In rural areas, people often say: help others to the end, send Buddha to the west. This sentence means that to help people in trouble, we must help them get out of trouble completely, that is to say, we must help people finish what they started, and never give up halfway. Literally, this sentence is correct and positive. However, this sentence ignores the object of help. If we help someone we shouldn't help, then we haven't done a good thing, on the contrary, it is equivalent to doing a bad thing. So? Help others to the end, send Buddha to the west? Attention should be paid to distinguishing the objects, especially these four kinds of people. Even if they encounter great difficulties, we should not help them indiscriminately. If we help them, our trouble will come.

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The first person: a bad neighbor.

People often say that a good neighborhood relationship is like finding a treasure. What does this sentence mean? In fact, the meaning of this sentence is to tell us that good neighbors are like treasure hunting, and the ancients had them? One thousand dollars for a house and ten thousand dollars for a neighbor? Famous words. On the contrary, if we have an evil neighbor around us, then our suffering will come, and our lives will often be disturbed by such people. In such a harsh living environment, if this unscrupulous neighbor commits a crime, then we must never be merciful. Even if they ask us for help, we must resolutely refuse. Because what they do is often harmful to others and themselves. Once we help them, we are helping others. When they come to their senses, they will do more bad things. Therefore, no matter how difficult it is to be a wicked neighbor, don't help easily.

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The second kind of people: distant relatives who push their luck.

People often say: poor people don't ask in downtown, and rich people have distant relatives in the mountains. If a person is at the peak of his career, there will always be people crowding around, and among them, distant relatives and old relatives are naturally included. Say? Wealth does not return to hometown, such as walking at night? Yes, when we have some financial ability, we will show off our vanity more or less. So we often bring some gifts back to China to give back to our relatives and friends, including these distant relatives and old relatives. However, some distant relatives will be dissatisfied with the small favors we have given them. They will get more help from us in various ways, and let us use our contacts and resources to serve them. Once we refuse them, they will be dissatisfied and even swear. For such distant relatives who push their luck, even if they encounter great difficulties, they should know how to refuse their demands decisively, because once we help them again, they will intensify their efforts. In that case, we will be in trouble, in trouble.

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Third person: mud can't help the wall.

People often say that people who can't use mud to support the wall are often people who can't carve a piece of wood. Yes, around us, we often see some people who are lazy and alive in their prime of life? Be a monk for a day and hit the bell for a day? That day. What is such a person's favorite thing? Drink today, get drunk today? Ignore the warnings of people around you. Such people lead a muddled life every day. Because you don't like work, you will naturally encounter economic problems. Some people like to steal chickens and touch dogs, and some even start to run amok. For this? Mud can't help the wall? It will be a bad thing if we help them too much. Once they depend on us, it is difficult for us to get rid of their entanglement. So, for what? Mud can't help the wall? Even if they encounter great difficulties, when we help them, we should not help them too much to avoid them? Do good deeds and make enemies? Regret.

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The fourth person: the opposite sex of huahuachangzi.

Ancestors often warned us: the color word is a knife in the head, and there is nowhere to escape under the pomegranate skirt. Yes, if a person is entangled in the life of flying butterflies and dancing willows every day, it will inevitably fall into the peach trap, and? Missed life? . Around us, the opposite sex with playboy always has restless thoughts about the people around us. If there are two opposite sex around us, and they always have wild thoughts about us, then we should be on our guard. For such a heterosexual, you should know how to stay at a respectful distance from others. At the same time, even if they encounter difficulties, we should not take the initiative to help them. If we help them, such people will inevitably think that we have a good impression on them and take the opportunity to approach us. Once we don't keep the emotional bottom line, then we can easily become these people? Captives? Since then, we have fallen into the trap of flowers, and it is difficult to extricate ourselves, which will really harm our family.