I advise you to have a glass of wine. There is no reason not to go out. -Wang Wei's "Send Yuan II An Xi"
Sailing alone in the blue sky, I can see the Yangtze River flowing in the sky. -Li Bai's Farewell to Meng Haoran on the way to Yangzhou.
Even if the Peach Blossom Pond is deep, it is not as deep as Wang Lun's sending away my love. -Li Bai's "To Wang Lun"
The bright moon is slowly becoming round at sea, and we share this moment from far away.
1. I drink a pot of wine from the flowers alone. No one is with me. Raise my cup, I invite the bright moon, which brings me its shadow and makes us three people. -Li Bai's "Drinking the Bright Moon Alone".
Thousands of apricot trees on the riverside have opened a new night wind. The garden is full of shadows, shining in the green waves all night: spring breeze all night. Tang Wangya's Spring Tour Song.
We said goodbye sadly, and our two officials went in opposite directions. After all, the world is just a small place. ("Farewell Du to Shu Guan")
Oh, my friend's prince, you left again, and I heard them sigh behind you. (Li Bai: "Send a friend"
The grass turns green again in spring, but what about you, my friend Prince? ? (Bai Juyi: "Farewell to Ancient Grass")
4. Weicheng is rainy and dusty, and the guest house is green and willow. Sincerely advise friends to drink a glass of wine, and it is difficult to meet their relatives when they go out to the sun. (Wang Wei: "Send Yuan Er An Xi")
It's freezing and rainy, and it's already night in Wu, so it's calm to see the guests off. (Wang Changling: Breaking up with Xin Jian at Furong Inn)
6. Mochow has no confidant in the road ahead, and no one in the world knows you. (Gao Shi: "Don't be big")
7. Peach Blossom Pond and thousands of feet are not as good as Wang Lun's. (Li Bai: "To Wang Lun")
8. The solitary sail is far away from the blue sky, and only the Yangtze River flows in the sky. (Li Bai: "Farewell to Meng Haoran on the way to Yangzhou")
9. We watched him go east through the tower gate, leaving only hoofprint behind him. (Song of Snow White sends Tian Shuji home)
10. Outside the pavilion, beside the ancient road, the grass is blue and the sky is blue. The evening breeze blows the flute, and the sunset is beyond the mountain. Horizon, a corner of the sea, intimate friends are half scattered. A ladle of muddy wine makes me happy. Say goodbye to Meng Han tonight. (Li Shutong: "Goodbye")
Today's wine is drunk today, and later generations will not forget it (Cao Zhi's "Song of Complaints")
Jiangnan has nothing, and it is spring (Lu Kai's "Poetry for Ye Fan")
We know each other very well, so why bother? Let's talk about the preface first (Tao Yuanming answers Master Pang's book)
Knowing each other far and near, Wan Li is still a neighbor (Zhang Jiuling's "Send it to Li Shaofu")
Laugh when you meet someone, or cry when you send someone away (Wang Wei's "qi zhou's farewell to three ancestors")
The short life is not uniform, and the same disease is also the same trouble (Meng Haoran's "Send the Great Position")
Fellow comrades will grow old when they meet (Wang Changling's "Long Songs")
Mountain, how I long to reach you, this is the only way to keep pure (Li Bai's To Meng Haoran)
Until you appeared in my dream last night, because I have been thinking about you (Du Fu's dream of Li Bai)
Outside the trees in shuyun, people are not separated (Qian Qi's "Bi Yu Shu Wen Ba Zhong Disease")
suggestion
Friendship (gu m: n bà o zh and ji ā o)
Guan Zhong and Bao were the most familiar people in the Spring and Autumn Period. Later, it was often compared to a friend with deep friendship.
In Liezi Mo Lifeng: "My parents know steamed stuffed buns. This world is called Guan Baoshan. " Sima Qian's Biography of Historical Records and Yan Guan in the Western Han Dynasty: "My parents know Bao Zi."
