It is necessary to care about your child, but if you clean up all the stones on his path and smooth out all the potholes, he may be safe temporarily, but at the same time he will lose the ability to walk on a bumpy road. The following This is a template of 80 quotes and sayings about parents educating their children that I compiled for you. Let’s take a look at it together!
1. Only love can cultivate children.
2. Children’s rationality is constantly growing. Don’t feed them, but guide them.
3. Give full play to children’s ability to actively recognize their own talents.
4. Spend time alone with your children every day.
5. There is no difference between a strict father and a loving mother. If you say strict, both parents will be strict; if you say loving, both parents will be kind. The whole family gets along like friends. ?Fukuzawa Yukichi
6. Courage allows us to resist the dangers we fear and the unexpected disasters we feel. It is very useful in this kind of life surrounded by enemies; so we'd better enable children to have this ability as early as possible. The sooner we are armed, the better. ?Locke
7. Try to compare the ideal father and the ideal mother. It is best for a father to pamper his children, while a mother should tightly control her children when necessary, and sometimes reprimand them severely. If the father is always noisy and too strict, the children will stay away from him. No matter how strict the mother is, as long as it is out of love, the child will still follow her every step of the way. ?Daisaku Ikeda
8. Take your children’s personal requirements seriously.
9. Let children develop the habit of reading from an early age.
10. Give the child a room or part of the room, mainly for the child to play.
11. Help your child formulate his or her personal plan and how to complete it.
12. Don’t praise your children hollowly and insincerely.
13. Encourage children to make up stories and fantasize.
14. Parents are the enlightenment teachers of their children, and children are the mirror of their mother. ?Li Xiuyun
15. Don’t scold your child because there is a mess in his room or on the desktop, as long as it is related to his creative activities.
16. Never tell a child that he is worse than other children.
17. Help children interact normally with children from different social and cultural classes.
18. Isolating children from their peers will cause indelible trauma to their hearts.
19. The best education is to lead by example. Children are very sensitive to lies or hypocrisy and can easily detect it. If they respect you and rely on you, they will cooperate with you even from a young age. ?Mrs. Gandhi
20. A child likes the person who loves him most, and only love can cultivate him. When a child sees and feels his parents' love for him, he will try to be obedient and not make his parents angry. ?Dzerzhinsky
21. If you love your son, teach him righteousness, and accept the evil, arrogance, extravagance, and lust, which are the evils of your own. If the fourth one comes, he will be favored and paid too much. ?"Zuo Zhuan"
22. A good personality is better than excellent intelligence.
23. Make detailed experimental plans to help children understand more things.
24. We only hope to give our children two permanent legacies: one is roots and the other is wings.
25. Eisenhower
26. My father made it clear that if I wanted to gain greater power, I must continue to argue with him on every issue. I complained that his attitude was too rude, and he yelled: "I don't have much time to talk to you anymore. That is the only way I can teach you how to work." It seems that this is what he cultivated, trained and cultivated me. Set methods. ?Thomas Watson Jr.
27. Parents should gradually cultivate the habit of independent thinking and independent problem solving in their children, and thus build their children's confidence.
28. Teach children to interact freely with adults of all ages.
29. The art of education lies not in imparting skills, but in motivating, awakening and inspiring.
30. Read something to your children regularly.
31. Teaching children to walk and talk is the best way to educate children in the world.
32. If a child does something naughty because of his active, innocent and lively nature, he will regret it. As he grows older, his willpower also increases. When he is good at controlling himself, he will control his own conscience and will not let bad partners, external living conditions, etc. control him. ?Dzerzhinsky
33. Encourage children to identify problems and then solve them.
34. The process of parents educating their children is also a process of continuous realization and learning.
35. It is better to teach people to fish than to give them fish.
36. Don’t tease your children because they make mistakes. Praise your children for reciting poems, telling stories and singing songs.
37. Help the child revise his homework.
38. Keep looking for things worthy of praise in the things your children do.
39. Combining the meaning of fairy tales and guiding children to think and explore is more profound than simply reasoning.
40. Let children think independently.
41. Appreciation makes children succeed, while complaining makes children fail. Prohibition means temptation, and suppression means strengthening.
