What kind of people you are with, what kind of life you have to live.

Stay away from these three people who will spend the rest of your life.

Only with comfortable people, laugh at life!

As the saying goes: listen to the sound, listen to the sound of gongs and drums.

A person's character can be seen by his words.

"Guiguzi" emphasizes: "When the speaker listens to it, he must be in love."

Guiguzi's so-called "reasonable" is to conform to the listener's mood.

If someone complains to you unilaterally, it means that he doesn't care about your feelings at all.

The other party must not treat you as a friend, but as an emotional "trash can".

You know, the energy between people can influence each other.

With people with positive energy, you will become optimistic and confident;

With people with negative energy, you will also be full of entanglements and troubles.

Zeng Guofan once said: "Those who complain about others must exercise more restraint."

People who complain too much must have a hard time.

The ancients said: "If there is no reason to complain about heaven, heaven will not allow it;"

If you treat others for no reason, others will not accept it. "

People who like to complain, not only God despises him, but also those who are complained by him refuse to accept him.

Anger and resentment, disaster must be not far from him.

If you don't want to be dragged down by such people, you must stay away as soon as possible.

Guiguzi said, "Let yourself support others."

Tolerance and humility are not only the needs of building morality, but also the needs of communication.

No one can live in a vacuum pure land.

In complex and diverse interpersonal communication, it is inevitable that there will be collisions and offenses.

Be a man, you must be elegant and clear.

It's not appropriate to get to the bottom of it in such a hurry, for a small matter many years ago.

There is a saying in Tao Te Ching: "There is no fish in clear water, and there is no disciple in people's view."

Treat others with too much care, and no one will want to deal with you.

You need to know that it can accommodate the whole world and can be accommodated by the whole world.

Because of a little contradiction and fault, people are kept away.

Not only will it alienate friends, but it will also be narrow-minded.

"Caigen Tan" has a cloud: "Don't blame others for being small, don't send others private, and don't miss people's old evils.

These three things can do harm far away, but also cultivate morality. "

Don't criticize others' mistakes;

Treat other people's privacy, don't reveal it;

Laugh at others' past.

If we do these three things well, we can be kind to others and avoid disasters.

A good relationship is always mutual.

Guiguzi said: "People have evil, so avoid it."

Knowing that others have hobbies, you can disagree, but at least respect them;

Knowing that others have certain taboos, you can not understand, but at least you don't offend.

It is necessary to "vote for what you like" and "avoid what you are afraid of".

This is the most basic boundary between people.

Selfish people always think that there are fools in the world.

The so-called human feelings are just relationships, and you can stay when you run out.

Take all your kindness to him for granted.

As "Caigen Tan" said:

"Hunger is attached, fullness is suffocating, jealousy is urgent, and cold is abandoned."

When you are hungry and cold, you run to take refuge in others;

After eating and drinking, pretend nothing happened.

Seeing that there is money at home, I quickly go to curry favor;

Lu Yu poor relatives, but abandon people.

Associating with such people is doomed to be "useless social intercourse".

It will only take up your time, waste your energy and consume your sincerity, so stay away as soon as possible.