[America] Dale Carnegie/with.

Zhai Wenming/Compilation

Introduction:

The weakness of human nature is Dale Carnegie's classic. This book brings together the essence of Carnegie's thought, deeply analyzes the weakness of human nature from the perspective of human nature, and summarizes the principles and methods of dealing with people, things and family life. Only in this way can you fully understand yourself, constantly transform yourself, and make continuous progress until you succeed.

1. Grasp the key of interpersonal communication

(3) control your tongue.

Excerpt:

In the "depressed" moment that each of us has experienced, if we can't say something good to others, then we'd better not say anything.

Degrade and hurt others is not the solution to the problem.

Creativity comes from the process of constantly looking for answers.

There is a time-tested famous saying: "If you have nothing to say, don't say anything."

The unpleasant moment will pass sooner or later. If there is nothing wrong with our tongues, there will be no wounds to heal.

Feeling:

I once read a story about a little boy who had a bad temper and was always angry with people around him. In order to correct his bad habits, his father made an agreement with him: every time you lose your temper, hammer a nail on the fence in the yard until it is full. The little boy kept his promise and hammered a nail every time he got angry.

Gradually, there were more and more nails and the little boy lost his temper less and less. His father told him that you can pull out a nail in one day without losing your temper. Slowly, the little boy pulled out one nail after another.

After all the nails were pulled out, the father took the little boy to see the fence, which had countless holes. "The hole in the fence will never disappear, and your bad words will always leave a mark on the people you hurt."

From this story, I know that "bad words hurt June". If you say it, everything you say will stay in others' hearts. Therefore, please control your emotions and carefully consider what you say.

Everyone will encounter difficulties and have a bad mood. If you are sure that what you say will hurt others at this time, please shut up and don't talk.

Hurting others won't solve your problems, and hurting others won't make you happy. If you have time to lose your temper with innocent people, it is better to calm down and think about the solution to the problem. So you won't apologize to everyone when you calm down.

One of my college roommates has a bad temper. Like she said, she can't help herself. Every time she gets angry, her language makes me sick. Later, when sleeping in the dormitory, she also knew that her bad temper would bring harm to people. After that, he refused to talk to anyone every time he lost his temper. It also saves the process of apologizing to people every time. Now, our relationship is not bad.

Speaking is an art, even if you can't make people like you, don't hurt others and make people bored.

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