Rebellion is a headache for many parents, but as long as they give sincere love and enough patience, their children will become lovely one day. In the face of children who don't want to go to school, parents should first understand their real thoughts, such as why they are tired of learning, looking at the problem from the child's point of view, whether their learning foundation is poor, whether parents or teachers give them too much pressure, or whether they have been subjected to school bullying and so on. Only when he knows the real reason can he adopt a personalized guidance method.

How to persuade rebellious children to go to school well?

1, set an example to improve management. The role of example is very important. You should take the lead for your children and set a good image for yourself. Parents love reading, and children will naturally not be tired of learning.

2. What are the reasons why children don't want to go to school? Is it the pressure of study? Or can't handle interpersonal relationships well at school? Still nervous with parents? All these will lead to children's weariness of learning. It is suggested to communicate with children attentively, feel their inner thoughts and be their strong backing, not to preach, but to give them advice and help.

3, more care, more understanding of children, more encouragement and care, children's rebellious period will soon pass.

4. Yan Kuan has a degree. It is necessary to grasp the scale of combining leniency with severity, let the child know in advance what will happen if he continues to break the jar, and finally let him decide for himself.

5, do not expose shortcomings. Don't compare him with other children. Through sincere communication with children, you can understand their true inner thoughts.

6. Treat children like friends. The attitude towards children is the same as that towards friends. When children encounter difficulties in learning and have poor grades, don't reprimand them in the style of parents, but patiently help them find the reasons for the mistakes and communicate in a way that children can accept.

7. Have something to communicate with your child, don't be arbitrary. When a child makes a mistake, parents are gentle and patient in dealing with the problem, do not criticize the child at will, take reasonable ways to let the child realize his mistake, and parents actively guide him to correct his mistake, which has the best effect. For example, children's puppy love in the rebellious period leads to a decline in performance. This is because parents should not be rude, but talk to their children and explain the benefits of puppy love. Parents also express their views and hopes for their children.

8. Parents influence their children with their own actions. Parents are children's first teachers, and even affect their life. Therefore, parents' words and deeds should set an example for their children. For example, parents are playing mahjong and having a good time, but they ask their children to study hard. If you don't get good grades, you will be punched and kicked. Q: Can children be convinced from the heart? Everyone has an answer in his heart.

9. Establishing equal family relations is easier said than done. Parents no longer play the role of parents' managers, communicate with their children on an equal footing and analyze various phenomena in life. When they encounter problems again, their families form the habit of discussion and analysis, and they can discuss problems with each other calmly.

Every parent loves his child deeply, but the way of love is different, and the child's growth experience is different. Therefore, parents must pay attention to this problem. Pass without blocking, every child will be rebellious, blindly criticizing education and high-pressure policies, and the effect is often not ideal. To build a bridge of communication, at this time, parents often focus on their children's grades, while students care more about their parents' love, grades are the result, and the learning process is more critical.