Two hardest hit areas lacking expressiveness
0 1 dare not express.
The core reason for not expressing is: lack of self-confidence and not knowing how to say it. I'm afraid I'll say the wrong thing to make others angry. I feel inferior to others, I don't know how to start, and then I dare not speak to avoid making mistakes.
First of all, make sure that the lack of expressive power is not a problem of one person, but a problem of many people, so don't be too hard on yourself.
Moreover, the lack of expressive power does not mean that you are not smart or anything, but is closely related to your growing environment, social experience and so on. We can see the problem, but don't think it's your own.
02 words are unclear.
When you encounter a problem, you clearly want to express one meaning, but you express another. In other words, my logic is clear, but I find that others have not understood it for a long time.
This is the problem that words do not convey meaning and words are not focused. Similarly, these questions are not about how bad we are, but about various factors. Most importantly, you should understand that these problems can be greatly improved through study and training.
For example, if you talk about a problem that has no focus, you can solve it instantly as long as you think clearly and then apply the idea of first conclusion, point-by-point discussion and summary in the golden pyramid principle.
Four Skills of Improving Language Expression Ability
0 1 Read classic articles 10 minutes.
I am afraid of being wrong, because I don't know what is right. So we must first understand what is a good language expression. Classic articles are clear in logic and accurate in expression, and they are very good learning materials.
So just read aloud, okay?
Of course not, the purpose of reading aloud is to improve the language expression ability, not to complete the task. Therefore, after reading aloud, we should savor carefully: what kind of scene is this passage we read aloud, what kind of emotional tendency it expresses, what kind of meaning it expresses, and how to apply it if we encounter such a scene one day?
02 Practice in front of the mirror 10 minutes
This little trick can improve self-confidence very well, and the operation is very simple. Can have the following two forms:
Say a few words of encouragement to yourself and affirm yourself. For example, after getting up in the morning, before going out to work, say to yourself: something good will come today, and then smile at yourself. Maybe this is how the good mood of the day is laid.
Find a passage you like to read, recite it in front of the mirror, and experience it with your own emotions in the process. Or find a topic of interest, and then start an impromptu speech in front of the mirror to express your thoughts.
03 master two modes of thinking
There are routines in expression, and mastering routines can quickly improve expressiveness. The first is the pyramid thinking mode, that is, the expression structure of total score is used in expression. The second is the 5W 1H thinking mode, which is particularly easy to use.
Pause for 5 seconds before answering the phone.
Sometimes the confusion of expression is caused by being in a hurry and saying things without thinking clearly. Try to listen to others first, and then wait for 5 seconds before you say what you think. In these five seconds, you can use the first point and the second point to organize what you want to express.
The Key and Resources to Improve Language Expressiveness
0 1 the key to improving language expressiveness
Thinking is obviously the core. Ma Weiwei has a famous saying: Only when you think clearly can you make it clear. If you don't think clearly, you can't make it clear. Therefore, the first core of improving expressive power is to improve logical thinking ability and clear thinking.
Accurate expression is the key. No matter how clear you think, words can't convey your meaning, and others can't understand it. Therefore, it is necessary to train the sense of organization and hierarchy of expression and hit the nail on the head.
A confident speech is the key. What you say is very important, so is how you say it. Say what you want to express confidently, which will be more infectious and convincing.
02 Improve the thinking mode of logical thinking
Pyramid model
Conclusion: Expressiveness can be improved through training.
Basis: Expressiveness is the synthesis of logical thinking and language expression;
Improve logical thinking and language expression, you can improve. Conclusion: Therefore, the expressive ability can be improved by several methods.
B5W 1H model
Meaning: when, where, why and how WHO Background: Event A happened.
Application model: thinking about reasons, places, people,
How and why did it happen?
Grasp the key points: on the basis of analysis, it is necessary to make clear what the current key points are.
What action should be taken?
03 TED speeches and books enhance expressiveness
The principle of golden pagoda
The art of communication
Non-violent communication
How to speak before others listen
Three voice secrets make you speak more confidently.
The structure of speech, how to become an excellent speaker.
How to become a confident person
Don't let being unable to speak get in your way.
How to train a person's logical thinking ability