As the saying goes: "If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer." The words left by our ancestors have been tested by practice and have some truth. We should concentrate on listening and learning with an open mind, so as to avoid detours in life.

First, family members speak with one ear, while outsiders talk in Jin Zijing.

Testimony: Parents are the closest people in our lives, the people who care about us the most and love us the most. No matter what they say is good or bad, it is from the heart and it is for our own good. Children often don't understand and refuse to listen, and always feel that what outsiders say is the truth.

Second, the heart of hurting people is indispensable, and the heart of preventing people is indispensable.

Testimony: evil is rewarded with evil, and good with good. It's not like you don't report it. Not yet. Don't think of hurting people at all, but in order to protect your family from harm, you still have to be defensive.

Third, be kind to others on weekdays and help others when encountering difficulties.

Testimony: the road of life is your own. Usually you are kind and helpful. When you are in trouble, others will naturally help you.

Fourth, ask for a gentleman and help people when they need it.

Testimony: don't rush to the hospital when you encounter difficulties. Asking for help must be a gentleman, not a villain, or you will encounter greater trouble. If you are interested in helping others, you should give them timely help, not icing on the cake.

5. People are not proud of good things, and flowers are sometimes lost.

Testimony: Life is like a dream, thirty years in Hedong and thirty years in Hexi. There are good times and bad times. Don't get carried away in good times, and don't lose heart in bad times.

Six, one chopstick is easy to break, and ten chopsticks are as hard as iron.

Testimony: two people are United, and their profits are broken. Although a person's strength is weak, if we unite, we will form a powerful force, invincible and invincible.

Seven, people have perseverance, everything can be done, and people without perseverance, everything collapsed.

Testimony: Where there is a will, there is a way. No matter what you do, you must have perseverance and perseverance to get close to success. Three days of fishing and two days of drying nets can do nothing.

Eight, not afraid to eat and pick a big bowl, I am afraid of being lazy.

Testimony: I'm not afraid to eat more, even if I'm going to explode, as long as I can do my job well. What I fear most is laziness. If I don't work, I can't help it.

Nine, when the blind don't talk about light, when boils don't talk about sores.

Testimony: everyone should look at the occasion and the object, and don't say which pot is not open. I am blind and can't see anything, but what you just said is the light that others can't see. When you see a leper, you still talk about sores. Isn't that uncomfortable for others?

Ten, people don't know happiness, and ships don't know how to flow in water.

Feeling: when people enjoy happiness, they often don't feel happiness. Only when they lose it and recall the past will they know that what they had before is happiness. In fact, every moment and every possession is our happiness. We should always know how to cherish it, and don't wait until we lose it to regret it.