Being a human being is a science. Really wise people do not have high IQs, but they basically follow these four ways of living. Such an attitude will make people more comfortable and easier. Set yourself up for success.

In real life, don’t complain about the harsh conditions of the world, and don’t complain about the indifference of people. In fact, it is not society that is complicated, but people’s hearts. Because different personalities will have different ways of being in the world. Those who are truly wise People must be secretive people.

It is said in "Cai Gen Tan": one is sad, one is happy, and one is prosperous, don't ask whether it is destined. Wearing cassocks to seek tranquility, only by being unstained by the world of mortals can we determine. That is to say, the joys and sorrows, joys and sorrows, successes and failures, ups and downs in life require wisdom in dealing with the world and a high level of understanding in order to control one's own life.

Learn to be open-minded.

Only when you live with an open mind can you recognize yourself.

Throughout the ages, the more knowledgeable and cultivated people are, the more modest and open-minded they are, so they will continue to learn from others and enrich and improve their own thoughts and knowledge.

In fact, it is precisely because they actually know more than others. They know that there are people outside the world, and there is a sky outside the world. The more they see and understand, the more they will find that the world and the universe are really too big, and there is always oneself. There are endless things to learn and understand, so they always have a humble learning attitude and a low-key attitude towards life. They always feel that they are still ignorant and there is too much knowledge that they do not know yet, so they continue to work hard and continue for this. study.

This is a kind of great wisdom. People with this kind of wisdom, no matter how great their merits and achievements, will always put themselves in a lower position and remain humble. This can also prevent themselves from disasters and win the favor of others. Good impression.

Learn to stay calm in times of crisis.

It is said in "Cai Gen Tan": Only by being on guard when there is nothing, can we avoid unexpected changes; by being calm when there is nothing, can we eliminate the danger in the situation.

Only when you learn to be calm in the face of crisis can you eliminate the crisis. This requires a person's growth and precipitation to be calm and calm.

People who achieve great things have a strong heart. The tempering and improvement of their mental state are the result of accumulated efforts and practice. First of all, learn to be silent. Silence is golden, but many times, it is a kind of The way you behave and deal with things, the stillness in behavior, does not mean the stagnation of thinking.

As the saying goes, profound thoughts originate from the seemingly calm and silent thinking process.

When faced with an emergency, when everyone is in a panic, confused, confused, and at a loss, you can still remain calm, fearless in the face of danger, and handle the situation. Being calm and adaptable to chaos is a general pattern, and it is also a kind of growth. In calmness, you can quickly find some coping methods to turn the dangerous situation into safety

A person is affected by emotions The fewer fluctuations, the smaller the chance of making mistakes, and the easier it is to deal with problems and resolve suffering calmly and rationally.

Learn to be low-key and restrained.

A low-key and introverted person can generally deal with everyone. No matter you like it or hate it, you have to get along with people calmly, without colored glasses, without personal emotions, and with a high heart. People who are arrogant, aggressive, and arrogant will only make themselves suffer.

Being low-key and restrained is also a way of self-protection. As a human being, you must always be alert to recognize yourself, learn to be low-key and restrained, and do not be self-admiring and bring disaster.

As the saying goes: People are afraid of being famous, and pigs are afraid of being strong. ?

When a person's talent is too outstanding and sharp, it is likely to lead to suspicion, crowding, and even harm.

It is indeed a good thing for a person to have outstanding talents, but you must learn to be humble and restrained, and even be tolerant when necessary. Don't be overly arrogant and show off your talents everywhere. This will undoubtedly make people as talented as you People who are jealous and suspicious will do harm to you secretly.

Don’t say what you shouldn’t say; don’t do what you shouldn’t do. Be a low-key, reserved person, learn to introspect yourself, sharpen your edge, live a low-key life, and protect yourself.

Don’t leave too many escape paths for yourself.

Many times, we are unable to do something with all our strength because we leave too many escape routes for ourselves. With more escape routes, there are more excuses. With too many excuses, we will inevitably It weakens my fighting spirit and lacks the courage to move forward.

If you throw away your illusions, cut off your escape route, and force yourself not to look back based on your true situation, you will be able to achieve success and open up a new situation.

When doing things, you must leave yourself a way out, but you can’t go too far.

Many people feel that they should leave a way out for themselves in order to avoid other situations in the future with no way out. This is a worry about failure, and psychologically there is a bit of negativity and neglect. Naturally, It won't be easy to succeed.

In fact, sometimes, the escape route is a rope that holds a person back, which can make a person's decision and confidence to go all out collapse in an instant, leaving him without fighting spirit, hesitant, not good at thinking, and afraid. If you move forward bravely, but you are afraid of your hands and your brain, worrying about this or that, you will only waste your time and do nothing well in the end.

As the saying goes: Everything depends on human effort.

When you do anything, you only need to go all out to break through the difficulties and bravely walk out of the difficulties. When there is no way out, you will risk your life and fight for a new way.

When you are born as a human being, you must be wise in your life and work. You must understand these four ways of being a human being and learn to never suffer losses