1. Those who study can experience a thousand lives, but those who do not study can only live once.

——George Martin

2. Everyone should strive to maintain their independence and not depend on anyone, no matter how much she loves this person or how much she believes in him.

3. To the mind, the same house is just a house; to the heart, it becomes a home; to the soul, it becomes a temple. The house remains the same, but you have undergone transformation, your perspective has changed, your level has changed, your way of seeing things has changed. A house that does not have these three is incomplete and poor.

——"Survival Wisdom"

4. Waiting is different from patience. You cannot wait for things that can be changed with hard work, and you must be patient with things that cannot be changed with hard work. Don't wait for what you have to do, but be patient with the results. You cannot wait for your goals in life, but you must be patient with human nature.

——"Useful Intelligence"

5. Learn to obtain your own happiness by making others happy, instead of obtaining happiness through boring conflicts of cannibalism. If you can tolerate this kind of kindness in your heart, then every heavy burden in life will become easy, or at least bearable, and you can find your way to life patiently and fearlessly, and bring joy and laughter everywhere. .

——"Einstein Talks about Life"

6. Burying feelings too deeply is sometimes a bad thing. If a woman hides her feelings for the man she loves, she may lose her chance of getting him.

——"Pride and Prejudice"

7. We experience everything that suddenly comes to us in life, unprepared, just like actors entering the first rehearsal. What is the value of life if the first rehearsal in life is life itself?

——"The Unbearable Lightness of Life"

8. Illness is the dark side of life, and it also bears onerous civic obligations. Everyone is born with dual citizenship. One is from the kingdom of health; the other is from the kingdom of disease. Although we all wish to belong only to the kingdom of health, sooner or later we must become citizens of the kingdom of disease, at least for a while.

——"The Metaphor of Disease"

9. We cannot influence others through intelligence, but emotions can do this.

——Schopenhauer, "The Wisdom of Life"

10. Memories are like this, even those filled with deep affection and love. It seems that there is an unconscious healing in the brain. The process, despite our painful determination never to forget it, can still heal the wounds.

——"The Thorn Birds"

11. Life is as bleak as a rooftop with a north-facing skylight, but boredom is an unknown spider in every dark corner of her heart. Make a web.

—— "Madame Bovary"

12. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that I burst into tears after just one sentence. Sometimes, I also find myself gritting my teeth and walking for a long time. road.

——"Ball of Suet"