi

10. The correct life is: maintain an appropriate living condition.

11. When you meet someone, you can’t just say one thing. - Feng Menglong

12. It is better to make others love than to make others love, and it is worse to make others respect than to make others love.

13. Be fair and as fair as water; be honest as an official, as clean as ice.

14. If you are honest, you will be attacked by people from all directions, but if you are hypocritical, you will be attacked by people from all sides.

15. In everything, you have to be on your own feet. In one sentence. -Zeng Guofan

16. Calm behavior is more heartbreaking than an aggressive attitude.

17. Being harmonious to others, being tolerant to others, and being forgiving to others is a gentleman.

18. Don’t fantasize about those who are untrustworthy! ——Leonardo Da Vinci

19. The flower path has never been swept by guests, and the tent door is opened for you today.

20. The best way to encourage yourself is to encourage others - Mark Twain

21. Trust a few people, do no harm to anyone, and love everyone. Shakespeare

22. A gentleman also does things. He is willing to wear bad clothes, eat rough food, and work hard. There is nothing wrong with this.

23. Don’t use language to pierce the bone marrow, and don’t offend people with jokes - Lu Longqi

24. Do things with caution and slowness. - Zeng Guofan

25. If you do something faster than you think, it will be worse than when you do it, and if your intention is not as good as sincerity. -Zeng Guofan

26. The smartest way is to talk to him about his most precious things. ·Carnegie

27. Don’t be arbitrary in dealing with people, you must understand human feelings; you must not be arbitrary in doing things, you must be sensible.

28. Don’t be inferior because of your height, don’t go against the crowd because of your unique opinions, and don’t break your trust because of your function.

29. How to behave and treat others: Those who value teachers will be kings, those who value friends will dominate, and those who value themselves will perish.

30. When receiving kindness from others, it is a place to repay in the future. You cannot ask for more from others. -Zeng Guofan

31. Don’t ask for merit when doing things, and no fault is merit. People don’t need to be grateful for virtue. It is virtue to have no complaints or regrets.

32. When dealing with others, you must learn to suffer losses. As the saying goes: Give up the shore for life without losing a section. - Zuo Zongtang

33. Live with a normal heart, treat others with a sense of shame, do things with heart, and understand the Buddha's heart with bodhicitta.

34. It is always ridiculous when people you know well behave respectfully. ——Goethe

35. Retreating modestly is the first way to protect yourself. An Qian is the first to do something - Zhuangzi

36. Don't look down on anyone, because no one is cowardly enough to avenge his own insult.

37. Learn to live in the simplest way and don’t let complicated thoughts destroy the sweetness of life. - Milton

38. The secret of social interaction is not to tell the truth, but to tell the truth without irritating the other person. - Di Yuan Sutaro

39. Remembering other people's names and calling them out easily is equivalent to giving others a clever and effective compliment. ·Carnegie

40. People will be loyal to you only if you trust them. Treat others with the demeanor of a great man, and only then can you show the demeanor of a great man - Emerson

41. Don't do things or speak too much, be considerate of other people's feelings, have moderation in everything, turn things around when things are urgent, and be kind.

42. Don’t say whatever you want, keep everything in mind, be kind to people, but don’t be too close. Shakespeare

43. We must be fair in dealing with things, and justice breeds fairness; we must be honest in self-discipline, and honesty breeds prestige; we must be sincere in treating others, and honesty breeds trustworthiness; we must work diligently, and diligence will be effective.

44. Open-minded, kind-hearted, calm and cheerful. Love to work, not lazy, love activities, not idle.

45. If you are not sincere in studying, you will learn miscellaneously; if you are not sincere in doing things, you will fail; if you are not sincere to yourself, you will deceive yourself and give up on yourself; if you are not sincere with others, you will lose your morality and increase resentment

46. Do things with care and honesty. The subtitle is that both the buyer and seller are profitable, and all parties in the business are profitable. Kazuo Inamori

47. A narrow-minded, careless person will not live long. Be magnanimous, cheerful, generous in doing things, and live a long and healthy life.

48. Everyone is spoiled like a child and will get carried away; therefore, don’t be generous to others, and don’t be too gentle to others. - Schopenhauer

49. When doing things, you must think carefully about the slowness. If you think carefully, you will get the feeling, and if you are slow, you will get it right. The most important thing cannot be ignored. Even if it is trivial, we must be cautious. -Anonymous

50. When I suffer pain, I yell and cry; when I encounter despicableness, I get angry; when I see filth, I hate it. In my opinion, this is the only thing called life.

51. Tact in the field of communication cannot be shown too much, nor can it be ignored; because it not only involves a decent issue, but also involves official business and government. ·Bacon

52. Life is an adventure full of happiness and hope. This activity is based on the desire to build rather than own property or the desire to acquire other people's property.

53. Admitting that you may be wrong can avoid arguments and make the other person as generous as you are to admit that he too may be wrong. ——Dale Carnegie

54. It is true that children need discipline and guidance, but if they are constantly under discipline and guidance, they are unlikely to learn self-control and self-direction. - Lindgren

55. Please realize the importance of living with others, always be grateful, and interact with others with a heart that is not ungrateful, does not neglect gratitude, and respects loyalty. - Konosuke Matsushita

56. If you are right, try to gently and skillfully get the other person to agree with you; if you are wrong, admit it quickly and sincerely. This is more effective and fun than arguing for yourself. ·Carnegie

57. Children need others to teach them, and their problems need others to treat them, even if they are teachers or doctors. But I’m afraid you have to think about the way you behave and do things. Many good prescriptions are often just crap.

58. When you encounter trouble, you must be calm and take your time. If you're in a hurry, you'll be afraid of making mistakes. Don't be busy with anything in the world. So, be calm and peaceful and do the first thing.

-Zeng Guofan

59. Not surprisingly, all of us are more or less willing to deal with mediocre people because it makes us feel relaxed; it gives us a sense of comfort in communicating with the same person— - Goethe

60. In your past life, you have forgotten who you hurt, but the person you hurt will never forget you. He will never remember your good qualities, but the harm you did to him. ·Carnegie

61. People should not only create wealth, but also deal with others and see the meaning of their creativity in the service of truth, kindness, and beauty. It is these things that people need to be taught to learn. -Suhomlinsky

62. A person should live his life for himself, learn to like himself, and don’t care too much about what others think of me, and don’t care too much about what others think of me. In fact, how others measure you depends on how you measure yourself! ——Xi Murong

63. When you like yourself, you will not feel inferior. When you tolerate others, you don't feel like you're in an adversarial position with them. When you can feel this way, you will feel satisfied and at ease even if you still don't have many friends.

64. Even if you enjoy happiness, glory and wealth, if no one is sincerely happy for you, how can you have great happiness? At the same time, in times of adversity, if no one thinks it's heavier than you, it will inevitably be more unbearable. - Cicero

65. To establish one's body and control one's behavior is based on one mind. If the mind is upright, it means loyalty and uprightness; if it is not upright, it means traitor and purity. ·Zhao Erxun's "Manuscript of the History of the Qing Dynasty" Standing: refers to being a person. Control: Refers to doing things.杝: evil. When dealing with people, there is a difference between being honest and upright in thinking, being loyal and upright, and being cunning and evil. ——Zhao Erxun

66. We cannot place all our happiness on others. Because others can only understand and help us to a limited extent. In fact, there are always more people in the world who are the icing on the cake than who are helping others when they need it. If you are strong, others will encourage you; if you are weak, few people will help you - Roland