Family education is the foundation of all education. Only when the foundation is solid can one be educated. A simple response to advancement and retreat is actually the beginning of tutoring. However, many parents do not Ignoring the importance of this grounded education, we missed the opportunity to establish good moral character. The loss is so great that it is hard to estimate!
※ In ancient times, filial sons always started by obeying their parents. Different, but the principle of filial piety has never changed through the ages.
When the night is quiet, let’s ask ourselves, how far have we lived up to the teachings of our parents? How can we not accept the joy of our children and take the initiative to share their worries and relieve their labors?
※ Some people can remember the teachings of their parents throughout their lives, while some people never recall the slightest instruction. When the former face loss and hardship
they are often able to rein in the precipice and know where to go. Dare to be ashamed of your parents and make them worry and humiliate; but the latter often make trouble and muddle through, making your parents sad.
※ "With deep love comes deep responsibility." All parents in the world are like this. As children, we rarely understand the deep love of our parents.
When we make mistakes, we cannot accept the teachings of our parents and teachers, but instead follow the instructions of our parents and teachers. In fact, knowing shame is almost courageous, and changing things for the better is not a shame. , this requires great courage to do. Therefore, we should be even more grateful for the painstaking efforts of our parents to teach and achieve our achievements.
※ The ancients cared for their parents in every possible way. Although modern technology can be used today Products that allow parents
parents to enjoy material things. However, do you and I often miss our lonely and sick parents? In fact, what they need most is - family care!
※ Taking care of yourself in the morning and dusk, being able to care and greet your parents in the morning and evening is the happiest and warmest pleasure in the world. Think about it one day
You and I will both be old. If we can honor our parents now, our children will I will also follow suit. Repay gratitude and live in a grateful world, only then can life be meaningful.
※ "If your parents are around, if you don't travel far, you will have a way to travel." This is true in ancient and modern times. Especially in today's society Serious contamination can allow
parents to know the whereabouts of their children, which not only relieves parents from worrying, but also prevents accidents.
When children have deficient moral character, the most distressing thing is Nothing is better than parents. If you fail to fulfill your filial piety and bring shame to your parents,
How can you not make your parents heartbroken?
※ Anything that does not belong to you, even if you like it very much, is not yours. Don't be greedy, let alone take it for yourself.
Especially things belonging to public institutions. Many people mistakenly think that it doesn't matter, but they don't know that items regardless of size, as long as they are not theirs, it is "stealing". Behavior.
※ Luxury cultivates desires. If you can always be content with less desires, then you will remain unmoved by fame and fortune. Moreover
What’s more, the most important thing in a person’s life is to be able to How can I make my parents sad if I am worthy of myself and my parents, worthy of heaven and humbled by the earth?
※ Seeing my parents’ brilliant lives, I think about the youth and hard work they have devoted their lives to their family and society. At this moment ,
It is the time when children repay their filial piety. Even if it is just a gentle greeting and care, parents are most happy and gratified. If they can enjoy their grandchildren, it will be the most rare family relationship. Happy!
※ The Book of Rites says: After seventy, one’s nature is like that of a child, and what one needs most is care and comfort; and the elderly are also most
afraid of loneliness, so they can be close Parents always care about them, relieve them of worries, and make them happy. This is also a good way to be filial and caring for relatives.
※ The Filial Piety Sutra says: "The body, hair, and skin are affected by the parents, not by the parents. Dare to damage, this is the beginning of filial piety." This tells us that children should be able to take care of themselves, and never let their parents worry about their own health, especially bad habits, let alone contamination, such as Liquor, sex, gambling, etc., are all the culprits of ruining the family and harming the body.
※ If innocence is passed down to the family, the virtues of the ancestors will be passed down. In the past, people valued passing on "virtue" to the family, but today's people do not know "virtue" "In fact, it lays the foundation for family happiness and social stability. Therefore, the beginning of "moral education" lies in the family. Parents set an example, and children will naturally follow suit. Therefore, family education is very important.
Yes, you must not be negligent!
※ Think about my parents who have raised me, raised me, caressed me, and cared for me since I was a child. They did everything to help me grow up. So it’s only natural
We should also have a feeling of gratitude and filial piety. And filial piety and support for parents does not matter whether they are rich or poor. Everyone can do it. The fear is that - - there is no filial piety!
※ Since ancient times, the fate between parents and children has always been divided into deep and shallow, likes and dislikes. If the fate is weak, it is inevitable that you will regret not being liked by your parents
But as long as you are determined to improve it and express your love with actions Filial piety will one day impress your parents! King Shun is our best example.
※ The Master said: "How much advice do you have to give to your parents?" When faced with the faults of their parents, a truly filial son does not just follow them blindly. Parents' words
should be acted upon accordingly, with a pious heart, skillful words, or asking appropriate elders to help, so as not to cause them to commit more serious sins.
※ When advising or enlightening others, the most important thing is to have a sincere heart, gentle words, and a sincere attitude
Only in this way can you impress the other person. Not to mention your own parents, Attitudes and looks should be more tactful.
※ If the first attempt to persuade your parents of their fault is ineffective, you should use skill and convenience and try to persuade them tactfully again. Never give up easily and let your parents bear a disgraceful reputation!