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1, light promises will not be trusted-Lao Tzu
2. Only sincerity can break the sky, but reality can break the sky-Xue Xuan
3. If you don't believe in yourself, you will fail-Mozi.
4. The perfidious person is unknown-Liu Xiang.
Honesty is a symbol of strength, which shows a person's high self-esteem and inner sense of security and dignity-Irene Cather.
6. False sincerity is more terrible than the devil-Tagore
7. Credit at work is the best wealth. Young people without credit accumulation will surely become losers-Daisaku Ikeda
8. People can't stand without faith-Confucius
9. If you live honestly, you will have a clear conscience-Gorky.
10, people who touch people with their hearts will respond with their hearts-Cheng Yi.
There is no dignity without honesty-Cicero
12, when credit disappears, the body has no life-Dumas.
13. If you slip, you may stand up at once. If you break your promise, you may never recover it-Franklin.
14, half the truth is often a big lie-Franklin
15, sincerity is the opening of the soul-laroche Foucault.
16, honesty is the foundation of people-Lu Xun
17, where is sincerity, the stone opens-Wang Chong
18, if you don't believe it, you can't stand it, you can't be dishonest-Chao Shuozhi
19, don't deceive yourself inside, and don't deceive others outside-Master Hongyi.
Treating others with truth is not only beneficial to others, but also beneficial to others-Yang Tong.
2 1, if you want others to be honest, you must first be honest with yourself-Shakespeare.
Honesty is the lifeblood of life and the foundation of all values-Dreiser
23. Honesty is the noblest thing a person can keep-Joe.
24. Losing honesty is equivalent to the enemy destroying himself-Shakespeare.
25, sincerity, heaven also; People who think sincerely are also human ways-Mencius
26. The beauty of a word is more valuable than a thousand dollars-Ge Hong.
27, people have no loyalty, can not stand in the world-Cheng Yi.
28. An honest man must be loyal to himself, and his last pillar is sincerity-Emerson.
Honesty and diligence should be your eternal companions-Franklin.
30. A weak-willed person will never be honest.
3 1, connecting people with trust, and trusting people in the world; If you don't trust others, your wife will doubt them-Yang Quan.
If we want to buy his honesty, this kind of person is selling his reputation-Wolfgang.
What a liar gets is that no one will believe him even if he thinks he is telling the truth-Aesop.
People who think they are smart often come to no good end. The smartest person in the world is an honest person, because only an honest person can stand the test of facts and history-Zhou Enlai.
35, people help, but also believe-"Zhouyi"
36. Don't treasure gold and jade, but loyalty is precious-The Book of Rites
37, disaster is greater than no faith-Fu Xuan.
38. It is not easy for a husband to make a promise, and it is even more difficult for a daughter.
39. Honesty is better than all ingenuity, which is the basic condition of ingenuity-Kant's lasting peace.
40. Honesty and diligence should be your eternal companions-Franklin.
4 1, horses should be tamed before seeking goodness, and people should believe before seeking energy-"Zhun Nan Zi"
42. Honesty is the first chapter of the book of wisdom-Jefferson
43, the letter is not enough, Ann has a letter-"Pipe".
44, integrity, the knot of the world also-"Mozi"
45. Credit is hard to gain or lose. The credit accumulated in ten years is often lost because of temporary words and deeds-Daisaku Ikeda.
46. Deception can only be temporary, but honesty is a long-term policy-john ray.
47. A small letter is a big letter-everything is done.
48. I would rather win the attack of one hundred enemies with sincerity than win the praise of ten friends with hypocrisy-petofi.
49. You don't need to make a speech or an idea. You just need to go with sincerity. If you don't say it for a long time, you will get the blessing of silence-Lv Kun.