Before the case, I vowed to look at the mountains and rivers with perilla. It was originally ~, and the position was tilted, which raised the gap between Sun Pang and Sun Pang. ★ Chen Ming Ruyuan's "Jin Ping Mei Story Poem Case"
The formal use of law; Become an object; Include praise
Synonym friend of life and death
Antonym nodding acquaintance
General regulations
Once upon a time, Qi had a pair of good friends, one named Guan Zhong and the other named Bao. When he was young, Guan Zhong came from a poor family and had to support his mother. After Bao knows, please ask Guan Zhong to invest and do business together. When doing business, because Guan Zhong has no money, almost all the capital is invested by Bao. However, when he made money, Guan Zhong took more than the bag. Bao's servant looked at it and said, "It's strange that Guan Zhong gets less capital than our master, but he gets more when he divides the money!" " Bao Shu Ya said to his servant, "You can't say that! Guan Zhong was born in a poor family and had to support his mother. It doesn't matter if he takes a little more. " On one occasion, Guan Zhong and Bao went to war together. Every time they attack, Guan Zhong hides behind. Everyone scolded Guan Zhong and said, "Guan Zhong is a man who is afraid of death!" Bao immediately spoke for Guan Zhong: "You misunderstood Guan Zhong. He is not afraid of death. He wants to take care of his old mother! Guan Zhong listened and said, "I was born of my parents, but Bao knows me!" " ! "Later, the king of Qi died, and childe Zhu became king. They eat and drink every day and do nothing. Bao had a premonition that there would be civil strife in Qi, so he fled to Ju 'an with his son, while Guan Zhong fled to Lu with his son Jiu.
Soon after, the kings of Qi were killed, and civil strife really happened in Qi. Guan Zhong wants to kill Xiaobai, so that Kuang Zheng can be king smoothly. Unfortunately, Guan Zhong missed the arrow when plotting against Xiaobai, and Xiaobai didn't die. Later, Bao He returned to Qi earlier than Guan Zhonghe and became the king of Qi. After Xiaobai became king, he decided to make Bao the prime minister, but Bao said to him, "Guan Zhong is better than me in all aspects, so he should be asked to be the prime minister!" Xiao Bai listened: "Guan Zhong wants to kill me, he is my enemy, and you let me ask him to be the prime minister!" " "Bao Shu Ya said," I can't blame him. He did this to help the owner correct it! " After listening to Bao's words, let Guan Zhong come back as prime minister, and Guan Zhong really helped to govern Qi well!
Guan Zhong said, "When I was poor, I used to do business with Uncle Bao, divide the money and take more for myself. Uncle Bao doesn't think I am greedy for money, but he knows I am poor! I used to work for Uncle Bao, but as a result, his situation was even more difficult. Uncle Bao doesn't think I'm stupid, but he knows there are good and bad luck. I was an official three times and was dismissed by the monarch three times. Uncle Bao doesn't think I have no talent. He knows I haven't met the right time yet. I called three times and escaped three times. Uncle Bao doesn't think I'm timid He knows that I have an old mother at home. Miyako failed for a long time and died for it, but I was humiliated in prison. Uncle Bao, don't think I don't know shame. He knows that I am not ashamed of trifles, but of not revealing my fame to the world. My parents gave birth to me, but Uncle Bao knows me! "
After Bao Shu recommended Guan Zhong, he was willing to be his subordinate. Bao Shu's descendants were paid for generations in the State of Qi, and more than ten generations had fiefs, so they often became famous doctors. People all over the world don't praise Guan Zhong's talent, but praise Bao Shu's understanding of people.
Don't rejoice in things, don't grieve for yourself.
I am satisfied with the casualness of my life.
Later, when people praise their friends for their good friendship, they will say that they are "close friends".
High mountains and flowing water are allusions to the friendship between two people.
The allusions about high mountains and flowing water are as follows:
According to Lu Chunqiu. "This is an article", playing the piano, listening to songs, playing the piano and looking at Mount Tai. Zhong Ziqi said, "It's good to play guqin! Just like Mount Tai. "When I was young, I aimed at running water. Zhong Ziqi said, "It's good to play the piano, just like running water. "After Zhong Ziqi's death, Boya broke the piano and never played it again, because he thought there was no drummer in the world.