42. Allow children to play with all kinds of waste.
43. Children want to be respected, appreciated, applauded and recognized.
44. Explain to the child that he is already very cute and there is no need to express himself.
45. The children of the poor will become masters early, but they must be wary of "poor people have short ambitions".
46. It is necessary to care for your child, but if you clean up all the stones on his path and smooth out all the potholes, he may be safe temporarily, but at the same time he will lose the ability to walk on a bumpy road. . ?Sun Puyuan
47. Stimulating children’s desire for knowledge and learning is far more meaningful than the limited knowledge of the church.
48. Don’t look down on your child’s failure and say to your child: “I wouldn’t do this either.”
49. In my family, caring about others is a matter of course. Our parents have instilled in us since childhood that a person must be ambitious but not arrogant and arrogant. Self-reliance and self-improvement are the basic principles of life.
50. Take your child to places that interest him.
51. We should give our children courage and self-confidence, and help them develop it, as Smith, Dean of Ballio College, Oxford University, wrote in a letter to the British Prime Minister in 1919: "Be open-minded. A keen eye and a love of truth can resist unreasonable sophistry, outdated beliefs, sensationalism and hypocrisy." ?Mrs. Gandhi
52. Let the child do what he can.
53. A child’s words and deeds are like a mirror, reflecting the spirit of the family and parents. Therefore, if you want your children to be well, you must first set an example yourself. The daily words and deeds of parents or educators have the strongest persuasive power in cultivating children's personality. ?Taniguchi Masaharu
54. Provide books and materials to children and let them do what they like.
55. A child can truly learn to walk without the help of his mother.
56. Human beings have the obligation to give the best things to their children.
57. Parents cannot accompany their children for a lifetime, so they must cultivate their children’s social awareness and independence from an early age.
58. If you really love your child, you should send him to "go to sea and experience the wind and waves."
59. Parents should develop reasonable behavioral habits and pay attention to enable their children to learn to do them.
60. Too much haste and slowness in education will destroy the normal psychological development of children.
61. Do not punish children with insults.
62. Take serious questions and opinions raised by children seriously.
63. Build a display stand so that children can fully display their works on it.
64. Honestly evaluate your feelings for your children.
65. Allow children to participate in planning household chores and trips.
66. I pray that please do not lead him to the path of peace and ease, but put him under the test and intensity of difficulties and challenges. Let him learn to stand upright in the storm, and let him learn to be compassionate to those who lose. ?McArthur
67. Answer all questions raised by your children patiently and honestly.
68. If you don’t love someone in the right way, you will harm them if you love them. ?"Zizhi Tongjian"
69. While educating their children, parents are also educating themselves.
70. Encourage children to try not to rely on adults.
71. Life is like an ocean, only those with strong will can reach the other shore
72. Using test scores as the only criterion for evaluating children makes parents and teachers blind. Only by measuring people with multiple rulers can we truly discover where a child's strengths lie.
73. Online games are a double-edged sword. If they are controlled properly, they are angels, but if they are not controlled properly, they are devils. The fundamental measure to prevent children's Internet addiction is to replace failed experiences with successful experiences, and to replace monotonous lives with rich lives.
74. Although you are under the same roof, when you have a conflict with your child, or when your child refuses to talk to you, writing a heart-to-heart letter to your child and exchanging opinions on an equal footing may be the best solution. Appropriate choice.
75. Do not deliberately create adversity, and do not easily extend a "hand" to children in adversity. Parents should not deprive their children of the right to grow up through failure.
76. The secret of successful education is to set a lower goal first, let the children experience the joy of success, and then pursue a higher goal. Allowing children to experience success repeatedly will make them confident in success.
77. On the same matter, parents’ behavior and attitude must be consistent before and after, and their promises must be fulfilled. It is the basic morality of a parent to keep your word to your children.
78. All those programs that promote the creation of "prodigies" in batches are deceptive programs with the goal of making money. Children are all different and have different growth paths. Any understanding and behavior that ignores children's personality differences violates scientific laws.
79. Parents should not arrange their children’s time according to their own will, as this will deprive their children of their time freedom and spiritual freedom. Human growth requires a lot of free time. Children should be allowed to watch, listen, think and play by themselves.
80. If parents and teachers are too tolerant of the problems of "good children", their weaknesses will turn into hidden dangers or even "ticking time bombs." Uncritical education as education.