50. Thousands of teachers in Qian Qian teach people to seek truth, while thousands of students in Qian Qian learn to be human. -Tao Xingzhi
5 1. If you are used to empty talk, the most respectable people will lose their dignity. -Motto
52. Honest people, heaven also; If you think sincerely, you will learn from others. -"Mencius Li Lou"
53. Less empty talk, more work, down-to-earth and hard work. Deng Xiaoping
54. Think of evil things and turn them into hell; Think of good deeds and turn them into heaven. -Hui Neng
55. I live to make others live better. -Lei Feng
56. Talent is the capital of virtue; De is handsome. -Sima Guang
57. Keep your word and do what you want. -Confucius "The Analects of Confucius Lutz"
58. People who don't believe don't know what they can do. -Confucius "The Analects of Confucius Governing Politics"
59. If you are honest with others, you just don't keep your word. -wangtong's "Duke of Zhou in the Text"
60. If you don't study sincerely, you will learn miscellaneous things. If you don't do things sincerely, you will lose things. If you are not sincere to yourself, you are deceiving yourself and giving up on yourself. If you are not sincere to people, you will lose your morality and increase your resentment. -Cheng Hao and Cheng Yi's "Two Ji Cheng Essays"
6 1, let nature take its course, base itself on the truth, seek the light of life, and don't fall into the realm of reluctance and hypocrisy and become disillusioned with real life. -Li Dazhao
62, full of losses, modest benefits. -"Shangshu Dayu Mo"
Modesty makes people progress, while pride makes people lag behind. Mao Zedong
64, 9 Niu Yi don't boast, complacency will overthrow. -Chen Yi
65. Determined to do great things, not to be a big official. -Sun Yat-sen
66. Less knowledge makes people proud, while more knowledge makes people humble. -Leonardo da Vinci
67. Life is short, and only virtue can pass it on to distant descendants. -Shakespeare
68, the gentleman changes, the villain does not decorate; Turn over a new leaf, not stubborn; In the end, you will be blessed, and in the end, you will lose. -Shao Yong's Lost Enlightenment
69. Morality is really not a dogma that guides people how to make themselves happy, but a theory that guides people how to deserve happiness. (Kant, German philosopher)
70. Being insincere means deceiving your heart and giving up on yourself. If you speak insincerely to others, you will lose your virtue and increase your resentment. (Song, "On Cheng's Lectures in Henan")
7 1, people are honest, although sparse will be dense; Empty with others, although it will be sparse. (Han Hanying, Biography of Han Poetry)
72, light promises, less faith, more easy, more difficult (Lao Tzu)
73. True and sincere. Not refined and sincere, not moving. (Zhuangzi)
74. People who don't believe don't know what they can do. (Confucius)
75. Since ancient times, people have died, and people have no faith. (Confucius)
76. People who are sincere and motionless have nothing; If you are not sincere, you will not move (Mencius)
77. Honest people, heaven also; If you think sincerely, you will learn from others. ("Mencius")
78, Yangxin is not good at honesty (Xunzi)
79. Clever fraud is better than sincerity (everything is wrong)
80. If you want to be right, be sincere first, then be right. (University)
We should reject lies and stick to honesty. How can we avoid the embarrassment encountered by the other party in work and life? We want to:
If you refuse at the beginning, there will be no embarrassing situation later. We are now living in an open and unpopular era.
"Don't say that the hat worn by the aunt next door is ugly, do you hear?"
"You have to say to the new class teacher,' I'm glad you are our class teacher'!"
We don't say similar words from the heart, but choose nice words that don't make people sad. This is because we believe that there can be no shortage of white lies in life.
Shall we look at the problem from the opposite angle? Someone wears an ugly hat, and we can tell him realistically that it's really bad. This is because always telling white lies will also bring you trouble. So we should learn when to tell the truth and when to tell a white lie, otherwise it will lead to the result of not knowing the truth from the false.
For example, suppose you receive a birthday invitation from a friend who is not very close at the weekend. You don't want to go, but you refuse because you are afraid of each other's anger, and your promise is ambiguous. Time flies. It's almost my friend's birthday, and you still don't want to go. Now I'll find a reason to tell each other that you can't go. Think about it, what will the other party think of you at this time? The other party will definitely see that you are reluctant to leave and will be very angry.
You didn't refuse at first, but you still made your friend angry. What will it be like to show your attitude when you receive an invitation?
"I'm glad to be invited, but I can't go because I have something in town that day."
If you refuse at the beginning, there will be no embarrassment later.
There is no doubt that a white lie is itself a lie. Lies, lying is cheating, cheating is immoral, immoral things are unpopular. These are all instilled by teachers since childhood. But we ask ourselves, who hasn't lied? For our relatives, friends or strangers, there are many purposes, but when we add "goodwill" to a lie, it seems that everyone can accept it, which is the concentrated expression of human weakness.
Mark. Twain once said, "When you can't make up your mind, tell the truth. It will make opponents embarrassed and reassure friends. " So the psychologist's point of view is: don't lie easily, even if it is a white lie.
We think we should distinguish things from the definition and synthesize the interpretation of Kangxi Dictionary. A white lie is not seeking truth from facts, telling lies and empty words, exaggerating, covering up and distorting the truth. From the structural analysis of white lie phrases, it is a partial phrase and the head word is a lie, so white lie is a lie in essence. It is an indisputable fact that white lies are often used by some "professional liars" because of their uncertainty. A "lie" itself is dark, and the likes and dislikes of things are not measured by the purpose of things. A white lie itself is a lie. Although he has shed his beggar's clothes and put on his cheongsam, he still can't get rid of the essence of lies, which means cheating and hinders honesty. White lies have a good starting point, but once they are exposed, they will do more harm to each other. As a lie itself, it is already a violation of good faith.
Among the 20-character moral standards put forward in the Implementation Outline of Citizen's Moral Construction published by the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China, "sincerity" is a very important criterion, and honesty is the pursuit of "truth" and justice. The ancients said that "true self" was sincere. Not refined and sincere, not moving.
As General Secretary Hu Jintao said in his speech: "The socialist harmonious society we want to build should be a society with democracy and the rule of law, fairness and justice, honesty and friendship, vitality, stability and order, and harmony between man and nature."
From the above analysis, we believe that no matter whether a lie is for a good purpose or not, being a lie will inevitably hinder honesty.
Let's give another example:
A terminally ill patient, the doctor told him that it was only a minor illness and it would not be a big problem. But the disease will come eventually. At this time, the patient will be disgusted and will regret it. I resent him for not knowing that he has little time left, so that he can't fulfill his wish for the rest of his life. Isn't the result even more tragic?
If it is not enough, I can supplement it.