According to Liezi, Boya is good at drumming and Zhong Ziqi is good at listening. Boyaguqin, aiming at the mountains, Zhong Ziqi said,' OK, I'm as tall as Mount Tai!' Determined to manage water, Zhong Ziqi said, "Good, like a river!" Zhong Ziqi will understand what Boya said. Boya swam in the shadow of Mount Tai. When he died in the rainstorm, he stopped at the bottom of the rock and felt sad, so he played the drums with the help of the piano. At the beginning, it was an exercise of "Lin Yu", and even the sound of "mountain collapse" was heard. Every time a song is played, Zhong Ziqi needs to be poor for its benefit. Boya gave up the piano and sighed, "OK, OK, my son listens to her husband! Imagination is still my heart. Where can I escape? "
You mean "break off the relationship" Guan Ning and Hua Xin were very good friends when they were young. They are inseparable all day, eating at the same table, reading and sleeping in the same bed, and get along very well. Once, they went to work together, weeding in vegetable fields. The two men kept working and soon hoed a large area. I saw Guan Ning raise his hoe, and the hoe fell, and with a clang, he met a hard thing. Guan Ning curiously turned over a large piece of soil he had hoed. In the dark mud, something from Huang Chengcheng is shining. Guan Ning looked intently and saw that it was a piece of gold, then said to himself, "What hard thing should I take? It turned out to be a gold ingot. " Then, he ignored it and went on weeding. "What? Gold! " Huaxin, not far away, couldn't help being moved. He quickly dropped his hoe and ran over, picked up the gold nugget and studied it carefully in his hand. Seeing this, Guan Ning waved his hoe and blamed Hua Xin, saying, "Money comes from hard work. A moral person can't covet the property he gets for nothing. " Hua Xin listened and said, "I understand this truth." With gold in my hand, I look around and can't bear to put it down. Later, he was really tired of Guan Ning's eyes, so he reluctantly left Gold and went back to work. But he is still thinking about gold in his heart. He has never worked hard before and is still sighing. On ning saw him like this, no longer say anything, just silently shook his head. On another occasion, the two of them sat on the mat reading a book. I was watching with rapt attention when suddenly it boiled outside, with drums and music, mixed with the shouts of escorting and the noise of people watching. So Guan Ning and Hua Xin got up and went to the window to see what had happened. It turned out that a powerful person was passing by by by car. A large group of followers, wearing weapons and uniforms, rushed to the security car and stood down. Looking at the interior decoration, it is even more luxurious: the car body is carved with exquisite and beautiful patterns, the curtains covering the car are made of colorful silks and satins, surrounded by gold wires, and the roof is inlaid with a large piece of jade, which looks magnificent and eye-catching. Guan Ning was very disdainful of these things, and went back to the original place to pick up the book and read it attentively, completely turning a deaf ear to the noise outside, as if nothing had happened. Hua Xin, however, was totally attracted by publicity and luxury. He felt that he couldn't see clearly in the room, so he didn't even read the book. He quickly ran to the street to follow the crowd and carefully followed the motorcade. Guan Ning witnessed what Hua Xin had done, and could no longer restrain his sigh and disappointment. When Hua Xin came back, Guan Ning took out a knife, cut the mat in half in front of Hua Xin, and announced sadly and decisively, "Our aspirations and tastes are so different. From now on, like this cut straw mat, we are no longer friends. " True friends should be based on common ideological basis and goals, common pursuit and common progress. If there is no tacit understanding of the inner spirit, only superficial intimacy, such friends can't really communicate and understand, and they lose the meaning of being friends.
What should friendship do?
Teach you the simplest, I often use it, endure everything, ignore some trivial things, do your ideological work at any time, and stabilize your heart. Be steady, avoid irrelevant conflicts, and be modest if you can, provided that you don't suffer yourself. After a long time, they get used to it, and the result is just the opposite. They can't live without you. They think you're a good man. You're a good man.
To start a friendship, as the saying goes, "two friends stick together" and "share weal and woe"; The literati also said, "Boya never dies in the bell, and people in the ages have broken the piano." "When you meet a stranger, you have no regrets." The past has passed, and now we have to say that these poems are no longer the essence of contemporary friendship.
The best description of friendship is "However, as long as China has our friendship, heaven is still our neighbor". Unfortunately, they "we two officials go the opposite way" and "official" ruined the fun. "I advise you to drink more wine. People have no reason to go out of Xiyangguan." Send magic lamps to each other, and there is an acquaintance feeling on the wine table. "It feels like snow outside at dusk. How about a glass of wine inside?" Seeing Du Fu's poems, I thought that Lao Du and Wei Ba Chu Shi were bosom friends, but actually they only met occasionally, and their friendship was strengthened by poems.
Speaking of Lao Du, we have to sigh that Li Bai is no longer a buddy. In 763 AD, one year after Li Bai's death, Du Fu left Chengdu and came to Zizhou. Because I haven't heard from Li Bai for a long time, on the Mid-Autumn Festival in August, he wrote a poem "No See" in memory of his poet friend Li Bai. "A thousand agile poems are lost in a glass of wine", which shows the deep affection of Lao Du. But Li Shixian was a lot colder. "I took out a pot of wine from the flowers and drank it alone. No one is with me. Until, holding up my cup, I asked the bright moon to bring me my shadow, so that the three of us can enjoy ourselves; "Birds fly high, and lonely clouds go alone. Seeing each other tirelessly, I only respect Tingshan. " Take nature as your friend; "I went to sleep drunk, and the Ming Dynasty planned to embrace love." I just blew people away. On the contrary, Mr. Wang Lun's simple feelings in southern Anhui moved the poet, saying that "Peach Blossom Pond is deeper than thousands of feet, not as good as Wang Lun".
