No matter you are a Buddhist and lie flat, or you have fought hard and are bleeding, hardships are inevitable, and happiness seems to be out of reach.

There is nothing you can do to reach it.

As long as you have something to fight for and something not to fight for, stand on tiptoe, and happiness will be right in front of you.

People underestimate and strive for strength

No one is destined to be in the winning group in life. Suffering is something you have to eat when it is your turn. When all the hardships are over and you smile, that's the meaning of your hard work.

There is a stay-at-home mother on Douban who has found her true self after raising her baby for three years.

When she had just given birth to her baby, she was out of shape, had no social interactions, was worried about the money for milk powder, had to endure the crying baby, and was so tired that she doubted her life.

It was during that period that she was afraid of being left behind in the workplace, so she decided to get a teacher's certificate. Buy books, download materials online, and review them all the time.

When the baby is playing by himself in the walker, she reads a book. When the baby cannot play by himself, she learns through it. When the baby falls asleep, she drinks coffee and stays up late at night.

While working, listening to lectures, written test and interview, all at once.

Slowly, she tried to work as a teacher in a training institution, and prepared for the exam with all her strength, and passed the self-study undergraduate degree.

In the past three years, every time my husband had time, the two of them took the baby out to play together. They traveled to more than a dozen cities, and even moved to a new city and renovated it. A house.

The messy life has not ended, but she has become what she likes, and is more determined than anyone else about the future.

I always feel that surviving through hard work is an inspirational story. We are too ordinary and too difficult to achieve.

But just because we are ordinary and do not arrive at our destination as soon as we are born, it is difficult for us to wait for noble people or luck. Our happiness can only be earned by ourselves.

Hayao Miyazaki said: "No matter how hard the road ahead is, as long as you go in the right direction, no matter how bumpy it is, you will be happier than standing still."

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The more difficult the time, the less you should give up on yourself. Only by fighting hard at the trough can you see the distance.

When people are on high ground, they must strive for success

I once thought that the trough period was the most difficult time, but later I discovered that grasping happiness requires more courage than enduring pain.

Just like you climb a mountain, sitting on the top of the mountain will be very happy. But sitting down all the time will only make you feel uncomfortable.

Whether it is because of luck or hard work, when you get to the place you expect, you must be more confident.

Zhu Ting came into contact with volleyball at the age of 14. Relying on her talent and tenacity, she became the main player in the country at the age of 18. She did not rest on her laurels early, but worked hard to become the captain step by step.

In the past, she was strong, but not comprehensive enough. Lang Ping specially increased the amount of training for her, and tortured her until her face turned pale. It was her persistence that brought her luck to the extreme.

In the 2015 Women's Volleyball World Cup and the 2016 Olympic Games, Zhu Ting won the best attack.

In the 2019 Women's Volleyball League, China was at a disadvantage against Japan. She frequently dunked and scored 18 points to help her team win the game.

In the game last month, she was hit in the eye while blocking. She played the entire game with red eyes, and helped the team score key points and beat the United States. Team.

Zhu Ting told her teammates, "It's okay, it just hurts a little." After the game, she posted on Weibo, "Thank you for your concern, I'm fine." Being strong seems to have become a habit.

The greater her fame, the more she achieves, and the harder she treats herself.

Even though it will be painful, tiring, and stressful, I still want to be proud and choose a hot life.

It is not easy to see the scenery from high places, and it is even more difficult to keep climbing up. You may want to give up for a moment, but you know it’s cooler and more meaningful to stick with it.

No one can bargain with life. You have to fight for what you want based on your ability, and you have to keep it based on your ability.

When people go uphill, don’t chase profits

All the famous sayings that wake up today are inescapable from three words: money, money, money.

No one would mind having too much money, but there will always be a moment when the money is in hand and you take the initiative to take it back. It’s not because I’m stupid, that’s the unavoidable principle and bottom line.

Yang Jianqiu in "Fox Hunt" makes people feel both distressed and angry.

She was born in a rural area. She delayed her studies to support her brother in school. Her brother helped her find a job. Seeing that things were getting better and better, she capsized in the gutter. .

The 500,000 shares given to her by her boss, Director Zhao, completely deceived her.

Yang Jianqiu was originally simple and kind-hearted, and was kind to others. After seeing a lot of money, she slowly began to collect benefits, speculate in stocks and buy houses. Even if her brother persuaded her, she no longer listened.

Her job at the bank was lost and she went to jail. My brother, who works in the police station, was also implicated and was stained for the first time.

Director Zhao, who gave her the problematic stocks, has everything under control.

It is always said that money has only advantages and no disadvantages, but if you don’t give it up, you can’t get it. Because all the money you see is not yours.

No matter how capable you are, no matter how smoothly you go uphill, without judgment, you can only fall deeply and miserably.

Teng Hongfei, a former senior executive of Huawei, had an annual salary of one million and was awarded the highest honor in the company’s management system, the “Blue Blood Top Ten”. However, he accepted a bribe in a moment of confusion and ended his career. .

Desires are hard to fill, but the measure is in your heart.

What you earn through hard work is what you deserve.

Once you have principles, no regrets, and more secure money, you will have a smooth road ahead.

If you squeeze your head and put your interests first, it will only make you tired and useless.

When people encounter right and wrong, don’t argue

I heard a joke:

There are young people He couldn't stand the behavior of others and would quarrel with others every day. He always felt that everyone was against him and his life was boring.

Depressed, he asked the wise man: "What is the secret of happiness?"

The wise man told him: "Happiness, Just don't argue with fools about right and wrong."

He began to be dissatisfied: "Isn't it possible? It's not that simple. I don't think so."

The master smiled slightly and said: "You are right" and ignored him again.

When you encounter right and wrong head-on and argue without making sense, your mood will only get worse.

If you want real happiness, it is better to keep your mouth shut and don’t argue or pay attention.

After only a few words of argument, the colleague started yelling curses that could be heard throughout the floor.

When the leader came over, not only did he not say fair words, but he also called the reader to the office and gave her a harsh scolding, which made her feel full of grievances.

When she was not angry, she heard the leader say: "Everyone knows who she is. If you argue with her and give her a chance to make a noise, then it is your fault." . ”

Not just any person is worth your waste of words, and not just any thing is worth your trouble.

Just like if someone suspects that you have eaten an extra bowl of noodles, you will not cut open your stomach with a knife to prove it. When you encounter right and wrong people and things, just stay away silently.

Luo Yonghao said that there are only two situations in this life that need explanation:

One is that the court and the police misunderstood. Explain that something is going to happen; one is that close friends and relatives have misunderstood, and they will be sad if you don't explain.

We are fair-weather friends, just having fun, so don’t take it too seriously.

If you don’t say it, someone will see it clearly; if you can’t see it clearly, don’t worry.

The greatest sobriety is not to be so eloquent when encountering bad things and to make everyone feel inferior.

Instead, do not complain or be angry, be yourself, and win before the war begins.

Happiness is a state of mind, it is just about doing your best and listening to fate.

No matter how high your moments are, or when you are going through troughs, no matter how much gossip you hear around you, you are qualified to fight for it, and you also have the right to choose to quit at any time.

The important thing is to figure out when to fight and when not to fight.

You just need to look and think, do what you can, let go of what you should let go, and you will always see the light.

May you love, fight, be cruel, and know how to let go. On the road to becoming more and more awake, reap your own happiness.