There are many descriptions of friendship in ancient poems, but what I have never understood is that A Dream of Red Mansions, as the "Bible" of China's national literature, seems to have no decent friendship, and the relationship with Zhen is typical utilitarianism, and the relationship between Jia Baoyu and Zhen is even more subtle.
Life is impermanent, how much warmth and tenderness friendship can bring. Mr. Lu Xun said: "It is enough to have a bosom friend in life!" If you really have a confidant, you will appreciate the moving beauty of this world even more.
1. We said goodbye sadly, and our two officials went in opposite directions. After all, the world is just a small place. ("Farewell Du to Shu Guan")
Oh, my friend's prince, you left again, and I heard them sigh behind you. (Li Bai: "Send a friend"
The grass turns green again in spring, but what about you, my friend Prince? ? (Bai Juyi: "Farewell to Ancient Grass")
4. Weicheng is rainy and dusty, and the guest house is green and willow. Sincerely advise friends to drink a glass of wine, and it is difficult to meet their relatives when they go out to the sun. (Wang Wei: "Send Yuan Er An Xi")
It's freezing and rainy, and it's already night in Wu, so it's calm to see the guests off. (Wang Changling: Breaking up with Xin Jian at Furong Inn)
6. Mochow has no confidant in the road ahead, and no one in the world knows you. (Gao Shi: "Don't be big")
7. Peach Blossom Pond and thousands of feet are not as good as those in Wang Lun. (Li Bai: "To Wang Lun")
8. The solitary sail is far away from the blue sky, and only the Yangtze River flows in the sky. (Li Bai: "Farewell to Meng Haoran on the way to Yangzhou")
9. We watched him go east through the tower gate, leaving only hoofprint behind him. (Song of Snow White sends Tian Shuji home)
10. Outside the pavilion, beside the ancient road, the grass is blue and the sky is blue. The evening breeze blows the flute, and the sunset is beyond the mountain. Horizon, a corner of the sea, intimate friends are half scattered. A ladle of muddy wine makes me happy. Say goodbye to Meng Han tonight. (Li Shutong: "Goodbye")
Friendship is a kind of quiet and peaceful love, guided by reason, formed by habit, produced by long-term understanding and common agreement, without jealousy and fear.
-Homer
Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity.
Gibran
True friendship is like wildfire-it is brightest in the darkest moments around you.
——D.M
True friendship is a slow-growing plant.
Washington
Goodwill brings happiness, and civilization brings harmony.
-Hugo
A good friend is like a different person.
-Aristotle
The best thing in the world is to have a few solemn friends with integrity in their minds and hearts.
-Einstein
You may forget the people you laughed with; But you will never forget the people you cried with.
Gibran
People who have no friends or enemies are ordinary people.
Lafat
Treat everyone equally, talk to a few people, and don't lose to anyone.
-Shakespeare
Among all kinds of loneliness, people are most afraid of spiritual loneliness.
-Balzac
One person may perish, and two people may be saved together.
-Balzac
What is most helpful to friends is often not money or all material support, but friendly attitudes, pleasant conversations, expressions of sympathy and pure praise.
Franklin, American statesman and scientist
Friendship is a soothing agent for our sadness, a soothing agent for our passion, an outlet for our stress, a shelter for our disasters, a negotiator who hesitates, and our brain.
Children's freshener, the outlet of our thoughts, is also the exercise and improvement of our meditation.
Jeremy Tyler, American statesman.
Friendship, a noble and beautiful friendship, is based on mutual respect, deep sympathy, never malicious envy of others' achievements, and cultivate the consciousness that collective interests are above all else.
-ostrovsky, writer of the former Soviet Union
If a person does not pay attention to making new friends in life, he will soon feel lonely. Sir, people should
Constantly enrich your friendship with others.
-samuel johnson, English writer
Sincere and rational friendship is priceless in life. Can you always be loyal to your friends?
Being a man worthy of him is the best test of your soul, personality, psychology and even morality.
-Marx, German thinker and philosopher
The longest friendship can give people joy. What's more, there is such a wise saying: "We spent a lot together.
Only a friend in need between people can be called unbreakable. "
Cicero, ancient Roman orator and politician
The best friend is the kind of person who doesn't like to talk much, but can silently face you and connect with you closely.
Gorky
Your enemies and friends can break your heart together. The enemy slanders you, and friends quickly pass it on to you. -Mark Twain
True friendship can not only tolerate a friend's advice, but also make yourself accept it. -Cicero
Friendship is the wine of life. Younger
It only takes a little effort to make friends in prosperity; It is more difficult to find friendship in trouble than to ascend to heaven.
-epiktetos
Apart from the concept of selflessness, mutual respect seems to be another key point of friendship. Mo Luoa
If my friend is blind, I will look at him from the side. Joubert
Many people who look like friends are not friends, while many people who are friends don't look like friends.
Democritus
Not too far from the moon; The longest distance we have to walk is still between us. -Charles de Gaulle
Friendship is a school to cultivate people's feelings. -Suhomlinski
If friendship can adjust people's feelings, then another function of friendship is to enhance people's wisdom. bacon
For a wise man, advice is superfluous; Advice is not enough for a fool.
-Moliere
Friendship is as pure as the morning fog. Flattery can't get friendship. Friendship can only be consolidated by loyalty.
Marx
The way we make friends should be to give others benefits, not to take them. This friendship is the most reliable. -Thucydides
Even the most sacred friendship may contain secrets, but you can't misunderstand a friend because you can't guess his secrets. -Beethoven
The so-called friendship is a transaction between equal people without interests. -Audience
The beneficiary must always keep that kindness in mind, but the benefactor must not keep it in mind.
-Cicero
Friendship is a means of virtue, which is a virtue in itself and a common virtue. Feuerbach
We shouldn't keep our friendship at any cost. If friendship must be sacrificed for the greater love, there is no way; But if we can keep it up, then we can really achieve a perfect state. Tagore
If friendship is destroyed, even love can't be redeemed. -"Five Books"
When friends have sincere feelings, enemies have no chance. Sadie
Smart people should try their best to build friendship, not hatred. -"Five Books"
Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity. Gibran
Only when people treat each other sincerely can they become true friends. Anyone who plans a friend is deceiving himself. -Haji Abubakar Iman
Friendship is often formed by the common interests that two people are more aware of than one person, and this relationship is pure only when they are satisfied with each other. Strindberg
Songs of friendship, liveliness and youth will ease our pain. Konzkevich
Friendship is generosity and honor, gratitude and the Sisters Of Mercy's wisest mother, and is the deadly enemy of hatred and greed; It is always ready to sacrifice itself for others, and it is completely voluntary and does not need others to beg.
Boccaccio
The best way to keep friendship is to give him nothing and not lend him money at the same time.
Paul
Aside from friendship, we can't talk about youth, because friendship is the most beautiful flower that adorns youth.
Daisaku Ikeda
Compromise is not a solid foundation of any friendship. Tagore
An ordinary person should not make friends casually. Friends, so there are also. -Xun Kuang
If a scholar has a jealous friend, he will not be a friend of a sage, and a gentleman who interferes with a minister will not be a sage. -Xun Kuang
The two are integrated, and the benefits are broken; Concentric words are as fragrant as blue. -"Yi copula"
Learning and living with meaning cannot be without meaning; I grew up in Qi, so I can't be incoherent. -Jia Yi
A gentleman does not know his friends, but trusts them. -Sima Qian
I don't know who he is, but treat him as a friend. -Sima Qian
Dig a well to flow, make friends to end. -Jia Dao
It is wise to approach saints; A fool is a fool. -Pi Rixiu
A hundred years of heart, who is limited to northern Henan? -Yao He
Kindness should be learned from running water. -Yu
Shallow and frivolous, do not make friends. -Guan Lin
Begging friends must be good, and it will be good if it is good. It's hard to find friends, so the middle changes. If you want to know each other and seek friendship, try gold first. -Meng Jiao
Making friends with non-sages will inevitably lead to love and hate. -Meng Jiao
All the scenery on the road is irrelevant; The important thing is to meet your soul mate. -Bao Rong
Life begins at the end, don't split in the middle. -Helan Jin Ming
Choosing friends is like panning for gold. -Li
Pro-cutting is continuous, and thinning is not strong. -Han Yu
Knowing each other from afar, I don't know how deep the clouds and seas are. -Wang Changling
I hate each other and know everything. -Li Bai
It's no good knowing someone in an emergency. -Li Bai
Make friends, score points and sharpen opinions. Zhou Xingsi
At the turn of power, the ancients were ashamed. Yiqing Liu
Good people in the same place will get better education day by day; If the wicked swim, they feel ill every day. Ye fan
Do not forget the poor travel, long-term attention. -Bao Zhao
If there is no profit, there will be no harm, no concern, and meticulous. Only a Taoist can do it. -wangtong
The wicked stay away, and the good know each other. -Wang Fanzhi